1, the old lady may have been depressed when she was young, and her emotions were not well channeled, which led to her reprimanding and participation in external things.
2. The old lady may be a warm-hearted person, very concerned about other people's affairs, extroverted, but she doesn't know it. Because of her enthusiasm, too many neighbors are uncomfortable and even contradictory.
This old lady may be a lonely old man and always likes to attract the attention of her neighbors with her mouth. She needs to get the attention of her neighbors through her parents, even if she is not accepted or even liked.
Summing up three answers, I don't know if I can support you and make you comfortable. I hope your living environment is getting better and better. As you wish, there will be fewer people and things you don't like.