In learning, it is inevitable that there will be many difficulties. When some people are brave and desperate, some people are silent and indifferent, and some people are afraid of failure and can't stand setbacks, so they choose to escape and escape from a reality that should be faced. Don't say that you don't need to escape. Escape needs a reason! And you need a clear reason! It's hard. Yes! But only for hypocritical people. So they racked their brains to prepare to consume the most precious cells, essential oil and water in their bodies, and began to think about it day and night. Woven words are as beautiful as music, as beautiful as lines outlined by art, and as euphemistic as Flamengo's voice. But that is always just a reason, a pure excuse. Although it is harmless to others, it gives itself a chance to challenge.
In life, sometimes excuses can reduce the entanglement of some things. Like neighbors, they generally advocate mutual assistance, but when you are inconvenient or really unable, you can find a euphemistic reason to refuse, which is much easier to accept than directly rejecting others. But this kind of love can't be helped. If you change the scene, it may be embarrassing. When your close friend asks you for help, you should try not to refuse. Since he is a close friend, he should know you very well, and his requirements will generally not exceed your ability, but he does not rule out accidents. In this case, using excuses to refuse will make the other party not understood, which will lead to contradictions and embarrassment.
Psychologically speaking, students who don't restrain themselves often use excuses as their best weapon. Psychological comfort "Never mind, there is still time." At the end of the day, "Never mind, let's talk about it tomorrow." As time goes by, year after year. A series of excuses to refuse, a thousand and ten thousand reasons, what did you get? Is it hope, light, beauty or that unexpected smile? Neither. In exchange for pain, darkness, deformity, and a face of tears!
Friend, stop making excuses. It's like a demon standing in your way of hope. We should break through it, seek and challenge, and get the wings of happiness!