The video of a 4-year-old girl dancing with her father in Inner Mongolia sparked heated discussion. How should a father accompany his children correctly?

Dad plays a very important role in children's growth, affecting their growth and development, personality formation, interpersonal communication and sense of security? But being a competent father is not so easy, especially those young fathers. What is the education given by their father? Sit down, shut up and eat? It is even more difficult for young fathers nowadays to change their educational model for their children.

How should a father accompany his children correctly? Here are some suggestions for everyone.

1, the child's critical moment, dad must appear. There are some? Critical moment? It is something that a father must not miss, such as the birth time of the child, the birthday of the child, and the important activities that the child is particularly concerned about. So-called? Critical moment? Mainly for children, that is, the moment that children think is very important. There are not many such moments. Once you miss it, your father may need ten or even a hundred times to make up for it. Are you online? Critical moment? Father's presence and companionship have a strong role in the development of father-son relationship, which can be said to be twice the result with half the effort.

Therefore, fathers must seize these rare and important moments and give their children a warm surprise, which will definitely leave a deep impression on their children, and their love will be deeply branded in their hearts. Please bring your children for fun and sports. No matter how busy his father is, he needs exercise and entertainment to relax the pressure brought by intense work. Growing children also need sports and entertainment to relieve the tension and anxiety caused by excessive academic pressure.

2. If the father is careful, he can try to find the same hobby as the child, which not only meets the needs of the father and the child to relax, but also meets the needs of accompanying the child. For example, fathers can discuss with their children to find a sport of common interest, and fathers and children can plan time to do physical exercise together. Regardless of sports or leisure, fathers should respect their children's wishes, give more consideration to their needs and listen to their voices. In this process, the father should learn to lower his figure. At this time, the father is the child's partner, teammate or opponent, and their status is equal. Only in this way can family relations be freely expressed and developed.

Busy dad, your wife will always support you. Educating children is the responsibility of both parents, and mutual support between parents is also very important. A wise mother will dare to let go, take the initiative to give in, and create opportunities for the father of the child to raise. A wise mother will actively encourage the father of the child to take up the responsibility of raising and appreciate every progress of the father of the child. Busy dad, children need your heart to accompany them.