The main manifestation of psychological distortion is that there are no rules and they are dismissive of social rules and social morality. Moreover, psychologically distorted people are also selfish, do whatever they want, do not consider anyone or anything, and do not accept criticism from others. Another thing that needs to be clear is that psychological distortion is not the same as psychopathy.
Below I will list some specific characteristics of psychological distortion:
1, abusive: They will give orders by threatening others, but they don't know how to respect others. They always screw things up instead of getting things on track.
2. Have an inferiority complex. Most of the distorted psychology of inferiority is due to lack of self-confidence or some kind of frustration or failure. When people encounter setbacks or blows in the process of life and work, it is easy to make people feel inferior, but in general, they will not feel inferior.
3. Love jealousy. Jealousy-type distortion psychology mainly comes from subjective jealousy. Jealousy is human nature, and proper jealousy will make people make continuous progress, but excessive comparison and jealousy will bring too much pressure to the original irrational psychology and lead to psychological distortion.
4. Love fantasy. Fantasy is an imaginary process that points to the future things that individuals hope, and there is nothing wrong with it. However, excessive unrealistic fantasy can also cause psychological distortion, which leads to being divorced from reality. daydreaming lives in a virtual world all day. In the long run, you will have delusions, and in severe cases, you will form psychopathy.
They have extraordinary beliefs: they think they are the core of the world and others are just their own tools. Even in the face of sufficient evidence, they never change their minds.
6. Lying without blinking: They lied on purpose. They don't care whether their lies will be exposed. They can always make up for it by telling another lie.
7. No sense of rules: They despise social rules and think that all rules will not take effect on them.
8. Extremely selfish: They only consider themselves and what they want to do, without considering anyone or accepting any criticism.
9, cunning, good at manipulating people's hearts: the best at controlling others, shirking responsibility and deceiving others. This allowed them to escape almost all the condemnation. In particular, they will take the credit for themselves and pass the buck.
10, many of them were brought up from childhood: they brought their own problems from childhood to adulthood and to society. Many of them have had problems such as lying, cheating, stealing, playing pranks and playing truant.
1 1, don't understand emotions: but they can imitate emotional reactions vividly, making it difficult for people around them to see through their essence.
12, can't plan: they are not good at planning. They always look to others to solve problems. Their understanding is limited, they think that many things are simple and reasonable, and they refuse to be questioned by others.
13, neither regret nor guilt: no matter how bad influence you have caused others, you don't care about the consequences of your actions. Even to their family and friends, they will pass the buck.
14, hysteria: Even if they look happy, the smallest thing can cause their rage.
15, no sense of morality: they especially like to do immoral things.
16, they are often bored: they pursue excitement and can't stand the step-by-step life.
In fact, in daily life, there are still many psychological distortions. For example, innocent crying, irritability, self-harm and other phenomena all belong to the category of psychological distortion.
In real life, we often meet all kinds of people or things. It is normal for our brains to be occupied by irrational thoughts occasionally, so please don't blame yourself too much, but face the pressure and frustration in life with an optimistic attitude and avoid the tendency of depression. It is also helpful to take a trip in your spare time.
The above is an introduction about how to correct people's psychological distortion and the main manifestations of psychological distortion, hoping to help you.
People with psychological distortion often have the following manifestations:
People who are obviously paranoid are overly sensitive to setbacks and rejections, and tend to hold grudges; Aggressive and easy to argue with others; Suspicion, misinterpreting unintentional or friendly behavior as hostility or contempt; Strong jealousy, self-division, high self-evaluation, can not tolerate other people's mistakes.
Others don't abide by social norms, ignore and infringe others' rights, are indifferent to others' feelings, heartless, lack of sense of responsibility, ignore social norms and obligations, often violate the law and discipline, never feel guilty inside, have extremely low tolerance for setbacks, and always take it out on others when things happen.
Some people have some moral problems since childhood, such as lying, playing truant, smoking, drinking, refusing to return, bullying the weak, often stealing, fighting, gambling, deliberately destroying others and public property, ignoring family education, school rules, social morality and etiquette, and even committing sexual crimes.
Psychological distortion will have innocent crying, mental sensitivity, violent tendency, self-imagination, self-harm and so on. The initial cause of psychological distortion is often the key factor leading to different changes in distortion, so the behavior is also different.
For example, some crazy scientists and artists are prone to psychological distortion because of cognitive contradictions, which has a certain impact on the development of humanities. Psychological distortion caused by social environment will endanger social order and form unhealthy atmosphere. There are many reasons for psychological distortion, such as unfortunate family abuse, violence, parents' divorce and so on. Or being bullied by classmates for a long time at school and so on. It's usually bad, such as bad career, sudden disaster and so on. It will cause people's inner aversion to life and society, leading to inner distortion. If this state lasts for a long time, all kinds of thoughts of killing, suicide and self-harm will arise.
