Today, Dr. Xiao invited Guo Jianmin, a famous college entrance examination guidance expert, to explain to you what parents should do ~
The famous college entrance examination guidance expert is a special-grade teacher attached to Guo Jianmin of Harbin Normal University.
1 Find your place.
Parents should always remember that you are an assistant, a staff officer, not a commander. Learning is a child's own business, and ordering a child will only make him feel disgusted. When you see a set of learning materials, you should think about whether the child needs it, not order him to finish it.
2 Harmonious parent-child relationship
In the face of the college entrance examination, it is inevitable that children will be under great pressure to learn and want to talk to you. At this time, you should be a listener and don't talk too much. Some parents, who have cars at home, never drive home after school every day, just because they are too busy at work and want to take time out to talk to their children. Some children are introverted, with average academic performance, but high self-esteem. As a result, I got sick, fell behind in my lessons, and was afraid of getting worse in the final exam. Parents took the initiative to ask the teacher not to let the children take the final exam, and also took the papers home for the children to finish and asked the teacher to correct them. In this way, with the understanding and help of parents, children's self-confidence has not been hit, and their grades have also improved rapidly. Finally, I was admitted to a school in Shanghai and studied as a graduate student at the University of Political Science and Law. Introverted children are persistent but sensitive. Parents should give their children more understanding and support and listen to what their children need.
3 empathy
Parents should learn to look at the problem from the child's point of view, so as to fully understand the child. Just like some parents say, children go to bed every night 10: 30, but they don't study hard. The first one in the class doesn't go to bed until two o'clock every morning.
In fact, everyone is different, so there is no need to compare with others. Adults will be bored if they go to 10 hours a day, let alone be a child. Therefore, parents should attach importance to the process, dilute the results and look at the problem from a long-term perspective.
Don't always praise other people's children.
Don't praise and belittle your children in front of others easily. In this way, children's self-confidence will get worse and worse. Put yourself in the other's shoes. What would you think if your wife came home every day and said how old you are, and your colleagues were two years older than you and looked younger than you?
5 decompress the child.
Sometimes, although you don't say it, excessive concern in action will also become an invisible pressure on children. Self-confidence is an affirmation of one's ability. Only when children are affirmed will they have self-confidence and improve their academic performance. So parents should give their children some space to decompress.
6 logistics support work
The logistical work that parents should do is not only physical protection, but also psychological protection. Ensuring a healthy body can make children devote themselves to their studies, but what is equally important is their psychology. Pay attention to observing children's abilities, hobbies and personalities, communicate in time, and be prepared for voluntary service.
So, have you learned how to help your children prepare for the college entrance examination? Not only preparing for the exam, but also communication and empathy are very important. Finally, Dr. Xiao wishes every candidate in the 20 18 college entrance examination to be the champion ~