However, long-lived old people bring another side to their families. Their children are so tired, so tired that it is hard to say. They are anxious, irritable and getting worse and worse.
Mothers believe that daughters should repay their parents.
Grandma Xu is in her eighties, a rural person, and her children are in their fifties. Because the son and daughter-in-law have not retired, the task of taking care of grandma Xu falls on her daughter who has no rural hukou.
Grandma Xu has a wife who is almost ninety years old, but she can still take care of herself. She is a retired teacher, so children don't have to worry about money.
Grandma Xu has been paralyzed in bed for ten years because of illness. It is difficult to take care of your wife alone, only your daughter.
My daughter is a grandmother, my granddaughter is one year old, and my daughter-in-law is going to work. In order to take care of her mother conveniently, she took her parents home. Still, she is very tired.
Grandma Xu is a very clean person. She was stronger when she was young. At that time, her husband was paid and she felt superior in the village. She is also the master in the children's marriage, but her daughter-in-law doesn't attach much importance to her and now lives in the city.
Who can take care of parents like a grandson?
Now grandma Xu lives in her daughter's house and eats and drinks in bed. She knew there would be a bad smell in the house, so every time she went to the toilet, she asked someone to pour vinegar into the toilet. She thinks the air in the house will be fresh.
Her daughter does the same thing every time, but once, her little granddaughter made a terrible noise and forgot about it. After serving the mother to urinate, pour out the urine and rinse it with water without vinegar. Grandma Guan lost her temper, called her daughter unfilial and disliked her daughter, but she was not as filial as her son.
The daughter knows that her mother always thinks that she takes care of her granddaughter very carefully and takes care of her mother very perfunctory.
Her daughter cried and told her grievances: "I get up at six every day and cook for you first." They are all fresh and never eat leftovers. Then we will cook for our family, get you dressed, get up, clean the room, and then dress and feed your granddaughter. When eating, the food is cold, just brush the dishes and chopsticks on the table. After dinner, I'll take the children out to play for a while and buy food for lunch after you take the medicine. Do you know how tired I am? "
Grandma Xu was impatient and said, "If you are tired, just take me home. Why do I have a son in your house? You only know that you love your granddaughter. Is it useful? " She will get married when she grows up. "
Her daughter was angry, too, and said, "Why is it useless? I give you a foot massage every night. Are you uncomfortable? " Is it useless? I will take you home today. "
Mother was sent home by her daughter. In fact, my daughter is more tired and my mother is more wronged.
Grandma Xu was sent home by her daughter, and her son had no time to take care of her. She was accompanied by her wife and served by her daughter when she was angry.
Grandma Xu's son is not unfilial, but sick and has to be taken care of by his wife. Besides, his son has children and has to look after his grandson! I'm just going home to visit my parents for a while.
Grandma Xu still has a big temper. She didn't have a cordial conversation with her daughter, nor did she understand her daughter's fatigue. My daughter runs back and forth every day, washing clothes and cooking, watching children serve the elderly, quarreling with her husband and having a little contradiction with her son and daughter-in-law. She is too tired to live.
Grandma Xu finally got a terminal illness, and her daughter served her. In the face of a mother who is always awake, sometimes good, sometimes bad and confused, her daughter's spirit is suffering. She felt sorry for her mother and watched her suffer from illness. She can't sleep at night either. For two months, my daughter was so thin that my grandmother died.
After Grandma Xu died, her daughter collapsed, and infusion, massage and acupuncture failed to relieve fatigue. I went to the hospital for examination and the result was lung cancer.
My daughter is ill. She has a lot to give up. The most important thing is that she has always loved her husband.
Grandma Xu's wife cried, and he was willing to trade his life for his daughter's, but it was too difficult. The daughter is not only worried about her old father, but also reluctant to part with her little granddaughter. No amount of tears can change her healthy body.
She wants to die, no longer dragging down the child, but she is unwilling to cooperate with the doctor for a good treatment.
It is said that she was tired by her long-lived mother, but her life span is short. Her husband said to her: if you want to live for another ten years, I will be satisfied. May all the old people in the world live a long and healthy life.
I hope that the elderly who live a long life will still be so wise, so kind and so loving to their children.