The main states of psychological distortion are:
1, often crying at night
2. Murder, suicide and self-mutilation often occur. (Most people will realize)
3. There is a tendency of borderline personality disorder.
Because a person doesn't associate with others for a long time, or is laughed at in social circles, he may imagine another person as his friend. Seriously, it will become schizophrenia.
5, withdrawn, violent, irritable, no friends
6, repeated theft, sabotage, truancy, truancy.
7. Have a tendency to be depressed
Psychological distortion refers to the closed psychological distortion of information obtained from the outside world after passing through the brain, which forms wrong cognition and then affects a person's behavior. It is a kind of rebellious psychology, which often produces resistance to the occurrence of certain things.
1. Disobeying the rules and ignoring the moral bottom line.
Most people are bound by morality, law and self-control to maintain social order. However, there is such a person in life who doesn't want to control his inner desires. Whenever there is an opportunity, he takes advantage of various loopholes, ignores morality and even shows disgust and disdain for the so-called rules. Such people are proud of their success by hook or by crook, and don't care about the possible consequences of their words and deeds. Even if there are consequences, they have no regrets.
2. Ruthless, build your happiness on the pain of others.
When we see the pain of others, our empathy will make us unconsciously change ourselves into the protagonist in the event to feel the feelings of the parties concerned. But not everyone has this quality. Some people are indifferent after seeing other people's misfortunes, and even show abnormal excitement and high emotions. For example, in this epidemic, a female student surnamed Xu scolded "Save your mother" in the Weibo in the face of everyone's anti-epidemic action.
3. The murder delusion is serious, and the revenge is heavy.
Usually, we will deal with injuries in time, and then as time goes by, we will gradually forget the pain caused by injuries. However, there is a kind of person who likes to collect all kinds of injuries caused by others everywhere, and even has been worried about these injuries. Even though these injuries may be small and unintentional, he can imagine all kinds of conspiracies. With the continuous growth of age, their memory of this "injury" is not becoming more and more vague, but more and more clear, and their revenge is getting heavier and heavier. One of their most obvious external manifestations is that whenever someone chats with him, or someone chats with him, he begins to accuse others of how much "harm" they have caused themselves, and he is strongly eager to arouse others' voices.
1. Extremely inferior
Inferiority often comes from lack of self-confidence or a sense of frustration, even for people with strong anti-frustration ability, it is more or less inferior. However, most people often feel inferior only in one aspect, not in an all-round way, or even in an unreasonable low evaluation of themselves. For people with distorted psychology, their inferiority complex is also distorted. Once you encounter unsatisfactory things, you will have all kinds of bad emotions, complaining blindly, feeling sorry for yourself, complaining about others, and even giving up on yourself. They will never want to analyze the causes of things and the roots of their bad emotions, sum up experience and make a comeback.
2. Self-righteous type
Self-righteousness, as the name implies, is self-righteousness and will not tolerate any criticism from others. This self-righteousness may have two psychological reasons. One is afraid that others are better than themselves, so they pretend to be lofty, show a strong, arrogant and expressive look, and deceive themselves. In essence, I am afraid to face failure and my own shortcomings. The other is arrogance, thinking that you are superior to anyone else, arrogance, a typical all-round fantasy of infancy. He doesn't take others seriously and can't accept their opinions. Under any circumstances, he can't objectively face and analyze the facts, which is one-sided and paranoid.
3. Crazy jealous type
Everyone has a jealous heart, but for people with psychological distortion, this jealousy is morbid and can penetrate into every detail. Usually people will have some jealousy because of different results caused by personal background, learning ability, work level and personal skills, or because of the unequal distribution of social resources such as property and status. Some people will turn jealousy into their own motivation, while others will compare with others and chew slowly, which will bring too much pressure to their irrational psychology and lead to psychological distortion, so that the advantages or success of others are a stimulus to him, while the failure of others has become his comfort, asking about others all day, creating right and wrong, and gloating over others' misfortunes.
4. selfish
Selfishness has existed since ancient times and is one of the sources of all evil. As the dark side of human nature, selfishness is subjectively manifested as disregard for friendship, disrespect for public morality and mischief; Objectively, it is manifested as unscrupulous means to achieve the goal, harming others and benefiting themselves, regardless of public and private interests. Once a person's selfishness reaches a distorted level, he will only take, be ungrateful and unwilling to pay, just like a vampire, a baiwenhang, and even turn his back on others.
