"It's me. A person is miserable, so I want to find a wife, and I have a dependence when I am old. " Zhou Dehua touched the bald head, some embarrassedly adjusted her glasses, and then added, "Do you have the right person around you? Introduce me to one? " In the past year, Zhou Dehua came to the park every week to see if his marriage advertisement had been torn up. He contacted dozens of blind dates, but no agreement was reached. Because Zhou Dehua's requirements for finding a wife are a bit high, he asked her not only to be a playmate who can dance in the square dance, but also to "start a business" with him, and to travel around China and even the world with him in the future.
Now, he has become an old customer of the park blind date, still waiting to get married in the park. He hopes to find true love before he is 70.
After more than two hours' bus ride, 67-year-old Zhou Dehua came to the Lianhuashan matchmaking corner early in the morning to see if her advertisement for marriage was appropriate. If it's wet and dirty, fix it. If it's changed, paste it again. This is what he does every week.
It rained that day, and the advertisement he posted a week ago was still there, but it was wet by the rain and his handwriting was a little blurred. Zhou Dehua took out a new advertisement and covered it on the original paper. In order to prevent the advertisement from being submerged again, he added a waterproof film on this A4 paper.
67-year-old man looks for true love on blind date
Zhou Dehua is wearing a black T-shirt, blue jeans, a pair of white casual shoes and a pair of gold-rimmed glasses. He looks fashionable, and his bald head looks much younger than his actual age.
"You're welcome. When I was young, I was also a handsome guy in the unit." Zhou Dehua said with a smile. In Zhou Dehua's advertisement for marriage, he described himself as follows: "Male, 67 years old, from Jiangxi, a water and electricity repairman, with a monthly income of 2,800 yuan. You'd better find a wife, children or friends who have something to do. If the other party has the idea of starting a business, they can form their own partnership. I hope the other half can cook, eat spicy food and drive, regardless of age. I have a house, a shop and a car, all of which are left to my woman. " Because I was worried that my marriage advertisement would be torn up, I specially marked a sentence at the end of the article, "I hope to stay for a few more days."
The reporter asked him why he didn't put his photo on the marriage advertisement. Zhou Dehua said it was too high-profile. If someone is really interested in himself, you can definitely find him. You can contact him by phone first. If the two sides hit it off, it is not too late to meet again.
The blind date corner in the park was originally a place to find true love after 80 s and 90 s. Occasionally, the post-70s are very eye-catching, but Zhou Dehua is the only post-50s. Zhou Dehua's daughter lives near Lianhuashan Park. By chance, he went to Lianhuashan Park to play and found a blind date corner at the south gate of the park.
Zhou Dehua was very excited and felt that "his chance" had come. That night, he wrote a personals behind his daughter's back and revised it four or five times. Although he was not satisfied, he took it to the print shop and asked the typist in the shop to type it for him.
At first, Lao Zhou posted a marriage advertisement, and the eyes of the surrounding uncles and aunts turned to him. Lao Zhouran escaped like a thief.
Later, Lao Zhou found that his face was too thin. As long as someone comes forward to see his advertisement for marriage, he will take the initiative to say hello: "Is there anyone around you who can introduce you?"
"In fact, I was a little tangled at first. Many people make a fuss by providing inaccurate or even false information when dating. The annual income is 6.5438+10,000 yuan and 300,000 yuan. I also wonder if I should beautify myself, because if I put my conditions better, I will get more blind date opportunities. I still have to tell the truth when I think about it later. Otherwise, when we meet on a blind date, we find that the information in the marriage advertisement is false, but it is not good. People will think you are a liar. What I wrote is true. "
Accidentally became a blind date "nail house"
Zhou Dehua's hometown is Xinyu, Jiangxi. He was a soldier when he was young. He said: "I am a railway soldier from my hometown of Jiangxi to Hebei at the age of 17. I ate a meal of 48 cents a day, and the technology of opening holes and building bridges was first-class. I know not only welders, but also turners and fitters. " Lao Zhou was an electrician in Xinyu Iron and Steel Group before he retired. He is full of confidence in his ability to work. He can't keep his mouth shut when he talks about the scenery when he was young. "At that time, it was not easy to find a daughter-in-law who ate commodity grain. At that time, I found a commodity grain eater, and all the boys around me envied me. There are tens of thousands of workers in our steel plant, and high temperature subsidies are given in summer. A box of sweet and sour soda can be carried home, and each person can divide 50 kilograms of watermelon to relieve the heat. At that time, my salary was more than 800 yuan. " Zhou Dehua's thoughts seem to go back to 30 years ago.
