Psychological counselors have no right to diagnosis and treatment, so it is obviously inappropriate to call them psychologists.
Of course, in fact, many psychiatrists and psychotherapists have their own qualifications as counselors.
At the same time, in psychological counseling, according to the requirements of professional ethics, collecting visitors' information needs to put the well-being of visitors first, that is to say, collecting visitors' information must be related to helping visitors find solutions. Psychologists and counselors are not explorers, but workers who provide professional services.
In addition, when visitors are unwilling to talk, psychologists and counselors can discuss the reasons for their unwillingness with them, and at the same time, they need to follow the principle of "taking visitors as the center" and help visitors see their "unwillingness" and the possible impact and help on the current predicament according to the speed at which visitors are willing to talk.
Therefore, based on professional ethics, professional psychologists and counselors will not dig deep into the secrets that visitors are unwilling to tell, but will of course express them sincerely. It seems that these visitors are unwilling to talk or contact, so as to enhance their inner consciousness and follow their inner needs.
According to the meaning of the topic, it is to consult a psychologist or a psychologist. Traditionally, it is not a doctor, but a general term for psychological counselors. Psychologists (psychological counselors) are not snoopers, and will not deliberately dig deep into the secrets that patients are unwilling to tell.
Psychological counseling follows the principle of "taking visitors as the center". Visitors are confidantes, and consultants (doctors) are listeners. Narrative therapy is often used to get patients to say what they want to say. Psychological counselors can find the causes of mental illness in the process of listening. If we need to investigate the root cause of mental illness, we may touch the privacy that patients don't want to talk about. It doesn't matter. Psychological counselors have many ways and means to explore the reasons, such as observing words and deeds.
In addition, patients generally need to do psychological counseling several times in a row. At first, they resisted, gradually relaxed in the middle, and were willing to say what they didn't want to say before.
It is suggested that patients fully trust the consultant, try to tell the real situation and thoughts according to the guidance of the consultant, improve the efficiency of consultation and treatment, and avoid delaying treatment.
Who needs psychological counseling most? If it is the needs of visitors, consultants will put the interests of visitors first, just as doctors are patient-centered. Secondly, psychological counseling is the need to open your heart and reveal your heart, so that psychological counselors can find problems and solve them in a targeted manner. Finally, does it imply that the counselor will dig deep into the secrets he doesn't want to tell? This need varies from person to person. Generally speaking, not. Visitors don't want to talk about it. It may not be necessary, and the trauma may be too deep. Counselors will work around visitors, not dig deep, protect her privacy, help her improve her psychological endurance, and stand up slowly without knowing it! However, if the visitor has serious suicide or self-injury, it needs to be handled as appropriate. The purpose is only to protect the lives of visitors. That inner secret may be the key to avoid this behavior, so we need to dig it and pay attention to the ways and means.
When doing psychological counseling, do doctors dig up secrets that patients don't want to tell? Everyone has his own secrets, some so-called secrets are not so-called when others know them, while others just don't want people to know them.
As a person with psychological problems, asking for help from a psychological counselor will also have many secrets. Some secrets are related to symptoms, and some secrets have nothing to do with symptoms.
When doing psychological counseling, the counseling methods and skills of psychological counselors will be different. Some psychological counselors collect a wide range of information and ask more questions, so they may ask some private questions, which is not really helpful to solve the problem.
Some psychological counselors only ask questions around symptoms, or they may involve some secret questions. But at this time, visitors will come out, which is also convenient for counselors to analyze and explain, and the accuracy of analysis will also be improved.
It is very important for doctors to see, listen and ask questions. Since you go to consult, you must explain all the real situations clearly, so as to get effective results.
Of course, the secret you don't want to reveal is probably the root of your illness.
The problem with mental illness lies in our thinking. So how did our thoughts go wrong? Because we didn't think formally, we deceived ourselves.
Freud believed that people's deception to themselves is the root of mental illness.
The spiritual world of human beings has a very important function, which is called repression. Those things make us unhappy, make us miserable, and make us unable to face the insoluble things. In order not to let our pains last or last forever, we will suppress them to the subconscious.
In other words, we choose to forget and not face it at the level of consciousness.
But these things will not disappear because of the forgetting of consciousness. He is still active in the subconscious, ready to pop up at any time. After he came out, his mental illness began. Just like the demon in the legend of Shu Mountain, once the demon comes out, people are no longer controlled by it.
It is difficult or impossible for us to reconcile with what is suppressed in the subconscious.
The process of psychological counseling is to help you open the impedance and let you face those repressed impulses, thoughts and wishes. These may be things that you couldn't bear and dared not face before, but now you have the ability and possibility to solve these problems.
Avoiding secrets you don't want to mention is equivalent to telling the doctor that you are ill, not telling him any symptoms, and not asking him to do any tests for you.
Psychological counseling is neither reasonable nor comforting. If you are afraid of revealing your privacy, you can sign a confidentiality agreement with a psychologist. But in theory, you can't hide anything from psychologists. Hiding means that he can't do anything about your illness.
You can answer for sure, no.
Generally speaking, when we seek the help of psychological counselors, they will help us sort out the counseling goals you want to seek or achieve. Maybe your expression is scattered and trivial, and the counselor will repeatedly explain to you what the problem you want to solve is.
After clearly understanding the problem you want to solve, they may ask you to describe the dilemma or challenge you are facing at present. It's all based on your wishes. How much you are willing to disclose is the right of every visitor. Psychological counselors should fully respect what visitors say and what they don't say. But a good counselor will guide you to express yourself through some counseling methods.
The more you expose yourself, the more likely they are to find problems quickly, and they will give some guiding suggestions for your problems. Note that he won't force you to do anything here, but find what you are willing to do and effective from your words.
On the other hand, if you don't want to show yourself or mention someone or something, it's also worth reflecting on. Is there anything you don't want to tell? Why don't you want to disclose this? The psychological counselor will infer the emotional motivation behind it according to your words or your behavior during the consultation process.
A good psychological counselor will not jump to conclusions, let alone have any obsession with the secrets of visitors. It is a basic moral character to remain objective, sober and neutral, and not to mix one's own personal feelings.
Because their ultimate goal is not to pry into your secrets, but to help you and solve the difficulties you face together. If you receive counseling with a very open mind, you will make great progress. This growth means that you will see the world from a broader perspective and understand and accept yourself more easily.
Psychological counseling is not a process of telling secrets, but it is necessary for counseling if you can be frank and open in this process. In addition, the doctor will ask some questions about the visitors, without telling secrets.