First, Tang Jing is too powerful.
In episode 22, after He Han and Tang Jing broke up, Luo Zijun went to teach He Han that he would choose to escape from people and things that he could not control. He Han and Chen said that they broke up because they didn't want to change from a professional woman to a housewife. Their careers are evenly matched. If they choose to get married, it will inevitably mean that one of them will give up his career and focus more on his family. He Han is very clear that this kind of life is not what Tang Jing wants, nor is it acceptable to Tang Jing.
Tang Jing returned from an operation in Hongkong, resigned from his original job and became a coach. But it turns out that in a few days, she can't stand such a relaxed pace of work. She thinks such a job is a waste of life. She said, I don't like cooking. Although I work hard, I find that I still can't do it.
Second, they don't love each other enough.
Do you think Tang Jing loves He Han very much? In this relationship, they all love themselves a little more. Two people have been together for ten years, but they have never stepped into the marriage hall. What is the reason? They also said that they tried to live together, but later found it was not feasible, so they returned to their original lives.
As for He Han, he is good at strategy and always puts his own interests first.
Tang Jing is actually very insecure about He Han. Although there is love, I have been reluctant to step into marriage. She flinched because of fear, and so did He Han, so they decided to be together, not talking about the future, marriage or love. It seems that being together means being together. This relationship itself is abnormal. Maybe they love each other, but they love themselves more than each other.
In fact, even without Luo Zijun, He Han and Tang Jing could not have come together. Even if they do come together, life will not be very happy.
He Han and Chen said that over the years, he and I have been playing a golden couple. Yes, their relationship is like a boyfriend and girlfriend who come to see a performance, and neither of them pays for the other 100%. If both people feel tired and depressed in a relationship, then this relationship must not be the best for you.
After breaking up, Tang Jing suddenly came back to propose to He Han, because she knew that she was ill, and suddenly felt that if something happened to her, she would get nothing for so many years.
Third, Luo Zijun ignited He Han's desire for protection.
On the night of the confrontation between He Han and Tang Jing, Tang Jing asked him why he fell in love with Luo Zijun. He Han said that it was probably because she made me feel real and relaxed.
It is not difficult to see that every time he meets Luo Zijun, He Han will lose his sense of proportion. Shockingly, he ran to Zijun with an umbrella in the heavy rain. I think, if there is no Tang Jing, Luo Zijun will certainly rush to hug the man in front of him at this moment.
He Han ignored Luo Zijun's work as if nothing had happened, which caused serious consequences. Luo Zijun's appearance broke He Han's quiet life and made him begin to know that some people and things in the world were beyond his control. Luo Zijun used his truest feelings to resolve He Han's strategic heart, and also made He Han feel that it is not only the transactions in life that can make the other party willing.