Details of the marriage advertisement are as follows:
For single men and women who are eager to solve personal problems, it is a relatively quick way to spread their marriage information by publishing personals or marriage advertisements. So how to write personals, in order to achieve the purpose of marriage? This is mainly about how to write personals. Let's see how to write the conditions for marriage.
Marriage advertisements are divided into two parts: one is a description of one's own conditions for self-promotion, and the other is a description of one's spouse's requirements for screening unqualified candidates. Looking at all descriptions of marriage, whether it is the description of one's own situation or the description of one's spouse's requirements, it is bound to reflect several key dimensions that are strongly related to evolutionary psychology. They are:
Resource dimension: explicit or implicit descriptive dimension related to social and economic status and level, including explicit descriptive dimension such as having a house, having an economic foundation, having a stable income, having a good family and having a stable job, and implicit descriptive dimension such as being enterprising.
Physical dimension: Description or descriptive dimension related to physical attraction, such as age, good appearance, slim figure, fair skin, young appearance and specific height and weight description. Previous marriage advertisements often described succinctly, such as "good health and good looks";
Commitment dimension: the descriptive dimension of loyalty and specificity to future feelings or family, such as attaching importance to feelings, loving family, having a sense of responsibility, having a good personality, being kind, being filial to parents and loving children.
Pleasure dimension: a descriptive dimension that keeps individuals happy, such as "understanding", "cheerful", "humor", "wide interests" and "tolerance".
Then, the primary variables of spouse self-description and spouse demand description are classified, and each descriptor variable will be classified into one of the above dimensions. Finally, a consistent classification result is formed, and then it is used to construct eight secondary variables: resource provision, resource seeking, material representation providing, material representation seeking, commitment providing, commitment seeking, pleasure providing and pleasure seeking.
1. Both parties are over 25 years old.
It is said that compared with couples under the age of 25, couples over the age of 25 have a higher success rate in marriage. The reason is that people of this age have accumulated some life experience.
2. Don't have children after marriage 1 year.
Babies are really cute and lovable. But it also comes with: feeding, changing diapers, crying late at night, lack of sleep and the reduction of disposable time. Therefore, it is undoubtedly not a good choice for newlyweds to choose their children after their marriage life is stable.
Both sides have jobs and considerable income.
Love and money can't be measured by scale, but money is certainly better than no money. Money is the source of some unpleasantness such as quarreling! It is said that the marriage success rate of families with an annual income of about 300,000 yuan is higher than that of families with an annual income of 6.5438+0.5 million yuan. I hope everyone can be independent of each other in money and don't depend on each other.
4. Have the same belief
If only one husband and wife is religious, married life involves children's religious beliefs and other issues, which may lead to persistent unhappiness. Therefore, it is best to discuss and solve these problems before marriage.
5. The marriage partner graduated from college
Of course, it is by no means that the condition of "marrying a college graduate" is the reason for the success of marriage. However, education will increase experience and have more opportunities to understand the wider world. Therefore, you will be more tolerant when you get along.
Careful choice of marriage partner is the secret of successful marriage.
6. The other party has reliable friends.
Is this the case with your marriage partner? You can talk about any topic, get together often and you won't feel bored. Even if you quarrel, you can make up quickly, have the same laughter and comfort each other. If you can marry such a person, your married life will be very happy. Feelings are very important in marriage, but friendship is also indispensable.
7. The quarrel of "civilization"
Any couple will have differences of opinion. At this time, how to resolve differences is very important.
It is unwise to "accidentally move your hand because of anger", "scold each other's parents and tutors" and "laugh at each other's body shape"
8. Have your own independent space and time
Does he respect "your independent space"? It is said that if two people are always bored together, their marriage will fail. Everyone needs "their own time". Because it makes people miss each other.