Why is the generation gap between parents and children getting deeper and deeper, which makes the harmonious and warm family full of contradictions? Why did the former best friends become enemies and draw swords at each other? Why are more and more people dismissive of beggars on the roadside, making people feel indifferent and indifferent? People build a "fence" in their hearts, wrap their hearts tightly and "look at the world coldly" What will the world be like?
Yu Boya's piano music fills the air in the mountains, and no one can understand it. But when the melodious piano music blows across the river, Zhong Ziqi is fascinated. So profound and mysterious, the piano was understood so deeply by Zhong Ziqi. Yu Boya lamented that he had finally found a bosom friend. They communicate not with words, but with music and hearts. So when Zhong Ziqi died, Yu Boya broke the piano and vowed never to play again. Yes, what's the point without a confidant and someone to communicate with? This story has caused waves in the hearts of millions of Chinese descendants. It makes people understand that what people need is communication between hearts.
Only through sincere communication can you realize the sacredness and greatness of true love and the sincerity and preciousness of friendship. It is communication that brightens the soul and brings warmth to the world. Heart to heart communication is a rich wine. Why do people gradually close their hearts? People's hearts are extremely sensitive. When people are forced to face the competition, they will feel that the objective and invisible pressure has enveloped the world. Competition is like a whirlpool, surrounding one person after another and covering one heart after another. When people learn to analyze the pros and cons, they learn to choose the pros and cons. "Individualism" is widely acquiesced in this era. It is like a circle, which makes people's hearts become indifferent in the circle.
Why are buildings getting higher and higher, networks getting more and more advanced, and human feelings getting more and more indifferent? Because people are far away; Why is the' greenhouse effect' getting worse now, but people are helpless? Because people are cold.
When countless miners were buried in the bottom of the well due to gas explosion or water seepage, when countless innocent lives were swallowed up by ruthless fires, when many people were destroyed by fake wine and counterfeit drugs, did your heart beat faster? How much have the interests of the country and the masses lost for personal interests?
The lesson is painful. Why do tragedies keep repeating themselves? Why can't you open your heart and let your heart communicate and call? Why can't we put aside our selfish interests and communicate with each other for a responsibility?
Communication is like a gentle drizzle that moistens the earth, dripping silently, smoothing the footprints of time, smoothing the wounds of the earth and dripping on the rock-solid barrier between people. The groaning earth calls for a green world. To green the world, we must first green people's hearts. As long as people can give a little love, communicate with others sincerely, and have more love and warmth, the whole world will become a world full of love.
Cross flow brings beautiful colors.
The world we live in is so wonderful because of the existence of communication. Communication brings excitement.
On summer nights, countless little stars twinkle on the cool river. That's a signal from fireflies. They are looking for their favorite partner. On the sunny African prairie, mother zebra can tell which one is her lovely pony with dazzling stripes. Only they know which sailor shirt their children are wearing. A group of flamingos dance for delicious fish and a happy life. A nightingale sang euphemistically and dedicated it to her lover as a memorial to her frustrated sadness. Ants are talking, bees are flying and flowers are in full bloom. How lovely the world is! These creatures are full of vitality, and they are always expressing to the outside world: look! What a wonderful life we have! Their communication is rich and colorful.
Carbon atoms are hand in hand and arranged in order, so we have graphite for writing; When they hugged each other tightly, the invincible diamond was born. A leaf of cordate telosma withered and sent a signal for help, because it was unfortunately born on the edge of a proud lilac. Bacteria invade, white blood cells blow the battle horn, wave after wave, and defend our health. Their communication is silent.
High mountains and flowing water, the piano is melodious. Yu Boya and Zhong Ziqi knew each other and passed down through the ages; Good water in Tang Tang, self-satisfied, and the debate between Zhuang Zhou and Keiko is smart and wise; Elegant Song, weeping willows in Shen Garden, poems sadly inscribed by Lu You and Tang Wan, lifelong regret; On the other side of the ocean in the 20th century, Helen Keller prayed: If I have three days of light, her communication with the world will illuminate the hearts of countless people.
Qin, the moon and the Han, returned after eight years of long March. Zhang Qian, holding the Han Festival, embarked on a journey in the expectation of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty. The tragic death of a narrow escape has led us out of a silk road that shines brightly in history. This road leads all the way to the Tang Chundian. After watching the dances in the Western Regions, Emperor Xuanzong of Tang Dynasty changed into Tianzhu style. Another group of Japanese envoys set out. They took away Han and Tang scripts and tea. Li Bai wrote a poem: "The Japanese Dynasty left the Imperial Capital in Qing Dynasty and sailed around Penghu." The Yamato nation has developed and expanded through this. In the west, the splendid ancient Greek civilization has long been transformed into the eternal twelve constellations, shining on the descendants of Caia. In 476 BC, with the collapse of the Roman Empire across Europe, Asia and Africa, Christianity was divided into three factions. Get rid of the old and innovate, break and stand. 1949, a strong Hunan accent spread all over the world from Tiananmen Square: China people and the Republic were founded! The people of China have stood up! A brand-new sun rises from the ancient east.
