It is not good for a woman to have a house before marriage. How can a woman get married when she has a house?

How to marry a woman with a house: having a house before marriage is not a good thing for a woman. Many times, it is very easy to become a burden of marriage if it is not handled well. I have always believed that in today's era, it is much more difficult for women to get married than for men. No matter how ugly a man is, no matter how bad his moral quality is, as long as he can have a house in the city, it is easy to marry a woman and go home. However, for a woman, this is not the case. A woman without a house wants to marry a woman with a house. If she has a house, she is either afraid that men will come to her house or that her house will affect his dignity. So it is difficult for women to solve the house problem. So, I want to talk about how to marry a woman with a house. In this way, I replied to the letters from netizens "Blue and White Porcelain" and "Love me and don't go". Blue and white porcelain is a rich girl. There are five houses on the Fourth Ring Road in Beijing. In her own words, the rent alone can make her worry-free all her life. She has her own famous sports car and enviable job. But she is not happy. At the age of 36, she hasn't found a man worthy of her life. She has also dated several boyfriends, but it is always difficult for her to feel safe after a short contact. They all came with their own money and houses. Even, she often thinks that if she is not a rich girl with a house, it may be easier to marry herself. Love me, don't go, it's a woman who has been married for several years. By working hard alone in Shanghai for many years, she owned a three-bedroom house in Shanghai before getting married in 2008. I thought I could always be happy after marriage, but in recent years, my husband's relatives and friends in the countryside have come to Shanghai one after another. At first, my mother-in-law came to Shanghai to see a doctor. Later, my husband's nephew came to Shanghai to go to school and lived at home almost every weekend. The most unbearable thing for her is that last month, she lived in the same village as her husband Feng and came to Shanghai to look for a job. It was last month that she lived in her own house and watched the World Cup at night, so noisy that she couldn't sleep. In this case, she couldn't help complaining to her husband, but it caused a great earthquake in their marriage crisis. Feng now refuses to live in his own house and vows to buy a house of his own within three years. For the dignity of a man, he will end his life under the fence of a woman. Its scenery is very similar to the TV series "The Mother-in-law is Coming". In the play, He Lin staged a series of family and marriage farce with her husband's family because his relatives and friends in the countryside moved into their premarital houses one after another. However, through these realistic stories, we can't help thinking about women's marriage and houses. Here, we don't ask who raised the house price, but once upon a time, the house was so closely related to the fate of a woman. When there is no house, there is bitterness in pursuing the house, but when there is a house, there is also helplessness in the conflict between the house and marriage. He Lin in the TV series "Mother-in-law is coming" and the above-mentioned "Blue and White Porcelain" and "Love me and Don't Go" will always be the troubles of women with houses. How can a woman with a house get more happiness and happiness in such a society? Obviously, neither He Lin nor these two netizens tried their best. Before marriage, He Lin and her husband, Wang Chuanzhi, didn't make the necessary rules about the house and married life. In the face of love and wealth, blue and white porcelain did not make proper packaging, choice, exchange and sacrifice. On the one hand, she hopes to get love, on the other hand, she has no management ability; If you love me, don't go. She is obviously a successful woman in her career. In Shanghai, an international metropolis, she has a three-bedroom apartment of her own in just a few years. She advocates women's independence and self-improvement, so she bought such a house before marriage, but she also ignored a problem, that is, in the traditional marriage in China, the inviolable self-esteem in a man's heart, even if it is humble and struggling, is something that a woman cannot easily provoke. It is difficult for women to do this, but marriage must be done if it wants to be happy. Perhaps all these reflect that marriage and family are more unfair to women in real life. Therefore, it is not entirely good for women to have a house before marriage. Many times, if it is not handled well, it will easily become a burden on marriage, including: should I trust men? What kind of man do you trust? Do you want to do pre-marital property notarization? How to protect men's poor self-esteem? Wait, these are all things that a woman who marries a house must consider and do well. There is no one-size-fits-all approach and answer to this kind of thing, but the sky is always blue. Need to be reminded that maybe you should be as open as possible about many things before marriage, maybe you should entrust a man with the necessary trust, or even you should hold your tail tighter because you have a house ... In short, a woman will not let the house become a burden to your marriage unless she has enough foresight and rare confused wisdom. To tell the truth, in the national conditions and society of China, it is much more difficult for a woman with a house to get married than a woman without a house. Its own fault lies in the relevant system, social system and secular environment of the house, but it should be borne by women alone for no reason. Liang Ping, Chairman of Alai Sichuan Writers Association in Weibo, and Li Haizhou, Vice Chairman of Sichuan Writers Association are recommended.