Do you know what is the funniest thing in married life? It is men who feel that they have worked hard for this family, become socialized, and have done what husbands, fathers and children should do most-keep the house diligently, but every penny they earn is contributing to the grave of their married life. Why? When the daughter-in-law wants to climb the stairs to buy bean noodles, the boy has no side; When it thunders and thunders outside, she must have shoulders, and the boy has no side; Children have to hold parent-teacher conferences, and when their parents are sick, boys have been absent for various reasons.
When a boy has no side, other boys will come and give her a shoulder and help her. You think you are creating happiness, but in the eyes of your daughter-in-law, you are destroying happiness. Therefore, in marriage, you don't have to be arrogant all the time. Waiting is the longest confession! Let's take this as a breakthrough. Let's take a look at Mr. Feng's short stories and see how he defeated the third party step by step, reconciled his daughter-in-law and made his family happy under the specific guidance of Feitian. I look forward to giving some help to my brothers.
I'm Mr. Feng. I am a sales manager in a food industry, and my wife is a training teacher in an adult continuing education and training school. My weakness is optimism and good at interpersonal communication, but sometimes my mentality changes greatly. The wife's temperament is more objective, that is, sometimes she is stubborn and it is easy to walk into a dead end. Everyone has a lovely daughter. As my daughter-in-law and I are both only children, once we reach middle age, life is unsatisfactory and life pressure is even greater, so we have been thinking about making more money to prepare for the future. Because of the work content, I have been to many areas, exchanged a lot, and lost confidence in marriage. My daughter-in-law has been complaining that I don't care about my family, I don't know how to miss her, I can't go home several times a week, and I can't find anyone to talk to at night.
I think my wife will know herself sooner or later, and marriage counseling has always been dismissive of her daughter-in-law's complaints. Give her a very big red envelope every time to solve her difficulties. I don't understand a lady's request. Every time a lady complains, it contains her appeal. Money can deal with most thorny problems, and it is not difficult to solve the problem of poor emotional needs. Ignoring a lady's request for a long time will undoubtedly create a negative information impression in her mind of "not paying attention to me", "not caring about me" and "always perfunctory me". I used to think that everyone would have a good time, but daily life played a big joke on me.
It was her birthday. I learned to leave my job at hand and come from different places to surprise them. It happened that she was solemnly dressed and needed to go out, and she smelled of eau de toilette. Seeing her anxious look, my heart broke in half. In response to my doubts and accusations about her affair, she just said that students invited him to dinner, and I don't believe in love. I didn't believe it at first, but then I gradually monitored her behavior. My daughter-in-law and I have more and more disputes, and our relationship is getting worse.
Later, because of a final dispute, she admitted the objective fact of having an affair with a male classmate and explicitly proposed a divorce. I reprimanded her loudly and resolutely refused to divorce, but she took her daughter to her father-in-law's house and didn't receive a text message or reply. How to retain marriage? I finally understand how my married life has become like this. Is there anything wrong with trying? Now I am depressed and angry, but because I love her very much, what can I do to keep her?