1, blind date is not excluded.
Don't exclude blind date, especially older young people. There are fewer and fewer choices for single peers. Blind date is an efficient way to find several objects. According to my own observation, a large part of older single young people find their partners through blind date. The way of knowing is not important, but how to get along.
2. Asking about assets
For most girls, the most important thing to get married is the house, whether there is a house or the ability to buy a house, where to buy a wedding room and whether there is a car.
Before a blind date, you can get to know it clearly through an introducer. There is no need to be embarrassed. These are the guarantees for future life and should be the basic conditions for making it clear before meeting.
3, learn to grasp the big and let go of the small.
There are too many important events in life, so we need to grasp the philosophy of life. Some absolutely unacceptable things, such as divorce and children, such as being too short, should be made clear, and some acceptable minor shortcomings can be put aside first.
Don't hesitate because you are in a hurry, you should be clear about your bottom line, but there should not be too many unacceptable conditions, and you should grasp the big and let go of the small.
4, look at the eye margin
From the heart, the eyes are the windows to the soul. Sometimes you can really see whether a person is pure and upright through his eyes. Compared with the so-called handsome, it is more important to look good and comfortable. A beautiful eye is the soul of a face.
5. Observe universal personality
Pay attention to his "universal personality", not how he treats you, whether he is loyal to his friends, whether he values his feelings for his family and friends, and whether he will be grateful. Whether he is old-fashioned or fresh and exciting can be found through observation and chat, because he will treat his relatives and friends like this and will treat you like this in the future.
6. Expand the circle of friends
Quantitative change will lead to qualitative change. If marriage is necessary for you, I suggest you expand your circle of friends and contacts. You can make more blind dates, even arrange them every week, expand the referee team, socialize more, make more friends and accumulate more personality. The simplest thing is to invite more reliable friends to dinner.