5. Vanity type
6. Paranoid patients
This delusion can be an imaginary process that points to one's future, or it can be some unrealistic self-imagination. For example, a serious delusion of being killed always suspects that there is a conspiracy in what others say and do to themselves; Fantasize all day that you have achieved various successes but never put them into action; If you fantasize that others love you or worship you when your strength is seriously out of touch with reality, you will suffer from paranoia and even psychopathy in the long run.
7. Other extreme types
In addition to the above six kinds, there are some extreme types of psychological distortion. For example, the weak psychology of self-pity and self-pity and the robber logic of "I am weak and I am reasonable"; Another example is misogyny, being suspicious all day and catching shadows. Wait a minute.
Psychological distortion belongs to a kind of rebellious psychology, which is different from psychopathy because it has a biased understanding of things and cannot be objectively analyzed.
Psychopathy refers to that people's psychology and behavior deviate from the normal state and behave abnormally in thinking, perception, emotion and will, which belongs to a morbid psychology. A psychopath can actually have a correct understanding and judgment of things in his heart, but he doesn't want to respect the rules, but uses his understanding of things and all the knowledge and resources he has to satisfy his abnormal psychology. Such as corpse rape, sexual assault, harassment, pedophilia, transvestite, fetish and so on.
There are many reasons for a person's psychological distortion, and factors such as environment, growth and personality may affect his psychological growth. It may happen at school; May occur in the unit; May occur in family relationships; May occur in other people's negative comments; It may also come from one's inferiority complex and the concept of "not good enough" instilled by one's family ... Everyone may encounter distrust or insecurity in life. Without proper psychological guidance and catharsis, it may develop into emotional isolation, cognitive deviation and even psychological distortion. No matter what the source is, we can find our emotions in time, and channel them in time through sports, karaoke, shopping, yoga, keeping a diary and other emotional venting methods, and establish our own social support resources, which can greatly alleviate our anxiety and discomfort and avoid further psychological harm and distortion.
In my opinion, the so-called mental distortion is the spiritual release of self-comfort in the face of cruel reality, right? !
Before 04, I used to drink a bottle of Shijiazhuang Daqu with a bowl of old tofu and make up for it in the morning. I don't spend a morning for many years, and every time I get drunk, I am radiant and full of spring flavor; For this reason, I once asked the doctors in the People's Hospital about the reasons for alcohol dependence and the more I drank it, the more strange it became. The doctor said: the physical condition of alcoholics is getting worse every day, the blood flow is slow, and the oxygen supply to the heart and brain is insufficient, which leads to slow movement and trembling all over. But as soon as you touch alcohol, alcohol heating accelerates the rhythm of blood circulation, and you feel strong and awake; Accidentally encountered usury in life, boy! Endless debt collection calls, nightmares every day; Working hard to earn some money is not enough to pay interest; The economy doesn't allow it, and his anxiety makes him addicted to alcohol. Unconsciously, wine and meat became a luxury, and cabbage soup was integrated into my inseparable diet structure. Looking back now, I sigh: I mixed a lot of bumps, and I can eat enough just by eating bumps; Eat a cabbage for seven days, which is healthy and free of oil and salt! The friends around me are vivid, and I am the only one left; Some people were killed by riding motorcycles, some people died of sudden cardiac death while walking, and some people became stiff after falling asleep. Nine times out of ten, it has something to do with wine! In this way, I have to appreciate the beauty of usury. This is really usury and getting rid of alcohol dependence. I still don't understand the right or wrong of a sentence.
In daily work, patrol is an indispensable routine duty; I do it with relish, and colleagues often talk about the boredom and helplessness of work; I have confided many times: Why do some people do morning exercises in the streets and parks? Colleagues say that people are exercising; I said, for example, our patrol intensity can't catch up with others, for example, we exercise with pay. Where can I find such a good thing to kill two birds with one stone under the sun?
Look down upon in the society, no matter at home; The salary is really pitiful, barely spent by one person; But I never dislike my job, and I don't find it difficult to support my family with my salary. Calm down and think about it carefully: don't talk about ancient times, take World War II for example; How many good people dug trenches and built turrets under the Japanese bayonets to come forward and bargain with Dongli people who are worse than animals and seek benefits? Have enough to eat and wear, and be happy day and night; Why don't you try to slide a little, and the lazy Oriental knives will dare to serve you! Compared with those folks, I am so happy that I have nothing to say; Take a look: mutton hotpot with money, peanut beans without money; A bottle of wine a day makes life meaningful!
