First of all, communicate with your husband more, whether it's a joke or a real preference for boys! Secondly, tell your husband that it is not artificially controllable to have boys and girls. Everything you have is fate, your own flesh and blood. Thirdly, sex is second, and the baby is healthy, smart and lovely. Finally, you got pregnant. Tell your husband not to put pressure on you, which is not good for adults and children! After all, children can succeed if they are well trained.
Your husband wants a son. You tell him that having a son is your determination, and not having a son is your family's problem. Don't put pressure on me. Men all over the world want to have sons, so can he still marry a wife? Don't be stressed, everything goes with the flow. My daughter is my father's lover in his previous life and my precious daughter in this life.
Don't worry, the intelligence of the newborn has a lot to do with the mood of the mother. If you really care about this matter, talk to your husband more about how to have a daughter now (because you are sure to have a daughter). Maybe you'll be more surprised to have a boy. Don't put things that haven't happened directly on a very high level.
Actually, it's nothing. Don't punish yourself for a man's quick words.
When I was pregnant, I asked my husband if he liked boys or girls, and everything he said was his. I'll go. I want to discuss the sex of the child with him, but it's up to the father now. I was in a bad temper and scolded him. What I said was like what happened to me.
Actually, it was me who was bored afterwards. Women are pregnant, sensitive and suspicious, and love to think about things. In fact, you don't feel bad that your husband likes his son. What really matters is your position in your husband's heart and your love for you. Don't doubt that her husband is kind to you and your son. Women will have a bad temper because of dysmenorrhea and pregnancy. If you say it without thinking, consider your husband drunk and talk nonsense. Don't pester you when you are born.
Let me explain your confusion. First of all, you have to understand, does your husband love you, is your husband good to you, and is he good to this family?
If one of these three questions is negative, then, I'm sorry, everyone can't help you. The problem is your husband. I can only add one more question, asking how to transform my husband into a person who meets the three questions.
Now you can see from your description that your husband meets these three questions, so the problem is not your husband, but yourself. The root of your illness lies in your husband's confession after drinking. The message you read from his modality is that you are just his fertility tool and feel that you are not respected. Before, he should be a person who loves you more than anything and can give up everything for you. But suddenly you find that the man who is going to be a father will become so sophisticated, so direct, so disrespectful, and even wonder if his past sweet words are true. Am I married to the right person? This is the damage that the person in your heart did to you when he collapsed.
Then let's see if your husband's personal settings have collapsed in your mind. In my opinion, if you cling to it, it means it is really broken. However, this mistake lies with you, because you set his people too high and too big. When a man is in love, he always says something tall, that he loves you to death, that you are the only one for him, and so on. Why else would you fall in love with him and marry him? Love in these fairy tales is really rare in reality. Just listen to it. After marriage, you should gradually regain your senses and lead an ordinary life of daily necessities.
So now your husband is wrong? In my opinion, there is nothing wrong. Your husband is a little male chauvinism, which is a common problem of ordinary men. Men love face, and within the range that the Woods can bear, men can brag about each other and his guilt. You can recall whether he stared at you at that time, or secretly looked at you after staring at you, for fear that you could not stay here any longer. Of course, you didn't give her a chance to stare at him on the spot, so you fucked him directly on the spot and buried a knot in your heart from then on. So, the problem is you. What he said is not true, he is bragging. Praise you, right? You still want to compete with cattle? That's not necessary. If you care about it again, it will go from the back of the cow to the head of the cow, and then to the tip of the horn.
In the end, it's all your fault A man bragged about BI, but he didn't think it was dirty. Let him blow enough.