The mother of an ex-girlfriend borrows money from you. After breaking up with her girlfriend, she can borrow money from you as an ordinary friend. Moreover, if you write an iou, you can get your money back normally. Of course, we should pay attention to the ways and means of asking for money, otherwise we will encounter many difficulties. According to the situation you described, I put forward the following three suggestions for your reference:
First, don't ruin the normal friendship with your ex-girlfriend. Although your ex-girlfriend can't be a girlfriend, she can be a general friend. Never turn against each other because you can't be a girlfriend. If you become an enemy, it is really difficult to get this loan of 654.38+10,000 yuan back. Many people can't get back the money they borrowed because they became enemies with borrowers.
This situation has happened to my friend before. My friend Zheng Xiao has been in love with his girlfriend for five years. When talking about marriage, the woman's family asked for a bride price of 380,000 yuan. Zheng Xiao couldn't accept the price and had a quarrel with his parents. Then his girlfriend came to apologize. Zheng Xiao not only ignored her, but also talked about the fault of the woman's family. As a result, the two sides were very stiff.
After that, Zheng Xiao remembered that he had lent a sum of money to his girlfriend's brother. I heard that my girlfriend's brother has prepared money to return to Zheng Xiao. But after all this trouble, my ex-girlfriend's brother got angry, and he just didn't pay back the money. Now, three years later, the money has not been returned.
Second, we must increase repayment efforts. Maybe the ex-girlfriend's mother owes you not only money, but also other people's money. In this case, whoever is in a hurry must pay back the money first. Don't be embarrassed to ask for it because of this relationship with your ex-girlfriend. Pay special attention to the income of the ex-girlfriend's mother (you can get this information by beating around the bush with your ex-girlfriend). Once you know that she has money, you must ask for it at the first time.
Besides, your girlfriend and mom really don't have enough money to pay you back at present. You can ask her to make an installment plan and ask your ex-girlfriend to urge her to implement it. In this way, we will intensify the dunning and recover the arrears as soon as possible.
Third, don't ask for remuneration by illegal means. If you still don't come back through normal demand, in this case, don't demand money by illegal means. Otherwise, not only will the money not be returned, but it will also cause judicial trouble.
I have a friend who is in the same situation as you. After a period of urging, the arrears are not paid back. Later, he was really annoyed, urged by illegal means, and hired several people to block the debtors in the corridor of the community and beat them up. As a result, I changed from being active before to being passive after, and it was even harder to ask for money.
Finally, a friendly reminder: if your ex-girlfriend's mother really has no money to pay you back, you can settle for the second best and allow her to pay off her debts with some valuable items. I have a friend, Lao Zeng, who lent money to a friend who opened mahogany furniture in his early years. Later, my friend's business was not good, and he was old when he had no money. Lao Zeng judged the situation and thought it was helpless to pay off debts with mahogany furniture. So, I brought a car full of mahogany furniture home. Although these mahogany furniture have not been sold, there is at least some surplus. Other creditors refused to accept mahogany furniture to pay their debts, and so far they have not got a penny.