There is no denying the importance of family background to a person. Without a family, there is no one.
1 But people always need to learn to walk independently, build a new family, manage their own lives, and build a good family for their children, which is the inevitable law of social development.
If parents are still alive, even at the age of 60, they will always be their children. When parents leave, they are no longer children. At this time, they will quit this role and return to their small families to be good parents and husband and wife.
Second, when a person quits family of origin, he can truly feel the feeling of being a parent, run his own small family and live his own life better.
In real life, some people value their brothers and sisters more than their wives and children, but they just don't want to quit the role of being born in a family.
1, such people often can't manage their own lives well. I thought I had saved my real home, but I didn't know that I was the only one who was moved. Not only his brothers and sisters snubbed him, but also his wife and children were extremely disappointed with him. this
A kind of people seem to be very capable and independent, but in fact they still have great psychological dependence on their families and are unwilling to resist running their own lives in an independent way. To some extent, this is an escapist behavior and irresponsible to oneself.
2. How can a company manage its life if it can't do it by itself? People who can't manage their own lives well will not only be rejected by their brothers and sisters, but even their wives and children don't want to be dragged down.
Two: I feel cold and warm, and I am disheartened. I don't cherish and appreciate, but I ask too much.
In this world, any relationship is good, and everyone has human weaknesses.
But some people just ignore this. They rely on blood relationship to decide whether to trust a person.
1. Considering that brothers and sisters are a family, they should trust and support each other unconditionally. As we all know, everyone has selfishness, and brothers and sisters are no exception.
There are still obligations and responsibilities between you and your parents and children, which can restrain the selfish side of human nature, but there is no obligation and responsibility between you and your brothers and sisters.
2, and love is such a thing, saying that it depends on feelings, but it is actually based on interests, whether it is self-serving. As the saying goes, "Poverty leads to an unknown downtown, while wealth leads to distant relatives in the mountains".