Worried that marriage will kill all the good things.
Some people have no reason to spoil themselves than to think that married life will be romantic and beautiful. Now people gradually realize that married life is not as sultry as imagined.
Because parents' marriage is full of disputes, and because there are too many people around, marriage life is just a chicken feather.
When a person sees more love, he will only become more and more indifferent to each other and complain more and more about each other. Inadvertently, his cognitive ability of marriage will become less good, and he will be afraid that he will be like others, and his married life is just not so good.
People are more sober now than at any time. They never feel that they should be different from others. They just think that what most people look like after marriage is what they will look like in the future.
If after marriage, all the good things will only be forgotten, and each other will only gradually become fierce. Even the best people really have no good feelings about marriage, and it is impossible to enter marriage with one person.
Before marriage, I can only hesitate and be confused. I'm not sure what's good about getting married.
If you don't want to get married, just keep a certain distance from the person you like and don't have to bear so much. As a result, you often feel very sweet and happy.
However, marriage will no longer be sweet and romantic. Just oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, but a stranger.
I'm afraid she can't handle it after marriage.
Too many people are aimed at others, and it is always easy to see the advantages of others and feel that others are very good.
Looking back at myself, I always feel that I still have many problems, many of which are not enough.
It is worth mentioning that I still feel that no one can really tolerate those problems in me.
In other words, if you really marry a person, you may feel that the other person saw you after marriage, so that the other person may feel that he is not worthy of being loved and may no longer love himself.
On the other hand, getting married means bearing the net weight of a family. Whether it's raising a family, having a car and a house, or having children, everything is not easy.
Nowadays, it is often difficult for young people to make a living, and they have to bear another net weight, a family and a small life. Many people really feel less confident.
I don't think I can bear all that, but I think such a heavy responsibility will affect my quality of life and drag me down.
In view of all this, many people really dare not think about that day easily. Everything will be handled naturally, and everything will be fine. They just chose to escape from the beginning, and they didn't dare to venture in and let themselves fall into that kind of time.
Afraid that the other person is not a beautiful woman, make yourself miserable.
Mom and dad, once married, few people care about divorce, so they can only be loyal to their married life and continue to live.
In today's society, the divorce rate in China is particularly high, and there are many people who are unfaithful to their married life.
In addition to marital infidelity, there are too many people who have bad temper, are not very good people, do not love their other half at all, do not share housework, and have no sense of responsibility at all.
Because of this, it is not easy to see a person clearly, so too many people will be very cautious when they get married, and are unwilling to deliver the goods with sincerity easily, so they think that a person is married to a person.
I'm afraid that after marriage, the other person will not be very nice to himself, and the other person will not care about family affairs at all. She will do a lot of things, even if she pays a lot, she will not get any reply, and she will always be depressed and lead a very painful life.
So, in order to save themselves from that kind of experience, at first, many people made a fuss.
Unless a person is really good to himself, he can feel pity and see the future through that person. Otherwise, he is willing to be single, relying on himself and taking care of his life.
Although a person is a little lonely, at least he won't always have mental and physical difficulties, at least he won't become more needed.
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