The sun talks to the earth with sunlight, and life is born.
Life smiles and the world is so wonderful.
Communication brings excitement.
Dialogue makes life more exciting.
Wu Junfa, Nanjiao Middle School, Sanyuan County, Shaanxi Province
The so-called dialogue is a conversation between two or more people, and sometimes it also refers to the contact or negotiation between two or more parties. The reasons for success or failure in life are complicated, but sometimes it is related to language communication ability. Being good at dialogue will promote career success, while being bad at dialogue will hinder career development. We should learn to talk with others to show our talents and add highlights to our lives.
Dialogue is very learned. The dialogue is decent, everyone is happy, and everything can be done; Words are lovers, break up in discord, and even cause trouble. Comrade Mao Zedong said: "Language is not easy to learn. Work hard. " This is a wise saying. Of course, there are not a few people who are good at dialogue. Many people in ancient and modern China and abroad have written wonderful lives through subtle dialogues.
Transmitting information and exchanging feelings and thoughts are the most important communicative functions of dialogue. A successful dialogue will create a wonderful life and bring a wonderful life to the creator of a successful dialogue.
Transmission is enhanced by dialogue, and life is wonderful by transmission. The ancients read books, paid attention to dialogue, questioned and asked difficult questions, "such as sharpening." People in the new century need political, economic, educational and scientific information, and dialogue is the main channel to transmit information. Electronic communication and online chat have opened a new world for dialogue. Our country is developing rapidly, and it is especially necessary to have dialogues in various ways to build a harmonious society. Now, we often hear that someone has made a happy marriage through online chat; Some people embark on the road of getting rich through online communication; Many people even set up forums and blogs online, or leave messages or comments to fully display their talents. Many people who keep pace with the times and use online dialogue have become the trend leaders of the new era.
Communication is enhanced by dialogue, and life is wonderful by communication. The ancients exchanged feelings through dialogue, "talking about Sang Ma with the cups in our hands", and dialogue showed the poet's sublimity from pastoral music; "A word's difference with you is better than ten years' study", and the dialogue reflects the author's modesty from his knowledge. Many the legend of heroes in ancient times were also graced by successful dialogues. Gou Jian, King of Yue, talked with Wen Zi and learned from it. After ten years of reunion and lessons, Wu was finally eliminated, and the long-cherished wish of "painstaking people" for revenge was realized. Liu Bei and Zhuge Liang talked in Longzhong and foresaw the situation in the Three Kingdoms. The monarch and the minister bring out the best in each other and are famous in history. In the new historical period, dialogue is an important way for leaders to contact the masses. Our party and state leaders keep close contact with the masses, often go deep into the grassroots, visit the poor and ask questions, talk with the masses, and establish a glorious image among the people. It can be seen that from ancient times to the present, successful dialogue is not only beneficial to the country, but also beneficial to the group, and it can also make the life of the interlocutor shine.
Communication is achieved through dialogue, and life is wonderful because of communication. As the saying goes, "the authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear." Hang up the heart lock, often feel "suspicious no way back", open the heart door to see "another village." Dialogue with people can often cross the rough road and embark on the smooth road; Get out of the haze. Run to the light. Dialogue benefits individuals, and dialogue benefits groups. Countries with different interests and disparity between the rich and the poor will inevitably have conflicts, disputes and even wars. At this time, people who are good at dialogue "keep their word" and "turn enemies into friends" and become the saviors of the people. During the Spring and Autumn Period, the dialogue between Candlewick Wu He saved the State of Zheng. During the Warring States Period, Lin Xiangru fulfilled his duty and returned to Zhao intact. They were respected by the country before their death and admired by future generations after their death. Modern society especially needs successful dialogue. Business negotiations, court debates, diplomatic consultations and various conferences at home and abroad all provide excellent talents with wonderful opportunities for dialogue. Dialogue is an important means to strive for regional and world peace. In the 1970s, Chairman Mao shook hands with Nixon, which established diplomatic relations between China and the United States and turned a new page in world history. In recent years, dialogue is still an important way to solve various disputes at home and abroad. China relied on dialogue to make Hong Kong and Macao return peacefully, and Lien Chan and James Soong visited the mainland successively to further improve cross-strait relations. The six-party talks also hope to properly solve the North Korean nuclear weapons issue through dialogue. Many historical dialogues have left brilliant memories for people, and the relevant interlocutors have therefore become world-famous news figures and are highly praised by people.
Dialogue enriches communication, enhances communication, and realizes communication and benefit. If we only discuss the benefits of dialogue from the perspective of interlocutors, I think we should see these interlocutors, who show their political talents, knowledge base and thinking ability through the art of speaking. The life of the interlocutor is more exciting because of dialogue. In the process of building a harmonious society, each of us should be willing to talk and be good at talking while giving full play to our professional expertise, so as to make our wonderful life more exciting.
