How to treat the saying that people who can chat have high emotional intelligence?

I don't think talking is necessarily high emotional intelligence, but people with high emotional intelligence will definitely talk. Being able to talk may mean that you are glib, for example, you can please girls and know how to kiss up to leaders. But that doesn't mean you are good at dealing with people. What is superiority? Personally feel like spring breeze, sweet but not greasy, which is the embodiment of high emotional intelligence. This kind of person, they can always say the right words at the right time, giving people a very comfortable feeling and willing to chat with you. I am fortunate to be the vice president of a high school club. At that time, our club had to cut films and was busy for a long time. When the president went to give the film to Duan Chang, Duan Chang boasted very much. At that time, there were actually several other major heroes, people who edited films and collected materials. Our president said: we must thank xxx for cutting the film very well. I'm a tea waiter. They're amazing. They cut beautifully.