Answer the question first. My monthly salary is just 1 10,000, and I live and work in Beijing. The monthly expenses are stable at 7,000 to 8,000 yuan. The composition is fixed at 5,000 yuan, including rent, car loan, water and electricity, mortgage (a small house in the field, under the name of a daughter-in-law, 700 yuan every month), social security, telephone and gas charges. Paid by the daughter-in-law, and another 2,000 to 3,000 yuan is for daily diet and purchase.
Daughter-in-law also has income, but it is unstable and fluctuates greatly. These two months have been good, and the average monthly income has remained at 3-4 thousand in the first two years or so.
I was born in 1989 and just got married last year. What's life like? Just four words: tension and fear.
Rent a house, the conditions are not very good, but I have no money to change it to a better one. I can't bear to eat, wear and use good food every day. I just want to buy something with higher demand. I will try my best to buy something with better quality and higher price. I may be afraid to eat good food and get together with my friends a week after I buy it, because I want to save money ... fortunately, most of the time my daughter-in-law prevents me from buying it.
Life is horrible and insecure. Married for more than a year. Because of the pressure of life, I dare not have children. My parents on both sides urged me countless times. Father has many ideas and doesn't want to talk directly. I'm afraid we're under a lot of pressure, and it's hard to hide our anxiety for a long time. At work, it is true that every time I think about the hardships of life, I suddenly increase my motivation and endurance.
What I think every day now is,
How to strive to increase income,
For the sake of children, when can I rent a house alone in the near future?
When can I save enough down payment to buy a house? It is still far away.
These three questions are the most important, others are not urgent. In my situation, with this income, I am bound to worry about this.
As I said before, I want to answer this question because I am chatting with my colleagues, so I want to say more than that. These are not the key points, but I want to say something else. You may not know about Beijingers and their lives.
Just like me, "Beijingers drifting north"
I come from Beijing, but my home is in Fangshan, a far suburb. Many friends from other places, even Beijing natives, actually don't know what we Beijingers are like.
Yesterday I went to chat with my colleagues from other places. Their impression of Beijing and Beijingers is this:
1, Beijing is very prosperous, the pace of life is also very tense, and the competitive pressure is great.
The air in Beijing is terrible.
The house price in Beijing is very high.
The traffic in Beijing is bad, and the traffic jam is particularly serious, but the subway bus is developed.
The life of aborigines in Beijing will not be too bad. The demolished houses are worth tens of millions or have many properties. Those who haven't been demolished are invisible rich, and they can get rich once.
6. Now people in rural areas are very happy, with homes and land and comfortable life. We long for such a life.
None of these impressions is absolutely right or wrong, especially the latter two. What I want to tell you is not all what you think.
Article 5 has nothing to do with me being a Beijinger. Beijing may demolish tens of millions of billionaires, but like all other places in China, it depends on the location. In my home, four villages were demolished in February last year, and many high school students were there. I know that the highest compensation is the house of the best friend's daughter-in-law, 2.7 million, and two yards have been demolished. Others are generally up to 6.5438+0.4 million yuan, including a family of village cadres, which is just this money. The head of this family is the father of a close friend of mine.
If someone tells you about the demolition in Beijing, the maximum amount is 6.5438+0.4 million. I don't know your reaction, but my colleagues say it's impossible ... including my colleagues in Beijing.
Look at 1.4 million. Think about it carefully. How much is it? Especially the first-and second-tier friends, how many do you think?
Rent a house within two years after the demolition, and compensate some money every month. And this 1.4 million will take two years to buy back the houses in the centralized resettlement community. The repurchase price is 2000 square meters, and the repurchase area of each household is limited. It's not that you have some money, you can buy as much as you want. The upper limit of a household is 270 square meters. Suppose this family buys back three sets of 90 square meters, which is just the limit of 270. It will cost him 270 * 2000 = 540,000, and then the decoration of three houses is conservatively estimated to cost 200,000, leaving140-54-20 = 660,000. What is this 660 thousand enough for? Take out a part to do a small business, otherwise you can't put it all in the bank and wait for depreciation. Or use it to give children a down payment loan to buy a house in the central area. If 66. 1 10,000 points are not left, buying a house with a very low price will be enough for the down payment at most, but probably no one wants to spend it all. ...
/kloc-0 0 years ago and 8 years ago, two villages were demolished in the town, and their compensation was lower and the quality of houses was worse.
