(a) A question that should always be considered: What is a university?
The first article "Adult" in China's ancient cultural classics "Four Books" has a clear meaning at the beginning: "The way of a university lies in virtue, in being close to the people and ending in perfection." It means that the way to govern the country and safeguard the country is to advocate and carry forward open and aboveboard virtues and moral policies, be close to the people and respect public opinion widely, and pursue perfection endlessly and strive for perfection. The universities in the Four Books, of course, do not refer to today's universities. But it can still inspire us,
The task of advanced learning is to cultivate noble moral integrity, cultivate the thoughts and feelings of loving the people, acquire the knowledge of judging right and wrong and train the ability to choose. The goal of higher education should be to cultivate students' quality and improve their ability.
(2) We should recognize two main differences between universities and senior high schools.
One is the difference in learning. In high school, passive learning is the main task, waiting for the teacher to assign learning tasks every day. Learning during college mainly depends on self-consciousness. No teacher gives you specific study tasks every day, and no teacher tells you everything you should learn in college. The second is the difference in life. When you enter the university, you need to live an independent life without parents, family, relatives and former friends.
(3) Students should also pay attention to cultivating three abilities during their college years.
The first is the ability to deal with people. As a college student, you must know how to be a man before you do anything.
. We should constantly learn knowledge from books, learn experience from classmates around us, and realize the truth of being a man from the little things in life. We should not forget to push ourselves, improve ourselves, and reflect on ourselves if we encounter surprises. If you want to gain a foothold in the future society and stir up your own unique waves in the tide of the times, you have no choice but to be better than others.
The second is learning ability. In college, learning comes first. Learning is our bounden duty and main task. College students should learn to study. Having received higher education does not mean that what we have learned can be competent for any job, nor does it mean that our ability has reached a certain height, nor does it mean that we no longer need to study, but it means that we have mastered the learning methods, learned to learn, and have the ability and quality of self-study. Therefore, in college, learning to learn is more important than our professional knowledge.
The third is interpersonal skills. Interpersonal communication is the exchange of thoughts, emotions, attitudes, information and learning. Exchange ideas, a mind will have all kinds of ideas. Sharing happiness will double happiness. Share the sorrow, and the sorrow will be halved. Everyone is a unique individual. He must know something that other individuals don't. Only by being good at learning from others what you don't understand can we make continuous progress. Students think too much about their own needs in communication, and it is easy to ignore the needs of others, which is easy to produce contradictions and conflicts. Some lack knowledge of communication etiquette, which makes communication lack of harmonious atmosphere; Some people don't know the principles of communication, or they violate laws, regulations and moral norms in communication, or they are violated because of the fault of the other party; Some people are too keen on communication activities, which affects their normal study, work and life. Especially with the development of Internet and the appearance of campus network, some people are obsessed with online chat rooms or online games and spend their precious time and energy in the virtual world. Some people even treat online communication as a joke, and violations of morality and law occur from time to time.
Second, how to successfully complete college studies when studying or studying in a university.
(A) to establish the consciousness that going to college is to further self-mold, not to enjoy the comfort.
In the college life that everyone has experienced, many students have reflected such a problem: they don't know what they want to do in a day, or they have no motivation to do anything. This is a common phenomenon among students who have just entered the university, because they have lost their goals.
For many students, college is the last stage of their study. After graduating from college, they must find a job, but for them who have been students for twelve years, it still seems out of reach. There are no teachers around you in the university. Whether you learn or not is entirely your own business. Without the homework you couldn't finish before, you think that class is empty for you. What if you study? What if you don't study? Instead of making yourself study so hard, let yourself live a little more freely. No one told you what to do, leaving you at a loss.
Many of us lack spiritual independence and good self-control, and these people simply can't grasp these seemingly excessive freedoms. You don't know what kind of person you want to be or what kind of career you want to be. From the ideal of primary school, to the future of junior high school, to the university of high school, and then to the confusion of university. In this process, these people have completed the transformation of their life goals, and the last thing left is dead worm skin. It is precisely because of losing the goal that it has become a ship without direction. Without wind, it is downwind.
I believe that if every student has a goal, everyone will live a full, busy and fruitful life. So, please ask each student to set a goal for himself.
When you graduated from college, you suddenly found that you didn't learn really good skills except for getting a college diploma and talking about a seemingly abstruse topic. What you do may be just a nice name, or something that anyone can do. Will you still complain then?
Each of us wants to live a high-quality life, to let our closest relatives live a carefree life, and to leave traces of our own value in the world, but these can not be achieved through enjoyment. God gave each of us hands and a brain to create and think. This period of time in college is your best study time, so please give up enjoyment, try to reshape yourself and save strength for the future takeoff.
(2) Be determined to be a teacher, seek defeat alone, and develop a killer weapon within four years, and it is best to have a "unique hidden weapons".
The employment of graduates has become a very heavy topic for college students, and "graduation = unemployment" is gradually becoming a social phenomenon. Therefore, before talking about ideals, college students should first consider whether they can find a job and survive as soon as possible after graduation. For many people, it is great to be able to stop asking poor parents for food after graduation.
Enterprises will never lack ordinary soldiers who are dispensable, but general talents who can turn the tide and guide the country. Intellectually, we are not far apart, so to become generals, we must pay more and make greater efforts than anyone else. As long as you have a skill that others can't replace, you are the first and you can give orders naturally.
