It is not easy for two people to meet, know each other, know each other and fall in love, so as long as they can be together, it is the fate between them, so we should cherish it.
Instead of using the feelings between two people to satisfy their own selfish desires, or subsidizing themselves and their families with each other's money.
A Yao is 27 years old and has been with her boyfriend Binbin for three years, so she decided to hold a wedding this year. Everything went smoothly when the two families discussed the marriage, but I didn't expect that all this was forged by Yao and Yao's family.
So in Binbin's eyes, everything went well when she got married. But when she arrived at Binbin's house and needed to offer tea to her parents, Ayao suddenly changed her mind.
It is said that the bride price is 6000 yuan, which is also a lucky number. However, Ayao suddenly asked for a bride price of100000 yuan, and claimed that "I won't change my mind if I don't give100000 yuan".
But where can I find100000 cash at this time? Binbin is a little angry, but Ayou insists that she must change the fee to100000 yuan. Binbin can't stand it any longer. She took her parents and turned away, leaving Yao alone.
When Yao saw this, he quickly caught up with Binbin, claiming that he was just joking, but Binbin saw through Yao and decided not to look back.
The bride price and the change fee were agreed by the two families when they discussed again. Now they suddenly want so much money that they won't be able to take it out for a while. Even if they want to withdraw money, it will take some time. When they got married, time was tight. Where is the leisure time?
Binbin also saw Yao's ulterior motives and regarded himself as a free cash machine, not feeling that love should respect him. So I don't think Yao is the person I want to marry. If Yao really loved Binbin, he wouldn't do such a thing.
Bian Xiao thinks:
Love is a pleasant thing, but some people are always blind in the face of love, or can't find their own position, always thinking that the other party will meet any of their requirements for no reason.
But in fact, the other person is also a human being and needs his own care and care. If you just ask the other person to do one thing for yourself, you will always get bored after a long time.
In a relationship, two people have to pay each other and pay each other, and this relationship is equal. If only one party gives and the other only knows how to take, this relationship is doomed to be short-lived. Two people must keep mutual understanding and trust when they get along.
Unlike Yao in the story, it is reasonable for the two families to hold their own ideas during the negotiation and wait until the wedding day to change their minds and finally make the groom angry.
So no matter when, two people should look at the problem from each other's point of view and consider for each other, so that such feelings will last for a long time. Both love and marriage need two people to manage and maintain each other.
Marriage and love are different, because the role has changed and the tasks on the body are different, so the way of getting along will also change. If you have been living in the past and want to be a young woman in love, you will feel that everything is not satisfactory on the road of marriage, in fact, because you have not adjusted your mentality.
Today's topic:
Marriage is not the focus of love, but the victory node of love. Finding someone who knows himself is more important than anything else. Mutual understanding, mutual trust, mutual giving and mutual giving are the best ways to love.
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