You can't let me marry you without adding my name to the house. Phoenix man made unreasonable demands and angered his fiancee. Is this marriage still a marriage?

First of all, let's talk about what is Phoenix Man? Phoenix man generally refers to a man who is poor, struggles through his own efforts and finally succeeds. It's like flying out of golden phoenix in a ravine. Successfully walked out of the poor and backward mountain village, hoping to marry a girl in the city and take root in the city from now on. Although they have changed their identities through their own struggles, their ideas are still backward, ignorant, inferior, ignorant and male-oriented.

First, judging from the sentence "I can't marry you without my name in the house", this Phoenix man wants to have both money and people. I married a girl in the city, changed my identity and gained a sense of accomplishment. Marriage with empty gloves can also get a house, which provides a material basis for himself to take root in the city and completely changes his identity. Therefore, this marriage can't be married. He doesn't love his fiancee, but regards this marriage as a means and transaction for his success. Selfish, out-and-out egoist. If we compromise with him now, there will be endless trouble. After marriage, he will ask his wife and her parents endlessly, not only for himself, but also for relatives and friends unreasonably because of his male chauvinism. If you refuse him, you will be kidnapped by morality and verbally violent. Say that you are selfish, that he can achieve today thanks to the help of relatives and friends, and people should know how to be grateful. And so on, until your home is dragged down. When you can't help him, he is likely to cheat. Phoenix man is unreliable.

Second, Phoenix Man has another problem, ignorance. Therefore, after marriage, in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Phoenix Man will definitely stand on the mother's side unconditionally, no matter who is right or wrong. Phoenix man thinks that his mother has suffered a lot for his growth and success. He is living a good life now and should repay and honor his mother. But because of his ignorance and male chauvinism, he thinks his mother should be taken care of by his daughter-in-law. If I marry you, you should take care of and respect his mother. Moreover, when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are in conflict, he will kidnap you morally, say that you are unfilial, say that you are in charge of everything, and say that you are not like what a cultural person should do, and so on. Let your life fall into a quagmire, unable to extricate yourself, unable to break free.

These are just two reasons why I can't get married. There are many reasons why I can't marry Phoenix Man, so I won't go into details. Interested people can watch the two TV series "Double-sided Adhesive" and "New Marriage Age".

Of course, the above remarks are only based on the topic. We can't kill everyone with one stick. Many people who are born in poverty and succeed through their own efforts are excellent, smart, frugal and have strong working ability. Because of their childhood experiences, they are easy to empathize and understand others. Therefore, people are different. When you meet people, you should analyze specific problems.