Learn to listen to your baby, and you will have unexpected gains.

Xiaodouer and her mother agreed that 20 minutes after dinner every day is their intimate time. There is a phone call during this time, and Doudou's mother will say that this is my time with Doudou and I can't disturb it. Small beans jump high on the table to see how far they can jump; I also played an injection game with my mother and gave her a few injections. Play the teacher and scold her mother in a teacher's tone ... Sometimes when playing, Doo will suddenly lose his temper or cry. After a while, my mother felt that adzuki bean became confident.

Spending time listening can deepen children's trust in their parents.

Listening regularly with special time, children will have deeper and deeper trust in their parents. He will reveal his inner world to his parents and let them know his views on things and his feelings.

Xiaodouer's mother found that after a period of special listening, the relationship between the child and herself was closer. At first, Xiaodouer chose games that her mother felt bored or bored, and asked her to play with her. When her mother was interested in playing with her, her trust in her mother increased rapidly. Mom's attention also gave adzuki a sense of security. Adzuki uses this sense of security to test his limits, jump high in bed, etc., and fully explore what he is interested in.

When Xiao Douer and his mother play an injection game with the teacher, they are communicating important issues with their mother. This shows that the child has accepted his mother's listening and is willing to show his problems and release his nervousness. At this time, she will have many positive changes, such as more love for life, more ability to exchange ideas with her parents and share the joy of success. And dare to reveal their problems to their parents and ask them for help.

Schedule a short but guaranteed time.

There can be no interference, no phone calls, no doorkeeping, no talking to others at the same time, no making tea and pouring water. In short, do nothing but accompany the children.

During this time, let the children have the power to dominate you.

Let the child know that you are willing to do whatever he wants you to do. As long as he is willing, whether he tells you orally or signals you, you should do it. This can encourage children to exchange ideas and feelings with you.

Let your child know that you really appreciate him.

Let your concern, interest and approval be expressed in your face, voice and touch. Sometimes the child may not respond, but don't stop. Don't expect him to be grateful immediately and respond to your feelings. I believe your child will accept your care and love, and the expectation and interest revealed in your words will encourage him to seize the opportunity to reveal his new situation to you.

Restrain yourself, don't know how the child can play well, or "teach" him well.