It is naturally stronger to meet a man who cherishes himself, but human nature is base. Most men usually don't cherish a woman who is kind to him as much as they cherish their mother. They will take this wonderful possession for granted.
But the beauties don't know. The indifference of the other party makes them feel that they are not doing well enough, so they can't extricate themselves until their use value is completely lost, and the man finally breaks up with you clearly.
You don't want to, you cry and make trouble, and don't let him go, but the more you do this, the more tired men will be until you are finally blacked out.
You can't let it go. Why did the person you love the most break up so many people, and then you were dumped? Why? Let's look at an example first:
Xiaoxi met boys at the party. On the other hand, the standards in all fields are very good. After one or two trips, two people formed feelings and fell in love soon. Xiaoxi attaches great importance to this relationship, takes each other seriously, and slowly loves each other for longer and longer.
In later life, Xiaoxi declined his friends' theme activities, took his own interest training classes, and revolved around his boyfriend all day. At first, my boyfriend felt really happy, and both of them enjoyed the sweetness of falling in love.
Does emotional counseling give a refund? After a while, because her boyfriend was on a business trip, they had to separate. During the business trip, Xiaoxi's anxiety just began to spread. She was afraid that her boyfriend would have sex with another woman. Therefore, if the boyfriend doesn't reply to the message immediately, Xiaoxi just starts to make a phone call desperately, and gradually there will be disputes on the phone.
After a long time, my boyfriend just couldn't stand the rudeness of the stream at first and saw all kinds of shortcomings of the stream. After being in love for half a year, my boyfriend clearly broke up. Xiaoxi couldn't figure out from beginning to end why she had to talk about this relationship so seriously. She really wanted to break up.
Everyone knows that feelings need not be too full, but it is easier said than done. Xiaoxi, like most girls, looks forward to being happy with her boyfriend, putting too much money into men's efforts and losing her daily life.
Paying too much effort on a boyfriend will not only make his use value fade slowly, but also make the other person feel bound, so a slow-witted man will only begin to cause boredom.
So _ how to keep breaking up like that? In fact, men prefer "goddess" girlfriends to "maid" girlfriends whose everything is centered on men.
After breaking up, you don't have to pester each other all day, let go proudly, and then take yourself as the management center, do yourself well, put energy, money and projects into yourself, and make your daily life colorful, so that you can regain the use value.
Respect yourself and be kind to yourself, and men will love you. If you make yourself more and more valuable again, men will be attracted by your style. If your use value attracts him, you don't need to expose your sense of need and gradually arouse a man's appetite. You should use the method of remembering his feelings, so that he can gradually know how to cherish it in gains and losses.