I had dinner with a friend I have known for a long time the other day, and talked about old things. Finally, I inevitably returned to my love life.
My friend said that she likes living alone now, and added the advantages of living alone in a truck, such as comfort and worry.
I remember that she had a close boyfriend before. It is said that she is married, but now she lives alone. This surprised me.
Listening to a person, we are all used to listening to what others say, but we ignore what others don't say. But if you want to know what a person really thinks, you should not listen to what she said, but what she didn't say.
I realized that I shouldn't mention such a stupid thing, so I didn't speak again. No matter what she said, I nodded like a tumbler. I just hope she can finish it quickly and say something else.
Is it true that someone likes someone? Eating alone, sleeping alone, shopping alone, traveling alone, and so on.
Of course not. No one likes loneliness, especially women. They think that a person is also good, not because they really like a person, but because they are afraid of being hurt.
I met a friend in KFC before. This product loves French fries. She thinks that as long as there are French fries in this world. So I called her French fries.
Once I talked to French fries about her sister's story. The sister of French fries is 30 years old, and her family forced her to find someone to marry quickly. She found someone to date through various relationships. But sister French fries didn't want to get married and told her family that she liked being alone. In a hurry at home, she simply went to Shanghai alone.
Once French fries went to Shanghai to play and lived with my sister. In the evening, while chatting with my sister, French fries asked her why she likes a person. How lonely is it?
Only then did I know that Sister French fries had been in love before, and she was the kind of woman who devoted herself wholeheartedly to love.
Sister French fries' ex-boyfriend was the company manager at that time. He is an excellent man in all aspects and is very kind to her.
Once my sister, French fries, was seriously ill and had to be hospitalized for a month. Because no one took care of her, her ex-boyfriend asked for leave and was with her in the hospital.
Every morning, he goes far away to buy my sister's favorite breakfast with French fries. At noon, he will deliver food on time to eat together. In the afternoon, he would push her for a walk in the corridor of the hospital. In the evening, he would chat with her until she forgot the pain and fell asleep. Then he will take a bath.
Every day for a month. The patients in the same ward and the doctors and nurses in the hospital say that there are not many such men now, and they are rare species. We should hold on tight and not let go. Sister French fries was deeply moved by herself and felt lucky to meet a man who really loved her.
In order to take care of her after discharge, they lived together and have been living together since they got sick.
She likes to travel, and her ex-boyfriend will arrange to accompany her to various places for a few days every month and take many photos for her.
Usually as long as she says what she likes to eat, he will immediately go to Baidu to learn the practice and cook it for her the next day.
Not everything is well studied, but for Sister French fries, it is the best thing she has ever eaten. She likes to eat his crispy milk best. Crispy outside and sweet and smooth inside.
Women are emotional animals. Once they love a man deeply, they will forget to be themselves, and everything is centered on the man they love.
Sister French fries' life focus has all become the man she loves deeply. As long as she thinks of being with this man forever, her heart is sweet. No matter how tired you are at work, you will be fine as long as you get home, because you have him at home.
Every time Sister French fries is unhappy, her ex-boyfriend will drop everything to chat with her, tell her jokes and watch a lot of brain-dead dramas together until she is in a better mood.
She knows every day that she wants to marry this man and spend her life with him. She is willing to do anything for him.
Later, French fries got pregnant. She was so happy that she thought her boyfriend would be happy, too.
Who knows that her boyfriend is not only unhappy, but also asks her to abort the child at once, saying that she is not ready to live a good marriage life and can't marry her.
She didn't want to abort the baby and begged for three days. A cruel boyfriend is always reluctant to have children. Tell her it's not the right time. In two years, we will get married, and it's not too late to have children then, I promise.
Sister French fries is afraid that her boyfriend will leave her if she persists. She can't live without him, and finally she can only promise to abort the child.
Sister potato chips thinks it's okay to make such a compromise. He just doesn't want children now. She foolishly believed that she was still the woman he loved deeply.
But things are not as simple as she thought. Not long after, her boyfriend told her that he was married and his wife was on a business trip. It was just a joke at first, but I didn't expect her to take it seriously. His wife will be back soon, and he can't be with sister French fries anymore. He wants to break up.
The ungrateful boyfriend said that he gave her 654.38+ million as long as she promised to make a clean break with him.
The injury is too fierce to prevent, and people have lost consciousness before they can feel the pain. Those once beautiful, once sweet, turned out to be fake At that moment, French fries sister wanted to die. She kept herself in her room for half a month, and was finally found by her parents and sent to the hospital to survive. From then on, she never believed in love, never trusted any man, and lived alone for many years.
I heard from many friends that I like single life very much. I am free, emotional and free and easy. I can go my own way, don't worry about anyone, make money, buy whatever I want, spend whatever I want, and treat myself well. That's enough. How cool. In fact, these are all nonsense, pretending to be strong and deceiving, and comforting yourself by the way!
Everyone grows up with a vision and longs for a true love.
However, nine times out of ten, life makes us gradually understand that disappointment brings too much pain and injury, and the only way to avoid being hurt is to stay away from hope. Without hope, there will be no disappointment, no pain and injury.
No one likes to be tortured by lonely moments, and no one is not eager for company. He didn't, not because he didn't want to, but because he was hurt and didn't dare. After being hurt again and again, we have to pretend to love loneliness.
No one really likes loneliness, we just don't want that broken heart to be hurt again and again! Because a broken patched heart can't stand any more tears.
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