When I think of myself, whenever I learn something new, I always feel that my memory and concentration are seriously degraded. No young people have flexible brains and are often made inexplicably nervous. I feel like I'm being abandoned and out of the group. And my first 30 years, what word should I use to describe it: nothing! Live like an ostrich, thinking that if you live with your head drilled, the outside world has nothing to do with you, just a serious cover-up.
Once the boss said: one step at a time, take your time, and now I have a deep understanding. I felt like upgrading my education a few days ago. On the one hand, I feel the need, on the other hand, I also consider the situation of my parents who will go to school in the future. I searched the school and the subjects I wanted to study. After some consultation, the tuition fees have doubled, the courses are more difficult than before, and the entrance threshold is much stricter. Lonely, I began to reflect. If I had studied at that time a few years ago, I'm afraid I would have obtained the certificate by now, and it will take two to three years in a flash. I really have to pay off my debt sooner or later. I hate books when I use them. What our ancestors said really hit the nail on the head. After six or seven years, my memory and personal time are even more lacking. Regret, but where is the regret medicine in the world?
My colleague Xiao Xia worked in the company for several years in 2009. At first, Xiao Xia was engaged in purchasing. I don't know why, but I feel interested in human resources. One of the ways to prove one's ability to do things these days is certificates, especially professional qualification certificates. What does this mean? It shows that you are competent for this position. Xiao Xia estimated it and made a plan for himself, that is, research. Therefore, in the next few years, Xiao Xia slowly and steadily began the road of textual research. One by one, Xiaoya, a human resource certificate, psychological counselor and career planner, passed the exam slowly and steadily, and she also devoted herself to human resources work. A few days ago, I saw her share herself in a circle of friends and passed a career planning certificate.
Seeing that others are making positive progress, and I didn't even get an upgrade certificate, my heart is no longer a taste. I really haven't made any progress in these years. I feel backward and feel at ease. I also remember when I took the human resources certificate. Whenever I don't pay attention to an unimportant course, I often fail. Let me pay close attention. When I study hard, my grades are generally not bad, and I will get a point if I work hard.
20 16 is a very hot year in China real estate market. Kobayashi and her husband are post-80s office workers and have never bought a house. Friends also advised them to buy a house as early as possible. Like most people, Kobayashi and her husband feel that they don't have enough money now and can't afford it for the time being. After waiting for two years, I didn't expect that in the second year, due to various restrictions on buying houses, house prices rose. Buying high-priced houses in second-tier cities again and again has become a heart disease for the young couple. Who would have thought that overnight, I couldn't make enough money to raise the price. Sometimes, life transportation gives speed! ! ! If you bought a house two years ago, you wouldn't have such great pressure and avoided the pit of high housing prices. After all, one step is really slow.
Xiaoya and I are classmates. After three years of high school, we came to work in Shanghai. Later, a few years later, we met our present husband. When we were about to get married, we also experienced a "battle". Xiaoya's mother strongly opposed this love and tried her best to stop it. There are probably several reasons: First, being too far away from home and marrying in a foreign land is beyond Xiaoya's mother's imagination. I think I will not see my daughter for a year or so. If I want to get married in the future, it will be too late. Although the traffic is developed, it is sometimes helpless. Second, I feel that the young man's family and current work income are not able to bear the life of two people after marriage. When love meets all kinds of tests of life, everyone can survive from time to time.
But later, Xiaoya's mother finally didn't screw her daughter. Xiaoya still married her boyfriend. Life after marriage is not easy. When she has children, the situation is even worse. Xiaoya is a very diligent girl and works hard with her husband. In order to prove to her mother that she can live a good life, Xiaoya is punctual every day and tries to manage the family. Please believe that life will always be kind to those who have worked hard. A few years later, Xiaoya and his wife bought a new car, decorated the house in their hometown, had two children and lived happily. Whenever Xiaoya mentioned the first few years of marriage, there were always tears. Fortunately, everything survived. There is no shortcut in this world, and we need to walk out of a truth step by step.
Many of us still don't know how to cherish and struggle when we are in our twenties. I always feel that my youth is still long, my days are still slow, and what I want to do can wait. However, life is never willing to wait for a lazy person, and it will also give heavy punishment to those who don't cherish time, sooner or later. If our life is screwed up by ourselves in the first half of our lives, we will go all out, because the world needs a hard-working person.