..... I want to say a lot. I think I am a generous person. As far as I am poor, I bought more than 100 thousand: I am poor today, and I will have 5 million tomorrow; This wish is not a dream, the lottery will help me realize it. I have no money, right, house or car: I want to improve my life, too? Why don't I buy lottery tickets? ! I can live with guilt. What can I struggle with?
The truth of all so-called mental diseases such as depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder, mania, bipolar disorder and schizophrenia.
Psychological and mental problems are very serious social phenomena at present, especially among children, which makes people feel sad. How many people are in despair, how many families are on the verge of collapse, and most people are still in the dark and don't know the truth and the way out. That's terrible!
What I want to tell you is that all the so-called psychological and mental problems, no matter what type, no matter how serious, no matter how complicated the symptoms are, actually do not exist at all. Why are these so-called mental diseases so difficult to cure? Because we have been solving a non-existent problem, how to solve it? The result will only cause more and more serious problems. Obviously, all negative emotions are normal emotions that everyone has, just like breathing. If you have to solve it, you can only solve your life, which is why many people finally choose to go to a dead end. Most people will let go of negative emotions quickly, but we can't. We must solve it, even if the larger foe breaks through, the result will be more and more serious. As we all know, there is no need to solve the problem unless it is solved. No matter how hard life is, there is nothing to let go of. When you leave this world, you can't take anything away.
Life is a drama, so why be so serious and bother yourself.
In fact, there are many people worse off than you in reality. Most people don't take it seriously or answer it. We not only pick it up, but also don't want to put it down. As long as you put it down, there will be no pain. If we can't let go, there's nothing anyone can do. But there is a painful way. Suffering is enough, and you will naturally let go.
I want to tell you that it is a very wrong choice to choose to end your life. Ending life is not the end of pain, but just the beginning of another endless pain. Life will never end, and every life has its meaning.
Anyway, what is the essence and truth of these so-called psychological and spiritual problems? Knowing this, all the so-called psychological and spiritual problems are solved. Because it doesn't actually exist, of course, there is nothing to solve.
Some people say, how can it not exist? The problems we face in reality are as real as the pain we bear in our hearts. We just can't sleep, our symptoms and diseases are real, I just can't see any hope of life, and so on. These pains obviously exist. Isn't it self-deception to say that it doesn't exist?
Yes, everything is so real to you. What I want to say is that these so-called real situations are only results, not causes, but also superficial phenomena, not essence. They are not static. To solve these so-called psychological and spiritual problems, we must start from the root causes. Whether through psychological counseling or drug therapy, everyone is using phenomena to solve phenomena and problems to solve problems. Instead of solving the problem, it will continue to worsen.
All psychological and mental problems, no matter what kind of negative emotions, will be manifested as uncontrollable thoughts, constant thinking, unable to eat, unable to sleep, physical and mental fatigue. They just want to understand that the more they think about it, the more uncontrollable the vicious circle will be until it collapses. This is because in this process, our energy will gradually run out and we will lose the ability to control our own thinking more and more. In the end, even our own lives will be given up, which is an illusion of low energy state. In that energy state, even a sesame seed will become a mountain and crush itself.
In this case, only by increasing energy can it be changed. This energy is not only eating and resting, but more importantly, it is to stop the erosion of negative energy (negative thinking) and constantly improve positive energy. To break the vicious circle, stop thinking (you will never think about it, and you will never think about the result) and turn to positive thinking to save energy. With positive energy, you can control your own thinking and everything in your life. With positive energy, the problem that bothered you in the past has changed from watermelon to sesame.
So how do you stop thinking? We just can't help thinking! In fact, we can't control our thoughts because negative energy (all negative emotions) is so powerful that we are controlled by negative energy. Because different people have different negative emotions, physical symptoms are more strange, and there are all kinds of so-called psychological and mental problems, in fact, the essence is the same.
As long as the essence is grasped, all the so-called psychological and spiritual problems naturally do not exist and do not need to be solved at all, because there is nothing to solve. No matter what your situation is, no matter how serious it is, no matter how real and difficult the real problem is, no matter how serious your health is, even if you are terminally ill, there is only one root cause and one solution. Find the root cause, all the problems in life are soap bubbles.
What is the root cause? The fundamental reason lies in the wrong three views and the wrong pursuit of value. At present, it can be said that 99% people in the world are pursuing the wrong things. Pursue material things, all kinds of desires, pornography, unfilial, do not cherish life, only know to take but do not know the meaning of life is to give rather than take, and have pressure (have to pursue a specific goal or requirement). Because of these wrong views, every thought, every word and every action in our hearts are directed at desires and needs. There must be a desire behind every negative emotion. There are also many parents who impose these misconceptions on their children, blaming others for hurting their children and blaming themselves. All our desires and negative emotions are negative energy, which will be constantly entangled and amplified. In the end, positive energy will be less and less, and even we will be proud of negative energy and ashamed of positive energy. Isn't this a common phenomenon in modern society? Why do most people live in pain? This is the general source. Everyone's performance is different, some are physically ill, some are mentally ill, some encounter setbacks or disasters, and so on.
