Fang Jiadong was very clever when he was a child. At least in the whole family, except grandpa, he looked at the room like a brocade. Fang has been responsible for taking care of his brother. Basically, from the way he got along when he was a child, he was more like a mother and son than a brother and sister.
Until Fang worked, his younger brother went to school to find a job, so that the money for buying a house later was borne by Fang. From his own point of view, Fang is also an out-and-out "helpful brother".
However, under the attack of Defoe's magic room and Pan Guiyu, Fang Jiadong became a complete waste. What happened to the whole person? I have no motivation at all. I can't learn technology with hardship, and I can't do too much work. From his appearance to now, I only heard him say that he "found a job", but he didn't earn money by working. I guess he is an ordinary shop assistant or salesman. Later, Pan Guiyu said: "He is sensible and goes to the county seat as a driver after work."
Fang Jiadong has two jobs, and the mortgage should be borne by the house. He even asks for money at home when he talks about his girlfriend. The combined income of his two jobs is estimated to be three or four thousand. It's definitely useless for this man to be such a jerk.
Whether he is incompetent or not, forget it. He is particularly content with the status quo and knows how to make a correct judgment and leave a way out for his future.
Pan Guiyu diverted the money from treating grandpa's beautiful room to the renovation of Fangjiadong. Fang Jiadong obviously opposed it and felt that it was not good to cheat Fourth Sister. In fact, he knows that paper can't wrap fire, and this matter will be exposed sooner or later. At that time, Pan Guiyu will definitely be the object of hatred of the house. As a vested interest, of course, he can't escape the disgust of the house.
Therefore, he secretly called Fang, not out of his real conscience, but to leave a good impression on Fang so that he could continue to accept her support in the future.
After Fang Jinsi made a big funeral, Fang Jiadong caught up with him and knelt down, which also directly exposed his true feelings. To put it bluntly, he chose the one with more money between Pan Guiyu and China.
This kind of person who can be asked to be "like a man" in front of him and lick his face and say "I'm incompetent, you won't let me go" is basically social garbage whose dignity has bottomed out and will never make a difference in the future. The more you worry about him, the more you hurt him. It is better to let him be completely isolated and helpless, experience self-reliance and let him really grow up.