In life, you will always meet all kinds of people. They may have the same personality and temper as you, or they may not be convinced of each other. But there is one kind of person who I believe no one will like, and that is a stingy person.
Compared with stingy men, people dislike stingy and scheming men more. Such a man is not only disliked, but also despised.
Yingying's family is in business, and her family is well-off, but her parents didn't spoil her because of it, and she was strict with her since she was a child. But it is precisely because of this that she gradually became rebellious. When I was in junior high school, I ran away from home and was almost abducted because I was at odds with my parents.
When she came home, her parents reflected on their mistakes. Yingying also understood her parents' good intentions and studied hard from then on. Unexpectedly, she was admitted to the university with excellent results all the way.
Her boyfriend Fang Tong is her college alumnus. The conditions in her family are almost the same, but she is very motivated and considerate to girls. A gentleman, Yingying fell in love with him at first sight. As for Fang Tong's poverty, it is not a problem in her eyes. After all, her family has money.
After several years of communication, Yingying basically didn't spend Fang Tong's money, but she spent a lot of money on Fang Tong. Although Fang Tong spent little money on her, she was particularly concerned and considerate. In Yingying's view, since the two love each other, it is understandable to have the ability to pay more.
Love in school is always enviable. However, the student days will always come to an end, and Fang Tong will soon face the test of Yingying's parents.
02
But since Yingying ran away from home in junior high school, her parents have also learned to respect her ideas. As for the boyfriend, their parents' opinion is that they will fully support Yingying as long as she feels good.
As parents, the only requirement they put forward is that Fang can be the same as Ying Ying before and after marriage. After all, there are too many men who have "changed a lot" before and after marriage.
As a support for Yingying, parents said that they could pay all the wedding expenses, and the bride price could be exempted, and there would be a lot of cash to marry her. Fang Tong's family only needs to prepare the wedding room according to the established rules.
I believe that for most people, this condition is nothing to be picky about. After all, it's a little unreasonable to get married without even preparing a house. In addition, Yingying knew that Fang Tong's family had prepared a wedding room for him, so Fang Tong's family agreed without any opinions at that time.
Who knows, it seems that both sides are happy, but it is not. Since the relationship between the two families was confirmed, Yingying began to actively discuss the house decoration with Fang Tong, but every time Fang Tong was delayed, once Yingying asked, he always showed an awkward look, which made Yingying suspicious and wondered if Fang Tong regretted it.
However, Fang Tong's concern for her has not decreased by one point, but has become more considerate. Under Yingying's constant questioning, Fang Tong spoke her mind, but this thought made her feel that their feelings were marked with a big question mark.
03
It turns out that Fang Tong means that the existing house at home is too small and there is only one set. Even if it is painstakingly decorated, his parents will not be able to live in the future. It is better to buy a bigger house.
Yingying felt very sad when she saw Fang Tong's sad face. After thinking about it for a long time, she told Fang Tong, "You can sell your present house and pay the down payment to buy a big house. I don't mind paying the mortgage with you. "
To her surprise, her idea was rejected by Fang Tong. He said, "My parents bought the house. If we sell and buy, and then we pay the mortgage together, the house will be ours. I don't think it's appropriate to' eat on one's laurels'. Because after all, the old people are gradually losing their ability to work, and it will be unfilial for us to storm their property again, and the impact on you will not be great. "
Hearing this, Yingying quickly skipped a trace of unhappiness, because she always just wanted to help Fang Tong solve the problem and never considered the issue of property ownership. However, Fang Tong did not forget to consider such a question at this juncture.
So she asked, "What can you do?"
Fang Tong said, "Your parents promised you an expensive dowry. If you can buy a house now, and then we can repay the loan together, wouldn't it be great! "
Yingying didn't understand Fang Tong until she heard it. She couldn't control her temper in an instant and angered him and said, "This is the right way for you to marry a wife for nothing and earn a suite!"
Fang Tong saw Yingying angry, and hurriedly explained that he didn't mean it, saying that it was just his imagination, and Yingying didn't agree. Yingying said, "I want to reconsider our relationship" and left.
04
Yingying certainly disagrees. She thought she was doing well, but she didn't expect Fang Tong to be calculating herself.
It is Fang Tong's own fault that Ying Ying is angry and wants to reconsider their relationship. In my opinion, the Yingying family made great concessions for their marriage, while the Fang family only considered their own interests.
In fact, it is the most reasonable to sell his house and pay the down payment, but he said that his parents bought it, and the property rights will change after selling it. It seems that parents suffer, and Yingying takes advantage; But when he wanted to buy a house with Yingying's dowry money, he never mentioned how cheap he was. More importantly, Yingying's bride price is not required, and the wedding expenses are all inclusive, only allowing him to prepare a house. He also wants to make a fuss about it.
Moreover, the reasons he gave seemed grandiose and irrefutable, as if he was thinking of others, but in fact, he was thinking of his own business.
This kind of man may be confused at first, and once the trick is exposed, he is the most despised one.