As the saying goes, daughters are parents' little cotton-padded jackets. Girls are often more cautious than boys, and most girls will make their parents feel warm when they are sensible, which is also a mediator of their parents' feelings. Many parents will give up the idea of divorce for their daughter's little cotton-padded jacket even if their feelings are not harmonious, but the children in Hangzhou are most worried about getting along with their daughters and children. There is no overnight feud between husband and wife, let alone between father and daughter. Master Tong's father-daughter relationship has always been bad. This time, because of the demolition payment, the daughter moved her mouth to her father, and the father also moved her hand. What happened?
The daughter said that this is a shadow from childhood.
Child: I grew up in an unhealthy family. At first, my parents were farmers, but my mother thought that my father should be allowed to do some formal work, so she sold part of the land at home and let my father go to work in the factory. After he entered the factory, he began to get a fixed salary, and my mother was still a farmer. After getting a fixed salary, he became rich and has been fooling around and raising women. He knows that he has never cared about me.
Master Tong: I have already admitted my mistake. I did have sex outside, but that was when I was young. We don't have much affection. Usually when we go out shopping, either I walk in front or her mother walks in front, and they never communicate with me.
The family quarreled over a house.
In this way, the family relationship is basically clarified. When my father was young, he ignored his family, leaving a heartbroken mother and a daughter who was distressed by her mother. When the daughter grows up, she is naturally dissatisfied with this father. There seems to be no way to bridge the distance between father and daughter, and we still have to talk about the compensation for demolition when things break out. Because of how to allocate the money and the house, the family had a fierce quarrel and felt no affection at all.
Child: After so many years, he ignored my mother and me. Buy him new clothes every New Year, and always give him a red envelope during the New Year. He beat me up the other day and threw all the clothes I gave him out for me to sell. He denies anything now, and says I don't treat him like a human being! I think about the house we live in every day. My mother bought this house for me when I was a child. He didn't give a penny then, but now he wants to split it equally. Why?
The source of everything is the compensation for demolition.
Master Tong: Although I didn't pay for the house at that time, I also paid for the decoration. I haven't divorced her mother, and this house means that husband and wife have property! Besides, they also want to share the compensation for demolition. My old house was demolished, and I got 2 million cash and more than 600 square meters of resettlement houses. There are four people in our family, and 2 million cash is naturally divided equally. I also agreed. They are now struggling with the distribution of houses. She said I hit her. Now I feel grateful as long as my daughter doesn't point at my nose and scold me!
It stands to reason that life is so good now, and the family has got so much property, there is no need to entangle the distribution problem at all, and life is getting better step by step. But because of the distribution, my daughter can still point at my father's nose and scold him, which really makes people angry. No wonder his father hit people. Of course, the act of hitting people is really wrong. Master Tong did make mistakes when he was young, but now he is old. Listening to his daughter and wife criticizing himself all the time, he could no longer control his emotions.
Father cries, daughter apologizes, and the house is divided equally.
Master Tong: I did make a mistake before, but if I really wanted a divorce, I wouldn't have called the mediator home. Usually you don't care about me. It's not that I don't want to share these houses equally. What's the use of money for people my age? I can still take the money to the coffin. I just want to be angry with you two!
Seeing her father's tears, her daughter stopped being aggressive. In Bian Xiao's view, this daughter is really disrespectful to her father. In any case, no matter how bad the father does, the daughter is not qualified to scold her father. Although he made mistakes, as he grew older, his heart was filled with regret. The child stood up and sincerely apologized to his father. Master Tong also chose to forgive his daughter, and said that all resettlement houses and 2 million cash will be distributed equally according to the number of family members.
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No matter what mistakes parents make, no matter whether their feelings are broken or not, children should play the role of lubricant. Don't always blame one party for making mistakes. After all, the grace of childbirth is at hand, and no one can refute it. It's ridiculous for a family to split up because of money. Children should always respect their parents. When they are old, what they need is the care and comfort of their children. Please be more patient with your parents!