A counselor in Yantai taught boys to send their girlfriends by hand when checking the bed. How to treat college students falling in love?

The news that a counselor in Yantai taught a boy to send his girlfriend by hand before going to bed triggered a heated discussion among netizens. I think college love has advantages and disadvantages. College love is conducive to cultivating both sides' sense of responsibility, enriching personal emotional experience, accumulating life experience, and helping each other and making progress together. However, college love has a great influence on studies, and it will also increase the financial burden of families. Cohabitation may also cause physical and mental harm to girls. In addition, if love fails, there will be some extreme behaviors.

A male college student in Yantai, Shandong wants to surprise his girlfriend and prepare to knit her a bag. However, he doesn't know how to use tools. Just then, a counselor came in to check the bed. The counselor took the initiative to tell the boy how to weave the bag. The roommates filmed this scene and posted it online, which attracted a lot of people's attention. Some people agree with the counselor's practice that falling in love is a beautiful thing, but others think that counselors should not help students fall in love and affect their study.

Compared with high school, universities are relatively relaxed and have more free time, so college students' love is a common thing on campus. For college students to fall in love, counselors are of course commonplace. Love in college is really worth yearning for. After all, the feelings at this stage are relatively pure, but we must grasp the scale, not neglect our studies, and not devote all our energy and time to love. For girls, we must know how to love ourselves, not to live together because of love, and not to get pregnant before marriage. If pregnant, it will bring serious harm to the physical and mental health of girls. In addition, not all college romances can be turned into positive results. When we fail in love, we must adjust our mentality in time and don't do extreme things.

In a word, college students' love has both advantages and disadvantages. When we are ready to start a relationship, we must be fully psychologically prepared. While falling in love, don't forget your studies. The best relationship is to make progress together and strive for a better life in the future.