1987, when the society became popular, Zhou Dehua also went to Shenzhen University with the encouragement of his friends, and then returned to Xinyu. Zhou Dehua feels sick everywhere. "From the day I came out, I knew I couldn't go back."
Zhou Dehua and his wife divorced.
"I have a son and a daughter. Now I am in my 40 s and I am married. But you can't count on them in the future, you can only take care of yourself. I will earn more money to support the elderly in the next few years. " Say that finish this sentence, Zhou Dehua sighed a few times.
After 30 years of hard work in Shenzhen, Zhou Dehua worked as a security guard, plumber and garment factory worker, and changed more than a dozen jobs before and after. Now he has succeeded. He has several suites in Shenzhen.
"I have worked in Shenzhen for so many years, my work is very fulfilling, and I have some savings. After retirement, I found another job as a water and electricity repairman. But last year, the company laid off employees, and I almost left. Because I am old, the unit thinks I am not safe as a plumber. This made me feel a sense of crisis. I know that few people are still working at the age of 70, but I just can't afford the time. This is the idea of finding a wife to start a business together, so that the old age will be more fulfilling and the quality of retirement will be higher. "
Willing to transfer the property to the woman?
Lao Zhou said that the effect of posting marriage advertisements in the blind date corner is still very obvious, and he can receive two or three calls almost every week. "Although it is difficult to find old people who are willing to start a business together, I still want to try." A year later, he briefly dated more than 30 blind date objects, the oldest being 70 years old and the youngest being in his 40 s, but in the end they failed to get together. Unconsciously, he has also become an old customer of the blind date corner, and several old people who often come to the blind date corner to find objects for their daughters recognize him.
Lao Zhou said that although he is only an electrician, he has a healthy lifestyle and insists on reading books every day. Although he is old now, he is in good health. He has no common diseases of the elderly, such as hypertension, heart disease, coronary heart disease and arthropathy. He can climb to the ninth floor without taking a breath. He read more books about health and travel.
Now Lao Zhou's only wish is to find a suitable person to open a small restaurant, canteen or factory together, even if he is old. "As big as I am, I also said that I want to start a business. Many friends laughed at me and said that you are still tossing at such a big age. In fact, I was just thinking, why can't people fight when they are old? "
For a year, blind date has contacted the blind date again and again, but the fruit of love has never matured. Zhou Dehua also began to reflect on where the problem lies. He thinks there are four reasons: first, he is 67 years old, and most of the people he can find are divorced or widowed, but most of the old people are retired, living at home, or playing mahjong and dancing square dance after retirement, and no one wants to continue to start a business after retirement; Secondly, I ask the woman to be fashionable and not too stuffy. Women should be willing to travel with themselves, and many old people do not meet this requirement.
But Zhou Dehua said that his blind date was absolutely sincere.
Daughter: public marriage is too high-profile
This time, Zhou Dehua is throwing caution to the wind. He completely forgot his face, comments and his daughter's opposition. My daughter doesn't support his public proposal. She thinks it's too high-profile, which is a bit "indecent" for an old man in his sixties.
Zhou Dehua's daughter said that she was very sad about her father's divorce from her mother.
"I think my story is very inspirational. I am so old that there is nothing wrong with pursuing my own love. " In addition to starting a business, Lao Zhou also hopes to drive around China with his wife. To this end, 20 15, 10, he also took a driver's license. "When I went to test my driver's license, everyone stared at me like a giant panda. I am the oldest in all the colleges that take the driver's license. " He hopes his wife can drive, too. Because if he wants to travel around the country, he can't drive alone, and he needs two people to take turns driving. His dream is that in the future, the old couple can buy an RV, remove the back seat, put a bed in it, and then the old couple can drive the RV around China and even the world. To this end, he also plans to learn English.
Before, he had sex with an aunt in her fifties. The woman's family condition is very good, and there are many suites in Shenzhen. The two sides also get along well, and the woman is very supportive of his business plan. The woman's children also suspected that he had "impure motives", which made Zhou Dehua feel very wronged.
Facing the reporter's camera, Zhou Dehua spoke out his wedding declaration loudly: "I hope my annual income will reach 95,000 yuan in two years and 1 1.5 million yuan in three years. Please contact me if you want to be productive.
Zhou Dehua also made a final timetable for himself, hoping to find a suitable wife before the age of 70. If he can't find it by the age of 70, he is going to find a nanny.