Our village has not been demolished, and there have been rumors, but it seems very unreliable and may not work in the short term. Colleagues say your family will be valuable in a few years. I don't think so ... First of all, I don't want to open it myself. I think it's good. My ancestors have always lived here, and this village has not been abandoned. It's nice to have a yard and a dream. I like to come back during the holidays. Besides, it's worthless. After demolition, it is better to keep it in a building 5 kilometers away from home, with poor quality and worthless value. Then, my place is hard to be valuable. If you don't drive, it takes 2.5 hours to get to Beijing Liuliqiao, that is, the West Third Ring Road, and enter the generalized central area of Beijing. It takes 3 hours+to Tiananmen Square, 3.5 hours to Guo Mao, 4.5 hours+to my rented house in Tongzhou, and about 4.5 hours to my company next to the East Fifth Ring Road. Ask me, why don't you, a Beijinger, live in your own house and rent a house? After listening to this, you often recommend me a good place to rent a house ... and these times are bus+subway, which is the fastest combination estimate I can think of. It's always like this when there is no car. Moreover, our village is next to a mountain (not a real mountain area), and the available area and value of the land are actually not high, so we want to turn over by demolition. Forget it, there is no chance-this sentence is also said to my folks. ...
Those who think that having a hospital in Beijing is a rich person, or at least will be rich in the future, will know whether it is correct or not by looking at the block. In terms of the area of Beijing, the area where this sentence is wrongly applied is far beyond the applicable area. ...
Ordinary friends have been a little shocked to hear me say this ... It turns out that Beijing is not valuable everywhere. But many people will soon understand that building blocks determine value, which is still very basic, so it is not difficult to react.
But after listening to me, no one can be calm before the age of 20, even a colleague who has been involved in things for a long time. After listening to it many times, he still often talks about Beijing, and his eyes wander. How can life be like this? Feelings are deceptive. ...
In fact, even in Beijing, before 2005, except for workers' families and highly educated and high-tech talents in central and urban areas, the living standards of many Beijingers and Beijing children were not high. Especially before 2000, especially those people in suburban towns and villages.
When I was a child, there was no running water at home, so the whole village fetched water from two or three wells. It is mainly housewives who carry water, because all the men work in the stone mines in the village or go out to work. Until my fourth or fifth grade, tap water was used in the village, but the ditches were dug by each family with their own tools, which was very laborious. In some places, the ditches are very shallow, and it often freezes in winter, so no water comes out. I remember rebuilding it again, but I was still digging ditches. But up to now, the whole village has not realized 24-hour running water. There is no water every night to the next morning, so every family has 1 or 2 vats. ...
When I was a child, there was a shortage of materials and food, just like in the 1980 s and 1990 s and even at the beginning of the Millennium, it was not very good. I have many childhood memories. I wanted to eat bananas, but I couldn't eat them for two months. Once I was sick and had a high fever. One day I fell asleep on my bed. When I woke up, there was a bag of bananas in front of me. Dad saw me awake, said to eat, and bought it for you. I couldn't help laughing when I remembered it, but today I wrote strangely that my nose was a little sour.
When I was in the fourth and fifth grade of primary school, one day my cousin in the same year was very excited to tell me that there was something called mutton kebabs. Do you know that?/You know what? He told me how delicious it was and what it looked like, and I couldn't help drooling. How can I possibly know mutton kebabs? As far as I know, this thing first appeared in town. If you want to eat, you need to walk 1 hour or take a bus for half an hour or walk for half an hour to the nearest bus stop 10 minute to get there. For the sake of children, the town can't go two or three times a year. So I didn't eat mutton kebabs for the first time for a long time after this. I am with this cousin. I went to my relatives' house in town that day and ran out for dinner. Everyone has 1 yuan in his pocket, and it's a string of 20 cents. I felt very lost after listening to it. I can only buy five strings at most, but I can't bear to spend them all. I am very happy and uncomfortable with the food. ...
At that time, every village had its own primary school, and there were many impressive things. Now it's incredible. In primary school, in summer, it rained a lot, and when it rained heavily, we often moved desks and chairs collectively, leaned to the teacher's side or mingled, because we had to hide from raindrops and strings of water falling from the roof mixed with soil ... Anyway, by the time I graduated from this primary school, the problem of roof leakage had not been completely solved.
There are also sparrows nesting under the teacher's eaves, and the holes in the eaves extend all the way to the house. That is to say, there is no suspended ceiling on our roof, and it is a frame beam made of triangle iron and steel bars, and then the indigenous roof-straw, ash, yellow mud, plastic sheets and other ingredients. So we often have classes, sparrows are flying overhead, and the teacher is in charge of everyone's efforts to exercise restraint. After class, the students picked up books and threw them all over the room, trying to put down one or two. The scene is exciting and lively.
