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Ling, 56, chose to remarry after her husband died. When Ling was in her forties, her life was perfect, her children were obedient and her husband loved her very much. However, her husband died suddenly in a car accident, which was a bolt from the blue for Ling. She will never accept this reality. The good life is ruined like this. A few years after her husband died, she didn't recover. No matter how her family comforted her and advised her, she still couldn't get over it. Later, a friend advised her that it was better to remarry early and divert her attention from such sadness. Ling thinks so too, not only for herself, but also for her children. It's not good for her children if she continues to be so confused. Under the introduction of friends, she met Feng.
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Because they have similar experiences and the same age. A Feng's wife died of illness and hasn't looked for her for so many years. Although A Feng has many faults, he has been used to this habit by his first wife. He was like this when he was with his first wife, and it was not so easy to change. You can only let him go, and you can't always quarrel about these trifles, so you won't be able to live that day. Later, A Ling was hospitalized for some time because of surgery. During this time, it was Ling's family who took care of her. Feng always says that she is busy at work and has no time to take care of her. Because of this incident, Ling was completely chilling. Even if she has no time, she shouldn't be so irresponsible. After all, two people are legally married. She serves the family heart and soul. I didn't expect her husband to be so indifferent when she needed someone to take care of her most. After Ling was discharged from the hospital, the two quarreled about it. Two people live separately, so for this marriage, in fact, Ling's attitude is very clear, and she doesn't want to end this marriage.
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Originally, she had a good attitude towards this marriage, but now it has become like this. I'm not getting a divorce now, but I'm sticking to it to save face. She doesn't know what to do with her future marriage. If she wants to go on, A Feng may have some opinions, but it's a pity to break up like this. The possible reason for this result is that both people are selfish in their lives and do not focus on marriage, which will lead to this result. If it is necessary for people in their 40 s and 50 s to remarry, they must think clearly before getting married. If you can put these thoughts into your marriage after remarriage, and two people can work together to manage this marriage well, then you can get married, because you have no selfishness, you have the same goal, and so does your.
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After remarriage, if two people have their own ideas, they still can't stay married for a long time, but just want to find someone to live with. I suggest you not get married. Because even after you get married, you will have a hard time. Your hearts are not put together, even when you live in the future, you will certainly be very difficult, which is an obstacle for both of you. People who have not remarried should think according to this mode of thinking and think about whether to remarry. After all, the original intention of marriage is happiness. If we are together, we might as well live alone. So what's the point of getting married? Whether you are married for the first time or remarried, you should think it over before making a decision.