Do one thing to the extreme
Mr. Ding Zhaozhong once said, "If you do something better than others with a little effort, you will like it." This is what you should like. Mr. Cai Zhizhong, a master of chinese comic, also said that "choosing what you like and doing it to the extreme is the greatest happiness in life." There is a saying in the Book of History that "only the best is the best", which tells us to calm down and do one thing to the extreme wholeheartedly, just like knowing cows and chopping wood. What determines a person's height is the ability to do one thing to the extreme. 1. He who does one thing to the extreme will never be too bad luck. Archimedes famously said, "Give me a fulcrum and I will move the whole earth." The most important thing in life is the fulcrum. Qi Baishi, a master of painting and calligraphy in China, is definitely a master. According to incomplete statistics, there are nearly 40,000 existing works, while Picasso, an international artist with the same reputation as Qi Baishi, has only 37,000 existing works. Qi Baishi was born in poverty. 1 1 year-old began to collect firewood, cattle and manure. /kloc-started plowing, transplanting and harvesting at the age of 0/3. It was not until he was 27 years old that he officially began to learn painting. He doesn't draw for one day and itch for five days. When Qi Baishi first learned seal cutting, he often missed the point. Once, his friend told him that there was a trick to learn seal cutting well: pick a clumsy stone and put it at home. Grind while carving, carve three or four snack boxes, grind the stones into pulp, and kung fu will be home. Therefore, Qi Baishi really did this. He brought back a lot of stones, which he grinded after carving and carved after grinding. One place in the house is wet, and continue in another place ... until there is no dry place in the whole house. In this way, he devoted himself to carving, and day after day, year after year, there were fewer and fewer clumsy stones and the mud on the ground became thicker and thicker. When a cart of clumsy stones became muddy in Huasong, Qi Baishi also developed a seal cutting technique. The seal carved by Qi Baishi is vigorous and refined, unique and complete. Many years later, when Qi Baishi recalled his experience of learning seal cutting, he wrote two sentences: "The old things in Shitan are like children, and the water in Mo's bookstore is also a disaster." Qi Baishi has a famous saying, "One day is not idle". When life is hard, the money to sell a painting can't buy a cabbage. But no matter how hard life was, he kept painting every day, and finally at the age of 60, he became famous and ushered in the peak of his career. The Book of Changes says, "A gentleman hides his soldiers in the body to wait for the time." This is destiny. Some people became famous when they were young, while others succeeded very late. Your golden age is not over, just not yet. The key is whether you can grasp the present, constantly cultivate yourself, and constantly accumulate and improve, so that when the opportunity comes, you will be a loyal wife. For Qi Baishi, diligence is not a whim, but a lifelong habit. His insistence on painting and seal cutting is not for fame and fortune, but for his inner love. Excellent people never stop because of their achievements. They always demand themselves with high standards and pursue more exquisite skills in diligence. It is because of this diligence and hard work that Qi Baishi became a famous master of art at home and abroad. Second, if you do something to the extreme, you will win. Rene Liu was born in a strong family. My grandfather graduated from Whampoa Military Academy, and he was a classmate with Chen Geng and others. In everyone's opinion, it is natural for Rene Liu to be a lady. However, after graduating from high school, she decided to study music at California State University because she likes music. This choice is difficult. Rene Liu grew up in a solid family environment, surrounded by a group of people. Going to America means living independently, but she decided to go abroad. At that time, the family didn't give her a dime of living expenses, she earned it herself. When I was most tired, I went to the restaurant to wash dishes at night and went to China City to sell mattresses on holidays. "It's too bitter. I often cry until I have a headache and even vomit. " A little girl, in a foreign country, feels lonely. But she gritted her teeth and got a bachelor's degree in classical music. 199 1 year, Rene Liu 2 1 year, returned from school. She didn't want to find a job through connections, and she happened to meet Bobby Chen, the producer of Rolling Stone Records. Bobby Chen soon saw the girl's plasticity and let her work in her own studio. Rene Liu wavered. She came up with a record and made it her goal in the next few years. For some reason, her family strongly opposed Rene Liu's plan. In order to get the opportunity to enter the studio, she gave up the comfortable living environment and moved out of home. The monthly salary is NT$ 10,000, and 8,000 is spent on accommodation. At the most embarrassing time, I can't even afford to eat. But the entertainment circle is not easy to mix. Looking forward to having a song of his own, Rene Liu swept toilets for three years and worked as an assistant in the recording studio for three years. Until 1995, the opportunity came, she made a record, she acted in a play, she took a movie and ushered in the peak of her life. "The greatest spiritual enjoyment in life is self-realization. We live in the world and must know what we really want. A person knows clearly what he wants to do in this world, and if he does these things seriously, he will get a kind of inner peace and enrichment. Moreover, as long as he does what he likes to the extreme, the so-called success is a natural thing. " Concentrate on one thing, and bread will come, and honor will come. The gift I should give you will never be forgotten. Do one thing to the extreme and you win. Third, to do one thing to the extreme is to practice Wang Yangming, a disciple in Notes, and ask: How can we achieve "Excellence" and "uniqueness"? Wang Yangming replied: "Wei" is the thought of "Jing", "Jing" is the only kung fu, and there is no "Wei" except "Jing". The radical of "essence" is "rice", so take rice as an example. To make rice pure and white, this means "only". If there is no time to screen these' only essence', rice can't be pure white. Screening rice in spring is a' fine' job, and its purpose is only to make rice pure and white. Erudition, interrogation, deep thinking, discernment and perseverance are all aimed at obtaining "unique" and "exquisite" kung fu. To put it bluntly, it is to work hard towards the only highest goal in your heart, and never stop until you reach the goal, whether it is ten or twenty years or even a lifetime. Keep the only way, do not change, do not change your ideals and goals. Impartiality is the right way. What really determines a person's height is not talent or luck, but strict self-discipline and high-intensity dedication. The secret of success is not the secret, but the persistence and persistence. Simple things are repeated, and repeated things are done with heart. If you really work hard and have clear