When searching for some questions about seniors on Zhihu, you will always see such a title.
What disgusting school sisters did you meet in college?
It seems that there are all kinds of spit on the face, and the senior seems to be a derogatory term.
I always feel that when I go to college, the relationship between people becomes particularly fragile, especially between the previous session and the next session. In college, it is often seen that the address of seniors and sisters seems to become a polite expression more often. Only people who are unfamiliar, unfamiliar, or in an organization will call it that.
I once heard my other half say that he used to call me senior because he thought it was a more appropriate word. Later, he stopped calling me senior because he thought the relationship was much better than before. If he calls me senior again, he will feel embarrassed.
The word "senior" seems to be a special title between people. I call it senior because I am polite. Thank you. I call you Senior Senior Senior because I don't know you very well, or in other words, I call you Senior Senior Senior because I'm not interested in you and I'm not familiar with you.
When I was a freshman, I met a senior at the school spring sports meeting. At that time, I remember that she took the first place in the women's 400 meters and went to the podium to receive the award. His first impression is amazing, but her height of less than 1.65 meters exudes unique charm.
Later, I heard from friends that he was the Minister of Literature and Art of the Student Union. Some people say that he became a minister by virtue of his strength, while others say that he has found something.
. Of course, I believe it is the former.
Because my club often has some cooperation with the school meeting, such as hosting large-scale activities of the school and organizing and planning projects, I also made many friends at the school meeting, and I gradually found that my senior sister didn't seem as beautiful as I thought.
. As a presidium, seniors often ask their subordinates to do all kinds of things, otherwise they will be reluctant. After all, he is not a member of the student union.
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Later, I learned that the boyfriend of the senior is the president of the student union.
I have never been used to the bureaucratic overbearing state of the student union, so I don't know much about the student union.
Some students in the student union said that when they entered the student union at that time, at a meeting, because several members didn't call the president of the student union, the seniors didn't say goodbye and say hello when they saw him, so they scolded him in the toilet for nearly 10 minutes.
. Let me see, these two people's personalities are really a couple.
What I can't stand most is his tone in the student union, which makes people feel that this person is quite easy to get along with in private, but when he comes to work, it seems like a different person.
He sent a message in the group, and no one replied for a long time. She began to swear in the group, and then privately talked about why she didn't read the news in the group and didn't reply in time.
Maybe these are the things I have to face in the student organization or in my future work, but I still have some difficulties in accepting them.
The deepest point of mosquito-repellent incense is that at the beginning, the college always organizes various activities, and the teacher will arrange people to participate. Then he will send it in the group, let the students organize and send it to some people.
He posted in the group, um, when, what activities, and whether anyone has time to go. At that time, only one person in the group replied that I had time. Later, he whispered to me that you had done this activity.
I took a long bus ride that day and went to a real estate company, where I signed my name and came back by bus. The senior told us that this is a sponsor of the college. He was originally a senior, and he was appointed by the college to attend his own affairs. He finally shifted the work to the people in the Ministry.
After that, no matter what news he sends in the group, I will not respond so truthfully.
Obviously it is your own business, but you have to push it to your own Ministry.
I don't think I was unprepared at first, and then I would point at it and scold it not far away. I think this behavior is really disgusting.
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So he never considers the feelings of people around him, nor does he consider others.
Before I entered the university, I always fantasized that it might be appropriate for us to be seniors and sisters when we arrived at the university. After all, it doesn't matter if they go to college before us. After all, they came earlier than us, so it is natural that they may give us some care more or less, but in our view this semester, all this is impossible.
On the contrary, the sisters in the dormitory get along well, but the most troublesome person is this senior.
His temper is notoriously bad in the dormitory. He is always inconsiderate of other people's feelings. He always talks to his boyfriend on the phone at one or two in the morning, which keeps everyone awake and makes him tired of his boyfriend there. He may get up every time when others are still sleeping, making the whole dormitory bang.
During recess, it is also common for him to play games and swear.
In the past, everyone would try to talk to him and hope that he would correct it.
At first, it will converge a little on 1, and then it will return to its original state the next day.
He always thinks he is great and superior as a student union member, but how can people around him tolerate his temper unconditionally?
To tell the truth, nobody is his parents, so there is no need to get used to it.
Later, she broke up with the whole dormitory and went out to live.
I think the most basic relationship between classmates, seniors and sisters, and people is mutual respect.
No matter in an organization or anything, we are all equal, and you are not superior to me, nor much worse than me.
As a senior, you give me some truths I don't know and some experiences I don't know. I will appreciate your care for me in my life and work, but please don't show off your student organization and the chairman of the minister, because he is really disgusting.