Hui Hui said, although said these words, will certainly be scolded, but she still want to say it, because it's really hard to hold it in my heart. Hui Hui said that because of this incident, she was scolded by many people, which brought her a lot of trouble.
Hui Hui said that although she is in pain now, in any case, if she is given a new choice, she will still do it, because in her opinion, her parents are simply not worth it.
Hui Hui said that she was born in the most common family of workers and peasants. Her parents are both out-and-out farmers, and she has a feudal idea of favoring boys over girls. She has a brother who is one year younger than her. Even Huihui laughed at herself and said that from her brother's age, she could see how much her parents didn't like her.
From an early age, Hui Hui was regarded as the "black sheep" by her parents, because they all thought that she was redundant and should not even be born. Her parents either beat her or scold her, so Hui Hui's personality is very weak. She listens to her parents because she is really afraid of being beaten.
Hui Hui was very smart and sensible since he was a child, and his academic performance was one or two in the whole school. But before Hui Hui graduated from junior high school, her parents thought it was useless to study as a woman, and then forced her to leave school and let her work in a factory.
At that time, although Hui Hui wanted to study very much, he also complained that his parents were partial, because his younger brother's grades were countdown and they wouldn't let him drop out of school. But she still didn't dare to refute her parents' orders and went to the factory to earn money in despair.
It was also in those years that Hui Hui fell in love and met her current husband. At that time, her husband was very kind to her and proposed to her, but Hui Hui's mother refused, because Hui Hui's husband's family condition was not good and he could not help Hui Hui's younger brother more, so Hui Hui's mother never agreed.
It was also because of her mother's opposition that Hui Hui resisted her mother's decision for the first time and resolutely moved out, showing her determination. Finally, Hui Hui's mother had no choice but to compromise, saying that as long as the man offered a bride price of 654.38+0.5 million, she would agree to this marriage.
In order to raise money, Hui Hui's husband borrowed money from many people. Fortunately, he managed to raise money and married Hui Hui. When I got married, when I learned that Hui Hui had borrowed money, my mother only said one thing to her: "The married daughter is the spilled water, and we will be two families in the future. Even if your family is in trouble, don't involve your family. We won't help you. "
It was also her mother's words that made Hui Hui particularly desperate, so after she got married, Hui Hui lost contact with her family. At that time, Hui Hui thought that she might never see her mother again in her life, because she had married far away.
But I don't know, in a few years, her mother brought her brother to the door. When Hui Hui saw her mother again, she found that her mother had aged a lot. In just a few years, it's like ten years older. Only after asking did I know that her mother's family had a particularly hard life.
Because a few years ago, my brother was addicted to gambling, so he not only lost all his money at home, but also sold his house. Even his father is angry with his brother. Because my brother owed too much debt, my father was unable to repay it, so he died of depression.
That day, after all this, my mother said directly to Hui Hui, "Daughter, mom, please take 200,000 yuan to save your brother. Your brother was cheated at cards and owed someone 200 thousand. Now he can correct his mistake. You should give him a chance. A few days ago, someone came to the door and said that if he didn't pay back the money on time, he would regret it for life. You can't get out of destruction. "
Although Hui Hui felt uncomfortable when she heard her mother's words, she said to her mother flatly, "Mom, you know the situation in my family. I have a pair of children, and I don't have this 200,000. Do something for yourself. I can find a job for my brother, and I can't help you at all. "
This is what Hui Hui said, and her mother was very worried. Then she said loudly to Hui Hui, "If you have no money, you can sell the house. Your brother is much more important than this house. " It was when she heard her mother's words that Hui Hui couldn't help it. She was very angry and said to her mother, "Your son is hopeless. It's not worth buying a house for him. You leave at once. You are not welcome in my family. "
Hui Hui's words made her mother jump with anger, and then pointed to Hui Hui and cursed, saying that Hui Hui was an ungrateful baiwenhang. If anything happened to her brother, it was Hui Hui's fault, and she would be punished.
Regarding this matter, Hui Hui said that even if she had the ability to help her brother pay back the money, she wouldn't help him, because his brother was hopeless. At that time, she not only squandered her married150,000 bride price money, but even lost her whole family because of gambling, became heavily in debt and even sold her house. So she didn't believe that her brother could change, because if he could, he would have changed long ago and never again.
Hui Hui said that it was also because of this incident that her mother and brother said everywhere that she was self-indulgent, that she refused to recognize poor relatives, and even got into the biggest trouble at work, and almost lost her job, so she broke up with her mother and brother in a rage.
It is also because after breaking off the relationship, the family deliberately discredited her, which brought her a lot of trouble and even almost lost her job. Many people pointed to her and said that she was heartless, saying that after all, she was a family, and blood was thicker than water. As long as she can help, she will help, otherwise she will be rewarded.
It is also for these reasons that she asked me, "Is she really wrong?" ?
Bian Xiao has something to say:
In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with Hui Hui, because as a daughter or sister, she has a clear conscience. As for her brother, it is her duty to be willing to help, and it is also her duty not to help. No one is qualified to make irresponsible remarks. Hui Hui is willing to help her brother find a job, but it's the last straw.
Hui Hui's younger brother is a healthy adult, so no matter what he does or what happens, he won't really blame Hui Hui, because all this has nothing to do with Hui Hui, so Hui Hui doesn't have to bear any psychological burden for this matter.
Those who say that Hui Hui is wrong and Hui Hui should help just stand and talk as if it were easy. If these things happened to them, I don't think they would say these things.
I agree with Hui Hui, because I also think her brother is hopeless. If Hui Hui helps to pay back the money this time, it will certainly harm others, not only himself, but even his family, because for gamblers, there is no affection, no friendship, only gambling.
As for Hui Hui's mother, she deserved it. She wouldn't be in this situation if they hadn't been conniving at her son all the time, so she doesn't deserve sympathy. It's all her own fault. No wonder someone.
For Huihui, she has no obligation to help such a family, just as her mother said to her when she got married, "The married daughter is the spilled water, and we will be two families in the future." For Huihui, in fact, not retaliating is her greatest tolerance, and no one is qualified to make irresponsible remarks.