When everyone's skill level is the same as or similar to yours, or when your job seeker has low requirements for your special skills, at this time, the selected job seeker must have other "bonus" skills. For example, in today's big cities, the beggars who can get the most money are not those with the worst physical condition, but those who are miserable and can show off street acrobatics.
(3) Read more books and study more, enrich your cultural knowledge and enhance your communication skills.
"Your reading speed determines your success speed"-it has been recognized as the truth of the times! ! With the continuous development of the times, the most important thing in all walks of life is team spirit. Personal communication ability directly affects whether you can quickly and well integrate into a team, which is a very important social ability besides personal expertise.
Your success depends on the available resources and the number of contacts that can help your career development.
It's no use studying the dead. Even if a dead student gets a good diploma, at most, it means that he will have a better diploma to work in a better unit. ...
(4) Try to participate in social practice, get in touch with society and experience work as soon as possible, and learn to be a self-reliant person in college.
What China needs most is a large number of knowledgeable and self-reliant college graduates. However, family education and school education in China have produced "wizards" who can only take exams, but are helpless and call their parents whenever they have difficulties!
In college, giving full play to one's advantages and talents, regardless of taking a part-time job, can reduce the burden on parents and hone one's mind at the same time. More importantly, you can experience what a real job is, what qualities and talents you want to do in society, and what you can provide for yourself. So as to know more deeply how to make full preparations for graduation.
(5) Responsibility is a sign of maturity!
If I remember correctly, your annual tuition fee is more than 5060 yuan, plus your living expenses and other expenses, most of which can reach 12000 yuan. Now you are in college and receiving a high-cost education, but how much output did your parents get from your high investment? Most of you come from rural areas or small business families, and not many people have rich family wealth. Every penny you use now is the hard-earned money of your parents, even the money borrowed everywhere, which contains incomparable hardships and love for you. On their faces scarred by years, there are also a pair of hopeful eyes for you, turbid and even a little fuzzy.
Responsibility is not given to you by others, but determined by your mature thoughts. You have a responsibility to your parents that you can never shirk, but you gave up your mission in inaction and degeneration. After the end of the semester, when you go home for the Spring Festival, your parents still love you, are still full of hope, and still exhort you, but you don't apologize at all, don't even talk about your study, and don't even show them your report card. You hide in a corner and sign their names by yourself. It is difficult to build a thing, but it is easy to destroy it. Students, please remember and assume your responsibilities to your parents.
(6) Face what you think is unfair with a normal heart.
Maybe someone will ask: why do I have to struggle painfully when others can live a chic life? When many students first entered the university, they had the experience of running for the offices and cadres of the student union and various societies. Afterwards, many students lamented: unfair, everything depends on the relationship. I would like to ask, if so, what about schools and society? Doesn't society play politics, relationships and money more thoroughly? What makes you stand in society in the future? It doesn't matter if you want money. If you don't have money, what else?
(seven) regular exercise, and actively participate in cultural and sports activities organized by the college.
Physical fitness is the capital of the revolution, and active physical exercise is to find ways to prolong one's life and improve the quality of life. Literary and artistic activities cultivate people's sentiments and are conducive to physical and mental development.
Three, a few questions that have to be said when going to college.
(A) emotional overflow is only regarded as a need!
Since we are talking about college life, we should fall in love. The university is adolescent boys and girls, and love inevitably happens here. But I don't know when it started, but this normal thing that can't be normal has never been questioned: today's college students are full of feelings.
Nowadays, college students are mixed with most utilitarianism, desire and indulgence in their emotions. When they graduate every year, lovers eat their last meal, hug and kiss for the last time, then turn around and leave, embark on their own journey and forget this relationship as if it had never happened. Love is only regarded as a need.
Please cherish your emotion, otherwise it will become very cheap. What is love should be clear in my heart. I think: being attracted because of Excellence, being loved because of attraction, and learning to love because of being loved, this is the process of love.
Absolutely not: attracted by desire and vanity, addicted by attraction, abandoned by indulgence.
There are a large number of college students in every grade around me who have nothing to do all day, playing games and falling in love. Today, they are all sad because they can't find a job and live in panic! If I had known today, why should I have! Students remember: there must be a degree of chic and a number of depravities!
(2) Know yourself better than others, have original opinions, and are not bound by traditional stereotypes.
Of course, it is impossible to know yourself, but college is indeed the most precious struggle time in life, because during this time, you are directly fighting for your personal future. Only by thoroughly understanding and exerting your own advantages can you successfully grasp the future earlier. According to the thinking habit of China people, most students will only find a platform according to others' suggestions when they graduate from college, and then find their own weaknesses on this platform, and then start to correct their personal weaknesses for a long time, so as to be competent for their work-this is really a national mourning.
In college, most students devote at least 80% of their energy to exam subjects that are meaningless to their future. In college, studying for exams and attending classes for roll call are still led by stereotypes like middle school students. Such people can only become victims of education, never grasp themselves, and can only be sent to college!
(3) Skipping classes is also a learning skill. Many people skip classes when they go to college, and I personally agree with skipping classes, but skipping classes should be meaningful and "value for money." Remember, skipping classes is also a learning skill, not just an escape problem. Absenteeism can't be an excuse for being tired of learning and lazy.
(4) Do what college students should do and ask some questions that college students should ask. Don't think that you can get what you once wanted in the Youth League Committee, Student Union and Association. Your enthusiasm for work is likely to change because of what you see and hear, but don't be afraid. You have 1 1 year to adapt or endure, and decide whether to continue or quit.
(5) Doing your own thing well in peacetime is the greatest patriotism.