Sister Lizi commented on whether anyone could understand what she was saying.
Consulting sister Lizi, I talked with C for more than two years, and it has always been a long-distance relationship. She is in Zhengzhou and I am in Zhejiang. We met at the age of 19, and I have been secretly dating because my family doesn't agree. Later, due to the influence of the environment, I dumped C and stayed with S. After a while, I found out what I loved and I couldn't live without her. But c is determined not to get back together. I feel sad every day. I'm only 2 1 year old, and my face is very bad. Sister Lizi, am I depressed?
Sister Lizi commented that you can't live without C in your life. Did you dump C because of environmental impact? It seems that men, regardless of age, talk too much water. You were originally in a long-distance relationship, and both parents disagreed, so you continued. How stupid do you think C is to let you go back to the grass? You, because you can't get back together, are not depressed every day, but your new love is not good enough.
Hello, Sister Chestnut. I come from a family. My parents never gave me any choice since I was a child. They didn't respect my ideas and took care of everything. For example, when I was a child, my parents' idea was that I couldn't focus on dressing up. 12 years old, never wants clothes, especially likes pants for 20 yuan. After thinking about it for several days, I timidly told them that I refused. 14 years old, I want my mother to stay at home with me. She insisted on going out to dance at night, regardless of my feelings. Going to school in other places, I want to watch variety shows at night when I come back from vacation. My father insisted on watching a drama in the center, and I cried because of the conflict. They often suppress me and never encourage me. From an early age, I was "you can't do anything, you have no brain, who do you think is so excellent?", which led me to feel inferior, sensitive and suspicious. I'm 33 years old, but now I'm tired of my parents talking. They said that I was westward, as if adolescence was suppressed, the rebellious period was postponed, and conflicts often occurred. What should I do?
Sister Lizi commented that you are not married at the age of 33 and live with your parents? Otherwise, why do you often have conflicts with your parents? When I was a child, I was unable to resist my parents, so I had too much resentment and dissatisfaction. Now, you think that you have grown up and have the ability to compete with your parents, so you have to do everything against them. You'd better move out of your parents' house first. If you want to get rid of your parents' interference, you must start with complete independence.
After consulting for 6 years of marriage, I had an affair with a woman when I gave birth to a child in the fourth year, but I didn't do it. In the sixth year, I opened a room with a married woman several times. He said it was for fun, but there was no contact information. He went to the store for dinner and then made an appointment. The divorce papers were never signed. I don't want to be separated from him, but the thought of him having sex with another woman makes me feel dirty. If something happens together in the future, this must be taken out. I don't want to believe the same thing twice. What should I do? In the past, there was no economic strength at home, but this time I said I had to pay everything and be transparent. Should I believe it?
Sister Lizi commented, I didn't know how many times your husband opened a room with a married woman, and said there was no contact information. Why? Every time they check in, they always stand in front of the hotel. Is it difficult? Many times, the wife caught her husband cheating once, and there are still several times behind it that you don't know, so you don't have to believe the oath that men will never cheat again. It's better to manage men than money. It is wise for you to control the economic power of your family.
Hello, consulting. Why does my girlfriend like to go out with others every time?
Hello, spare tire!
Hello, counselor. I met a girl last year, who was introduced by a classmate. We are both graduate students this year, and we have a good impression on each other, but we have never been together. She said she wanted to be with me. But at the end of June, she suddenly said, let's be friends. At that time, I was very sad. I didn't contact her for a month. Until 7. 18, I took the initiative to contact her, explaining that our relationship was over and the two sides reached an understanding. Later, on 7.27, my classmate told her that if you like him, you should seriously like him, and if you don't like him, stay away from her. She agreed. 8. 12, she came to see me again, saying that we can start with friends and try to get along after everyone's work is stable (now we have to prepare for the civil service exam, and the pressure at home is relatively high), saying that this period of time is a test. Later, she said that she had a good impression on another person, but because the other person was a businessman and could not accept it, she explicitly refused. I felt like a spare tire, so I deleted her in a rage. After deleting it, I regretted it and felt that I shouldn't do it. After adding her, she said that she didn't want to maintain this relationship any more, and she felt tired. Later, when I sent another message, she didn't reply. 9.9, I looked for her again, and she said that it was over between us, and that she liked that businessman, but she certainly didn't like me. What I don't understand is that she met the man in May and explicitly rejected him at the end of July. Why does she find herself in love with him now? If you know that the person you like is not me, why do you come to me again? It is also a test, including the idea of being together in the future?
Sister Lizi commented that in recent months, she has been swinging between a rich businessman who can't speak * * * and a businessman who can speak * * * but has no money. When she invited you to spoil the fun by refusing a businessman, you got angry and deleted her because you were treated as a spare tire. Of course, as you wish, she went back to the businessman and had a good time, so you don't have to pester her anymore. If she doesn't develop well with that businessman, she will come back to you.