Physical and psychological level: Adolescent children are slowly undergoing physical transformation. In view of the physical changes, children are nervous, anxious and worried, and I hope someone can help them get relief from shyness. Under such circumstances, many things are in the curious stage, skeptical, conscious and self-motivated. With the development of social economy and the improvement of people's living standards, it is an indisputable fact that children's puberty is advanced, which is an unavoidable problem and must be dealt with. When children enter adolescence, poets call it "the time of youth", but biologists call it "the period of inner turmoil": or "the period of inner storm".
Ideological and conceptual level: the concept changed from simple to complex, and began to have its own will. It doesn't say anything to its parents anymore. It has its own world and secrets, carefully locked in the diary. If parents read it, they will often be very angry and sad. But at the same time, their ability to distinguish right from wrong is also very weak. In particular, the concept of the legal system is particularly lacking, and I don't know what I did wrong and broke the law.
First of all, parents should look at this situation with a pure heart. Think from the child's standpoint, analyze the root of the problem, respect the child's behavior and understand the child's doubts. Persuade people with reason, move people with emotion, guide them to do the right thing, and help children get out of the shadows.