Remember, obedience to parents is the greatest filial piety.
To deal with ordinary elders, just three words, smile happily, specific process:
First, keep smiling, leave a warm and hospitable impression on the first meeting, and then hide in the corner as soon as possible.
Second, be obedient. No matter what the elders say, they all agree and stop after a few words.
Third, and most importantly, we should take the initiative to open up the battlefield. Just take the initiative to chat with your elders, just three or two sentences. This ensures that no one will keep telling you.
It is said that if you can't even handle the elders at home, how can you handle the boss at work? Therefore, socialization is not a result, but a process that needs to be practiced forever. Take me for example. Since I was a child, what I hate and fear most is meeting relatives/guests, and I hate people coming to my house. When I was a child, I didn't dare to meet anyone because I didn't know whether to call this elder aunt or elder, so I generally chose not to. So later, relatives will say, "XX family doesn't like to call people. Every time I go, their children run back to the room after we leave. " The more I hate them, the less I call them, even if they are my elders.
When I am old, I know that I should respect the old and love the young, and respect teachers. At that time, the meeting will take the initiative to say hello and run after greeting. Because if you don't run, your relatives, elders/guests like to grab you and ask, "What grade? Is it difficult to study? How many points did you get in the exam? Did you win the prize? " -yuck.
When I was a graduate student in college, I still hated contacting my relatives. Like the epidemic at home, relatives like to chat: "Zhou Zhou is too powerful, and they are guaranteed to study!" Your parents are working hard. Look at our children, the last two ordinary books were read for nothing, and I don't know whether he will support me or I will support him in the future. Or is it the same thing that our children's grades are too poor to go to college? Zhou Zhou can help with tutoring for free. ) And Zhou Zhou is a graduate student, in her twenties, and can find a boyfriend. Is Zhou Zhou seeing anyone? Where is home? Does it go to the same school as Zhou Zhou? 、、、"
There are many, many questions on it. Personally, I am quiet and don't care about these things. Because I am afraid of going out to meet my neighbors, I like to stay in my room silently every time I go home, and try not to go out.
Today, I learned the teacher's father's course, only to know that chatting with relatives and elders is skillful. This is timely rain. There are still more than twenty days before the winter vacation. According to the teacher's countermeasures, I will simply write down the terms of family dinner and chatting with my elders here.
Opening: Say hello to your elders, and then chat with your brothers and sisters.
When eating: take the initiative to respect your elders, and then eat silently. During this period, the elders will simply "well" ask something, and if it is really not good, they will reply one or two sentences. After eating, I said to my elders, "grandparents, uncles and aunts, I'm full." Take your time. " Then go out. At the end, I went home to brush my face and sent my elders away with a smile.