Talk: How should I choose my wife or mistress?

When Xiao Peng entered the emotional hotline, the first sentence he asked was: Do you think one person can fall in love with two people at the same time? I said, I wonder if you like reading Zhang Xiaoxian's novels? There is a sentence in it? A person can love two people at the same time, but in the end you can only choose one person. ? Xiao Peng said: Yes, but I am an immoral person. I deeply love my present wife and a female colleague at work, and I want to live with her. When I was in college, I especially liked playing basketball. Whenever I take part in the competition on stage, many female students cheer for me and shout at the top of their lungs. I never looked at those female classmates again until my sophomore year last semester, when a friend of mine celebrated his birthday. I met my present wife at that birthday party. She is particularly beautiful, sincere and kind. I fell in love with her at first sight and then chased her down. A month later, she broke up with her ex-boyfriend and became my girlfriend. At that time, several of my classmates lived off campus together. My girlfriend and I have good family conditions. I directly asked my father to buy a house near the campus, so my girlfriend and I also lived our own lives. Before I graduated from college, I kissed my girlfriend at most and never touched her more, because I thought it was immoral to do so. I used to be a very upright person. One year after graduation, I decided to get married after making small achievements in my career, because then I could give her happiness. On the wedding night, my wife shed tears. She said that she was moved by my integrity. At that time, our feelings can be said to be mutually assured destruction, and it is the same now. Later, we had our own son. Go home from work every day, help my wife do housework and coax my son to play. I tried to get rid of any entertainment outside. Our family is very happy, and my wife and son are all I have. Until Xiaoyun appeared in front of me. Xiaoyun, 27 years old, came to work in our company last summer. She is the secretary of the boss of our company. Although I often report to the boss's office, I never notice her sitting at the desk outside the boss's door. Xiaoyun went to dinner with the boss and several clients that day. Several customers of the other side took turns throwing money at me. For the benefit of the company, I really can't shirk it. Finally I went to the bathroom and threw up several times. Xiaoyun always finds an excuse to accompany me out, pat me on the back and wipe my mouth. After dinner, the boss asked the driver to take me home, and Xiaoyun took the initiative to get on the bus with me. I accidentally threw up all over her. That night, it happened that my wife took the children back to Jilin's family. Xiaoyun took care of me at my house all night. I got up in the morning and saw Xiaoyun curled up on the sofa and fell asleep. At that moment, I found this girl so beautiful. Xiaoyun woke up when I covered her with a blanket. She stood in front of the mirror combing her hair. Then she patted my chest and said, dude, neither can you. You have to practice after drinking. Then she left. After playing around here, Xiaoyun and I became acquainted. Xiaoyun cheered for me when the company held a basketball match. When Xiaoyun and I negotiated with our boss, she was calm and full of wisdom. We fell in love, and we found that love in each other's eyes. But we never told each other. At one stage, I often dream of Xiaoyun when I sleep at night. When I woke up, I gave myself a slap in the face. My wife asked me what was wrong, and I said there were mosquitoes on my face. My wife said to me affectionately: Call me if you have anything in the future, and I will help you. Don't beat yourself so hard! I feel more sorry for my wife. At that stage, my mental state was particularly bad, and I made mistakes in my work, which seriously affected the interests of the company. I have a good face and feel that I shouldn't make such a low-level mistake. The whole company knows about it. I feel helpless and embarrassed to tell my wife. That day, a person drank a little wine and unconsciously went to Xiaoyun's house. I couldn't help crying after seeing Xiaoyun. Xiaoyun hugged me tightly, and then we did something we shouldn't have done. I changed Xiaoyun from a girl to a woman. I made myself an immoral person, and I betrayed my wife. I am really not a good person. I didn't hide my fault from my wife. I knelt in front of my wife and confessed everything to her. My wife slapped me in the face with silent tears. Then, she took out her passbook and asked me to give Xiaoyun 654.38+ million. Like a robot, I did what my wife said. When I put 65438+ ten thousand yuan in front of Xiaoyun, Xiaoyun dumped a mouth at me and ran out the door. I stayed where I was, feeling that I had never lived so sadly. We should stay with the people we love most and forget the people we love for the second time. I asked Xiao Peng the simplest question: When his wife and Xiaoyun fell into the water, who would you save first? Xiao Peng said that he was a good swimmer. He saved his wife with his right hand and Xiaoyun with his left. Xiao Peng can't tell who likes it best and who likes it second. It doesn't matter. Time will help him distinguish.