This is not only the dream of ordinary women, but also the dream of actresses, who want to enter the hearts of giants more strongly than ordinary people. Women are often in a humble state in their feelings. There are many women who live a humble life, and maybe there are many when they are caught in the street.
So is Hong Jinmei. She wants to be your "sister-in-law". She died unfortunately last year, and her departure has also aroused heated discussion among many people. There must be a reason for this. In fact, in the entertainment circle, people are often tempted by fame and fortune. Some people can stand it, while others fail. Michelle monique Rice is a person wandering among the rich, and her feelings with Liu Luanxiong were warm at the beginning. Although she can't be with Liu Luanxiong, walking with Xu Jinheng is also a good choice. When she gets the life she wants, she will live comfortably.
In many people's minds, they will wonder why she insisted on marrying into a rich family. In fact, this is understandable. Everyone wants to think about the future, not the small profits in front of him. She is also thinking about future generations. There is nothing wrong with this, as long as the marriage is happy. Dany was once said by Li Dan that she was humble in marriage, which is a phenomenon that exists in countless women. Even if you pay a lot, if your husband only does one small thing, he will be moved. Many women are moved not by the thing itself, but by their husbands' hearts.
Feelings are empathetic, and Hong Jinmei lives a more humble and painful life in love. She has been intrigued with the rich and powerful all her life, and finally even her husband and children have become enemies. Is this life really what she wants? Perhaps, at the last moment of my life, I realized that life should not be so tired. Hong Jinmei is the wife of Deng Yongxiang, a famous Cantonese opera actor. Deng Yongxiang was once called "Sun Ma Si Zeng". Many people called him "Xiang Ge" and naturally became "Xiang Jie". He was married four times, and Hong Jinmei was his last wife.
At that time, there were many beautiful women in Hongkong, and Hong Jinmei was one of them. With her own strength, she took the position of the first dancer in the nightclub. /kloc-at the age of 0/7, she met Deng Yongxiang, 49. At that time, Hong Jinmei was still a rookie. She was so beautiful that many men couldn't take their eyes off her and wanted to stay for a few seconds. Deng Yongxiang is no exception. Hong Jinmei's family conditions are not good since childhood, and there are naturally many waves in his heart. After all, no one wants to let go when they catch a rich husband. She thinks so, too. At that time, his career was in full swing and his reputation was very high.
Wearing a corset all his life, although Deng Yongxiang's life is almost halfway through, he has the charm of a mature man, which makes Hong Jinmei's heart follow him. And her little mind at that time, countless people can see it. It is normal for a woman to marry a rich man and have children. Once married into a rich family, you don't have to stand on the stage and dance, because such a life is very tiring, and Deng Yongxiang almost meets her criteria for choosing a spouse except that she is a little older. It didn't take them long to get to know each other. After three years of dating, they moved in together. What needs to be mentioned here is that Deng Yongxiang has another family.
Hong Jinmei faced his family without fear. After all, she is still young and just wants to do what she wants. They have lived together for 27 years, which is a great challenge for a woman. Because she devoted all her youth to this man and gave birth to four children for him. And after giving birth, a woman's figure will go out of shape, Hong Jinmei is no exception, but Deng Yongxiang likes her thin waist, and she wears a corset all her life. She also paid a lot for this relationship. 1992, she waited for her husband's matchmaker to get married.
This relationship has finally been explained. Although there is a lot of age difference between them, in her eyes, true love is regardless of age, as long as you love me. At that time, their wedding shocked countless people, not only in age, but also in Shao Yifu, Ceng Zhiwei, Andy Lau and so on. It can be seen that they attach great importance to this wedding. Hong Jinmei also enjoyed a woman's once-in-a-lifetime wedding, which was very lucky for her. But no one thought that her husband would die in five years.
And her life, also from a glorious moment, to the most lonely time in life. After the marriage, Deng Yongxiang was very strict with her, but he said nothing. A woman devoted almost all her energy to a man. Facing the education of four children, she neglected. Perhaps, from then on, it planted a seed for her tragedy. 1997, Deng Yongxiang left a legacy of 420 million yuan. Although she is a wife, she doesn't get much property. He even said, "If Hong Jinmei makes trouble, give her a dollar."
Living alone in a mansion in his later years, this property struggle lasted 10 years. It can be said that Hong Jinmei served Deng Yongxiang for a long time and left the most property. Because when the gambling king died, although he had four wives, the original match died, leaving three, and the second wife was undoubtedly the biggest winner. Hong Jinmei once had a quarrel with her husband. What he said is not unreasonable, because she has stolen Deng Yongxiang's property, and after he knew it, the husband and wife changed from love to hatred.
She didn't wake up after her husband died. Instead, she continued to fight for her inheritance and sued her children. Any child wants his mother to wake up. Property is sometimes important, but after all, isn't it for children? After all, money can't be brought, and she can't be taken away even if she dies. It must be very tiring for her to fight alone. It is reported that Hong Jinmei's property is 65.438+0.5 billion, and it is useless for her to grasp it in her own hands, because besides her husband, there are children around her, which are always prepared for children.
After the lawsuit, she gradually woke up and reconciled with her children. After all, as she grew older, she gradually learned a lot of truth. Once the problem of food and clothing in the world is solved, it will be very good, and the rest will be left to time. In her heart, she must also regret what she has done before she can reconcile with her children and give them 654.38+05 billion property. Hong Kong people have read all the jokes about this heritage dispute. It is understandable that Hong Jinmei has experienced too much from glory to loneliness, and everyone is selfish.
But blindly pursuing money will only make her live more tired. She gave up a lot for love, seemingly strong, but actually more lonely than anyone else. When she succeeded from a third party, she had her own thoughts and turned against her husband and children. This is the reality that she once sonorous. It is reported that she lived in a mansion in her later years, and the wedding photos of her and Deng Yongxiang hung behind her, which made people feel distressed. But this is the choice of life. You have to think about what you have done, otherwise it won't even come to a good end.
Conclusion Last year, Hong Jinmei passed away, which surprised countless people. Because she is steadfast in love, this original intention is touching. However, over time, in terms of money, she and her children are antagonistic. Such a life must be exhausted in her heart. But all this was finally reconciled, and it was a happy ending.
A woman, at any time, should be her eldest brother, a woman who blindly turns herself into her eldest brother. Fortunately or unfortunately, it is her choice. Property is sometimes important, but it may be worthless in front of relatives. After all, as a wife and mother, what you get is for the children, and it is the most important thing to let the children live a better life.
And we want to be our own queen, without looking at other people's eyes and attaching ourselves to others. This kind of life is wonderful at any time.