But if you want to come back, you can't ask too much of a flower. It is not easy for a weed in Xilaozhuang Village to blend into a flower and still wander around the capital. He can't stand Yanjin's housework. Perhaps, not disturbing him for trifles is the greatest support for Liu Zhenyun. After all, the writer's first priority is writing, and writing needs to be divorced from personnel. Writers often need to live purely in literature.
Reading Liu Zhenyun's words, I love to copy by hand, and I feel happy. That's enough. What else can you ask of him?
Besides, childhood friends, like childhood clothes, can't be put on when they grow up.
There is also a saying that the higher a person's education, the farther away he is from his childhood friends.
Friendship, like marriage, needs divorce. China people say that fate is over.
I have something similar.
On weekdays, people in the unit are not good at flattery, and they have not accumulated affection and contacts with leaders outside work. Every summer, when we are recruited, there is a fear of catastrophe.
Just graduated, A came to see him, crustily skin of head to ask the old A to plead with him, and then another one; The next year, B got wind, and then two; Next year, division c is coming again; ..... My heart is sincere, and heaven and earth can learn from it.
After all the people who grew up naked came, so did the people with bare backs, and then the people who laid sandbags and played badminton came ... After an endless stream, they were tired. But the point is, even if your face is swollen, you can't pretend to be fat. Dependency is not my strong suit.
Besides, I like the cold and have no time to be an enthusiastic person. Therefore, my mobile phone often breaks down in summer. Maybe I understand the master's mind. So I can spend more time alone, reading, writing and staring blankly. Quiet and comfortable.
This year, the mobile phone didn't break down, and I promised a dozen familiar or unfamiliar relationships, but none of them were done. Daughters of primary school students, sons of junior high school students and relatives of college students were all rejected. For several days, I felt guilty and embarrassed. Kaifeng station learned Xu's "fear and safety" before letting go.
Later, Jiahui also gave me a good demonstration.
Because we want to introduce the lessons of Mr. Jiahui and Mr. Li Cheng, we need a material to present to the leaders, and we need to be earnest. Jiahui said, "writing this kind of material is not my specialty." Why don't you prepare one yourself? "When I was startled, I felt a gentle and firm refusal.
So, shouldn't I have said this long ago: "It's not my specialty to rely on relationships to entrust people with things. Why don't you find someone else? " However, because of my guilt, I want to add: "During school, if children have any emotional fluctuations, they need psychological counseling, which is what I can and am willing to do."
Well, that's it. Suppose I refuse.
How happy I should be if you receive it with your heart.
Don't push others, just let them go. Just like flowers in nature, birds call, natural and graceful, and it is good to call away. As big as a god, as small as a dandelion, don't lose face, don't be famous, don't be embarrassed, that's all.
I love my childhood, but now I can't tell; Just like I loved a teenager, I can't tell what he looks like now.
About the author:
Anxiaonuan
National second-level psychological counselor, psychological counselor of Changyuan No.10 Middle School;
Member of Henan Writers Association, author of An Xiaonuan;
Committed to young mentors and intimate relationship mentors;
100 three sponsors of public welfare projects;
From 2065 to 438-2004, he began to follow the tutors of Cai, Si Jiahui, Gestalt Dayang, etc. in Taiwan Province Province, and grew up in psychology.