Calm down and talk about communication (yourself) March 3, 20071Saturday at 05: 12 Communication is a "bridge" between hearts.
Communication, like water, has been flowing since ancient times;
Communication is like tea, faint and fragrant, getting stronger and stronger.
Sincerity is the basis of communication, and trust and friendship come from communication. Communication is the warmth of a meter of sunshine, illuminating the depths of your heart and mine; Communication is a soothing spring breeze; Communication is a powerful key, which can easily unlock countless troubles; Communication is the ribbon of life, connecting our hearts. Communication is a wonderful and unique interpretation of human life!
As the ancients said, a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and a friendship between villains is as sweet as water. The friendship between gentlemen is the communication between heart and heart, the tacit understanding with heaven, and the sincerity interwoven like silk thread. Communication is as subtle as rain, but there is no lack of crystal. It rushes to the earth, merges into a trickle, and flows into the river where the soul meets without hesitation.
Bernard Shaw, a great English writer, said, "You and I are friends. We each take an apple and exchange it with each other. After the exchange, we are still one apple per person. " If you have an idea. I also have an idea, exchange ideas with each other, then each of us will have two ideas. This is what many scholars call 1+ 1 >: 2!
Let's talk about those places that need to communicate.
Family members need communication, and communication makes family ties more "pure" and "gentle". Good communication makes family ties better; Good communication can resolve seemingly inseparable knots; Communication allows parents to have a boat on the boundless sea; Communication is as silent as spring rain, every drop falls silently, grinding out the footprint of time and finally dripping into the rock-solid gap between family members.
Teachers and students need to communicate, and communication can make students and teachers become permanent friends (this is the so-called "new teacher-student relationship"). I think: teachers and students can be best friends. I'm not talking nonsense, because there are countless examples in history. For example, Confucius and his disciples (Ceng Dian and many others) were also teachers and friends. As a student, you should actively and bravely exchange knowledge or your own knowledge with teachers. Students are angels with broken wings, and teachers are people who take pains to repair them! We have reason to approach the teacher. Schools need tacit understanding between teachers and students, but this stems from mutual trust between teachers and students. We need this "cute" way!
Colleagues and colleagues, classmates and classmates also need communication. Communication enables "like-minded" people to help each other in the same boat. "In a threesome, there must be a teacher." How can you show your knowledge without communication, and how can you know other people's tricks without communication? Communication allows you and me to make progress together and solve multiple equations that can never be solved. Communicate and exchange views and attitudes of both sides. This is the only way for Orient Express! Through us to heaven, my road has been hurt, through a hole of shelter, exchange will change you and me!
After talking about "small communication", there is an impulse to say "big communication". Let's talk about "big communication".
When Yu Boya surrounded the valley with the rustle of piano, Zhong Ziqi on the river was fascinated. So profound and mysterious, the piano was so skillfully understood by Zhong Ziqi. The feeling of being surrounded by mountains and rivers makes Zhong Ziqi sigh that there is such a bosom friend who can communicate with him. So when Zhong Ziqi died, Yu Boya broke the piano and vowed never to play again. Yes, what's the point without a confidant and someone to talk to? Don't you think this is a heart-to-heart communication? Yes! Art needs communication! The so-called "no sound, no matter how good the play is" is the truth. Music is the "persistent messenger" of spreading art, and art is noble! Art cultivates people's temperament (making you a "temperament middleman"), refines people's will, abandons people's inferiority, and sublimates your nobility! Communication makes art approachable; Communication, make art extraordinary, let art merge with everything, and become a real "art is higher than life, and art comes from life"!
Countries need communication, and communication can integrate different ethnic groups with different styles. This is a historical collision, a cultural friction, a gathering of the good wishes of the two countries, an understanding of the leadership policies of national leaders, and a "contest" for the bright future of the two countries! Communication brings different ethnic groups close; Communication can make the gap between different cultures disappear; Communication can resolve the contradiction between countries; Communication has eliminated all hatred, jealousy and discrimination in the world; Communication can make "the world full of love"!
Communication between people is difficult, but how easy is communication between people and things? Li Bai, "I am a madman in Chu, singing a crazy song to argue Confucius", faced with a bumpy career, resolutely chose to be accompanied by beautiful mountains and rivers. The joy of his life lies in communication with nature. Invited by the moon, Li Bai died in the water, which makes people feel that Li Bai's dependence on everything is elusive. There is also Tao Yuanming, who "picks chrysanthemums under the east fence and sees Nanshan leisurely". He found tranquility in his communication with nature; Lu Xun's "I recommend Xuanyuan with blood" found firmness in the communication with "Weeds"; Fan Zhongyan, who "worries about the world first and enjoys the world later", found the goal of life in the communication with Dongting Lake!
Communication is like an axe, splitting two worlds.
Communication is like a needle, sewn on a different life!
Let's learn to listen attentively, communicate calmly and bravely with others, starting with me!