Primary school has no heating for six years in winter (in fact, it has not stopped since the beginning of 2000). Every year in late autumn, when it is cold, the school will let every student bring a bag of ashes from home. There is a coal stove about one meter square in the right front corner of each class, which is made of brick. When making a fire, ashes are used to cushion the bottom of the furnace. In class, the old doorman often brings a big iron bar in to ventilate the fire, which makes the room full of smoke. ...
On the last day or two of summer vacation every year, students have to return to school early. What should they do? They are all mowing the grass. The teacher will assign tasks, such as who brings a shovel (shovel), who brings a shovel (three times) (that is, a weeding tool), who brings a cart, who brings a pocket and so on. All students will start weeding around the whole school according to their own tasks. After a summer vacation, weeds have grown wildly, and the big playground is a large piece of land, with red soil and gravel.
Oh, by the way, at the turn of spring and summer every year, there is another activity that all students bring their own tools to do together, that is, to accurately locate the upcoming rainy season, comb and dig drainage ditches around the school. ...
In primary school, I don't know why the school was particularly short of funds. To what extent, the chalk head can't be thrown away, so we have to stay. The teacher brought the chalk, so it's not allowed to be wasted. This happened in junior high school later. Every teacher brought a small box with all kinds of chalk in it, but the slag won't stay in the class, so we should keep it. ...
It's junior high school now, and it's already 2002. The school organized a spring outing to Junbo, Taoranting and Beihai Park, but I have never been to Beijing-why do you say that? Because in our childhood mind, Beijing is Beijing and my home is my home. Those people who have something to go to the city will say "I'm going to Beijing"-I'm so excited and nervous when I go to the city for the first time. After all, after a day out, it is said that Beijing is very expensive, so I brought snacks worth about 5 yuan and 10 yuan cash. I have never had so much money at my disposal. This ten dollars is of historical significance. The first time I saw a tall building, I felt dizzy. I always think they are wobbly. When I first saw them, I realized that the buses in our town were like rags. The first time I saw the city people dressed so well, the first time I saw the traffic lights on TV in books, and the first time I felt very humble and insignificant. I got the ten dollars back completely, because it was really expensive and I didn't want to spend it. In the end, I filled my stomach with that five-dollar snack. I don't remember now, but I think I spent a long time on that ten dollars. ...
I have lived with my grandmother since I was a child. I have a piggy bank. It's a big bottle. I usually have a 1. 1.25.5 1 block. There is no larger denomination. I stuffed it in and regarded it as a treasure. I kept this habit for many years. From time to time, I tell my grandmother how much I have, and I will tell her to buy her cigarettes when I grow up. Finally, I took it all out, and I saved more than 100 yuan. I have forgotten the specific figures, and I have forgotten when I will not save them, because grandma and I have been together for many years, and the purpose of saving some money has long been impossible. So by then, I don't care how much it costs. Until the end, I didn't wait for the opportunity to use money, and I used the money from my first job to buy things for my grandmother. I didn't buy anything. ...
Do you think the location of my home mentioned above is really inconvenient and not good? But I want to tell you that compared with many places in Beijing, it is "not too bad". A classmate from my university lives in a community with me, but it is far from my home. The above-mentioned time to Tiananmen Square and Guo Mao plus 1.5 hours is her home, and her home can be regarded as a mountainous area. But because it is a tourist area, it belongs to the lively and convenient mountainous area in Fangshan District. Another ditch, Fozizhuang, Shijiaying, Xiayunling and Puwa Township, alas, is what we think of as the old mountain, which is really remote and poor and has no flat land. Some people have to wait for the government to make an improved relocation project to ensure that their quality of life passes or exceeds. ...
So what do you think of the quality of education in kindergartens, primary schools, junior high schools and senior high schools in places like my home? The answer is, from hardware to software, not so good. Of course, it has been improving for many years, but compared with the urban area (within the Fifth Ring Road), it is far from the center of the district ... Forget it, it is still not much better. ......
I grew up under such living and educational conditions. I haven't made much progress, and I haven't passed the high school exam. I'm still studying in town. Although I feel healthy physically and mentally, my outlook on life is quite positive. However, considering that children will go to school in the future, if possible, I still hope not to receive such conditions and levels of education in this town.