goals, you will find yourself better than you think! If you do the same thing for a long time, you can do it to the extreme. You can try if you don't believe me. As long as you continue to do one thing for more than 10 years, you will fully show the results. In this case, some people call it "craftsman spirit", some people call it "a needle to break the sky", and some people say that it is better to be good at this than to be good at it. These are all praises for being able to do one thing to the extreme. The so-called extreme is the entrepreneur's concentration, focusing on one thing, continuing to learn, continuing to pay spirit and time for it, and continuing to let your degree and talent in this matter surpass others from time to time. Then, after you have crossed the "bottleneck" that everyone has, you can get very rich returns. Life is too short for one to think about anything. Remember, you can't set too many goals in life. If a person can do one thing extremely well in his life, that is, the greatest goal of success in life should not be too much, and to do one thing to the extreme, that is, confidence, determination, action and perseverance: why can't I succeed if I work so hard? Many people will complain that they are unlucky, and it is difficult to succeed no matter how hard they try. Then please reflect, did your efforts use the right method? Or the direction of efforts? Why is it so easy for others to do the same thing, and no matter what you do, you often try your best and get nothing? China has a saying that "outlining" is a way to point out the field. If you dig deeper, you will find that anyone who can do something to the extreme may not have tried as hard as you, but before doing something, they all like to touch the outline to find something. Outline: the overall situation of the work you want to do. Including the work itself and all the elements related to and affecting the work. Procedures, steps, principles, trends, possible defects, situations that may lead to failure, etc. We must know what we are doing. Point: that is, every small link, the key element of small steps and the important core of the whole process. Different industries have different situations, so I can only feel for myself here, but if I want to do something, I must find something. End stability: no accumulation, no mileage. Don't treat your career as gambling. Don't blame your career for being out of tune, just blame yourself for being too impetuous. The fast pace of life and heavy work pressure have led many young people, even some elderly people, to become eager for quick success and always want to succeed step by step. If you are insatiable and aggressive, you have not laid a good foundation, and the link you should thoroughly understand is only a psychological hasty understanding. The result is often one step at a time, one stop at a time. After all, the old iron is not stable enough! Maintain mental stability: I won't list all the benefits of mental stability, but I understand it all. Needless to say, at least if you are unstable, you will easily turn your career into gambling and lose control of your work. Therefore, at the beginning of work, people who can do things to the extreme like to define an objective and reliable time limit in the outline and then advance steadily. Slow and steady: I don't need to say more here. Let's live with our hearts. When the heart is stable, the action will be stable. The only thing to note is that when you find a reliable opportunity, you should weigh the pros and cons. END: plum blossoms come from bitter cold, and they can only be masters after suffering. 1 When Kobe retired, there was a saying in many people's circle of friends: Have you seen new york at three or four in the morning? Kobe is successful, but his success is not achieved by making friends. During my short interview career, I have met many political officials and successful business people, and also heard some anecdotes about them. Some of them are said by themselves, and some are handed down by outsiders, all of which are very reliable. All I know is that anyone with a high position must not be a person who likes to complain when going to bed early and getting up early. Be hard on your career: it doesn't conflict with the stability of the last article. In the outline, all these people have a common feature, that is, they don't miss any opportunity, but they fight for anything that may be helpful to their work. Anything that may have a negative impact should be avoided as much as possible. Be hard on yourself: those people you meet in the interview, who have achieved something, will definitely not go to bed early, will not complain, and are full of enthusiasm for their careers. Including those "rich second generation" who are labeled but successful. As for how cruel they are to themselves, I have also heard from some people around me that even the most powerful national leaders sleep no more than four hours a day and handle official business at one or two in the middle of the night. The daughter of a wealthy businessman has no worries about food and clothing. When she was sick, she still insisted on making money with computer code words. ,,,, There are too many such examples. Terminal: A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, and there is no need to say anything. The last paragraph of 1, the point of this experience, I put it here. Needless to say, everyone understands the truth and it depends on how to do it. The above experience may not be new, but the examples listed in the experience sum up these similarities, but none of them are fabricated by the author, so if anyone says these things, they all understand them, but they don't do it to the extreme. Maybe that's what he lacks. First, we should have a serious and responsible attitude towards the little things we do. The so-called seriousness is to do your best to achieve your satisfaction in everything you do. Only by comparing several schemes and presupposing them can you choose a satisfactory result. We sometimes see the same woodwork, some smooth and some rough. This is a matter of attitude towards our work, just a matter of pushing the plane twice more. 2. Have a loving attitude. As the saying goes, "Do what you do, love what you do", and there is another saying, "Become a monk", telling us to know what we are doing. Imagine that the doctor loves to play cards, misses the business, and the electrician forgets to pull the box. This is an irresponsible attitude. If you are not interested, you might as well not do it. Now that you have done it, you should try to find the interest in it. Third, we should have an attitude of constant reflection. On the one hand, reflection tells us to think more after finishing, which is the verification of the results of practical application. Sometimes, the idea is good, but the reality is changing rapidly, which requires us to use what we have learned flexibly and adjust our thinking in time, just like riding a bicycle. If the handlebar gets stuck, you will fall and fall. Fourth, we must have a long-term attitude. If you do too much, you will know everything. For example, if you do more, you will find a way out. Failure is the mother of success. Stick to it every day and you will succeed in the end.