When we get the so-called mental illness, we begin to blame others, think that we are unlucky and think that heaven is unfair. In fact, God is the fairest. Every mistake you make, you have to bear it yourself. And everyone is choosing to avoid responsibility, but how can they escape? Some people want to talk to a psychological counselor, but actually talking is releasing negative energy, which will not only solve the problem, but also attract more negative energy. Some people hope to solve it through drugs. It's obviously a matter of heart. How to solve the drug? Isn't that ridiculous? Others want someone to help them. How does the other person in your heart make it work? How can others understand your whimsy under negative emotions?
You live in a dream and only wake up. Who can interpret dreams? Wake up. What's the problem?
To solve this problem, you must first understand where you are wrong and that no one is punishing you. It's all your own fault. The universe is the fairest. If you are still happy when you are wrong, it is really unreasonable. In fact, it's nobody's fault outside, it's all your own fault. Don't complain, just reflect on yourself. The theory of family origin simply doesn't exist. Are harmful. You decide your own destiny, so don't give yourself any reasons or excuses. Don't think that it is caused by all practical problems such as family environment, others bullying you, interpersonal tension, lack of money, stress, physical illness and so on. Wrong, these problems are also phenomena, the result of three wrong views, the result of the same root as your psychological and mental problems, all appearances, and all have the same root of mistakes. Even if these problems are solved, your psychological and spiritual problems still exist, and there will be bigger problems to remind you.
Every pain reminds you that you are wrong and makes you turn around quickly. Once you look back, pain loses its value of existence. The sea of misery is boundless, and turning back is the shore. As long as you don't look back, the pain will follow you. Behind every pain, there is a persistence and a desire. Only let go of persistence and desire. The past is the past, and everything is of my own making. No one has hurt you, and no one can hurt you. Accept what you are facing. This is the result of what you have done in the past and cannot be changed. What we can do now is to recognize our mistakes and correct them. From now on, keep positive thoughts, words and behaviors, stop spreading and releasing negative energy, including at home and on the Internet, starting from the side, starting from small things, starting from housework, helping others, dedicating yourself, letting go of selfishness, desire, material desire, honoring parents, cherishing all life and fearing nature. These are the true meaning of life, returning to humanity. Where will there be any psychological and mental problems? Where are the life problems to be solved? Where does it hurt? What's unfair?
Also, parents with children's problems, please let their children go, let them go, don't care too much, give them a correct outlook on life education, give them freedom, and don't give them too much pressure. Internet generation, less contact with video games, pornographic websites and other addictive things, stop killing children with drugs! ! !
Finally, I can tell you that I used to be a so-called serious mental patient for more than twenty years, no matter how desperate and helpless I was. Now, I have been born again. I hope to share my experience gained with blood and tears with you, and I hope to help more people who are still trapped in the bottomless abyss of pain come out. I hope to save more families and children on the verge of collapse.
Thinking that you have so-called psychological and spiritual problems and trying to solve them is the real cause and beginning of all the pain. With the process of solving, the pain is getting bigger and bigger. This is the fundamental difference between normal people and so-called mental patients. All real problems in life are the same, and not solving them is the best solution. Do nothing. Do nothing. Most people have done it backwards, so it's miserable.
Many people say they can't let go. Nothing can't be let go. People have to put it down when they die. No one can take it away. If you don't put it down, you will continue to suffer on your back. There is no choice, and no one can help you put it down. The only way to let go is to accept, accept what others and yourself have experienced, and accept everything that may happen!
Friends with feelings, I hope everyone will forward more. Helping others is helping yourself.
"duplicity"! Amitabha!
This man has experienced an unusual experience, and his ideas are not understood and accepted by the people around him. After a long time, they don't communicate with the outside world, and they set psychological barriers so that others can't get close to themselves. At that time, they will form a self-centered worldview. It seems to us to be a pervert. In his world, this is the rule.
Who doesn't say that his establishment is beautiful?
It depends on your severity. It's good to think about it once in a while, and it's good to control it. If you often have some inexplicable thoughts and behaviors, you should consider whether it belongs to mental disorder or personality disorder.
From the latitude of behavior, emotion and cognition, it obviously deviates from the state of most people.