Hello, everyone's living environment is different and their education level is different; Since you like her, you should ask her for advice. If you want to consult her father, it means she can't make a judgment. Your subconscious wants her to follow your thoughts, but she can't follow your thoughts because she still trusts her father more. This is also the person who guided her from childhood to adulthood. If you get married, you will become the person who guides her. If you love her, you must love her everything and tolerate her; Or let go;
Everyone is different, you can't ask others to change anything for you; If she is willing, she cares about you; But you can't force it; Otherwise, there will be differences and estrangements;
Independence is not necessarily good; There is no evidence that independence is wrong!