If you have conflicts or dissatisfaction with your parents, it is usually better to try to communicate, understand each other's position, and seek a solution to the problem than to try to change your identity. Family relationships are complex, and dealing with problems requires patience and respect.
If you have specific problems or troubles, you can seek professional psychological counseling or family therapy, and experts can provide guidance and support to help you cope with the challenges in family relations. But in any case, parents are unique and their existence has special value in life.