The house that has troubled me for the longest time and impressed me the most is that I have a large number of old houses, and sometimes I even feel that there are many such houses. The first characteristic of these houses is that they are big. Every family has many rooms, but I don't know exactly how many. One room is set up one by one, and the other room extends in all directions. Every door is accessible. The second feature is dark, not black, because it can be seen, but the light is very dark, giving people the feeling that it is dark, not bright enough, wet and not feeling. The third feature is that it is empty and there are not many furnishings in the house. I feel that no one has lived for a long time, and I vaguely feel that there are dust and garbage on the ground, walls, doors and windows. The fourth feature is ancient. This house is an ancient building. I have never seen such a large building community in real life. I don't know when it will be completed. In my dream, I feel that my ancestors separated my brother. The fifth feature is that the building is old, and all kinds of wood, columns, rafters, doors and windows that make up the building are black, just like smoke and fire for thousands of years, leaving a dark feeling. The sixth feature is leakage. I don't know how many years no one has lived, cleaned or maintained. Some rooms seem to have no doors, and some rooms have broken doors. The hollowed-out panes are connected inside and outside. There is no paper paste, no curtains, and the roof doesn't seem to leak. The biggest problem is that the back door is almost dilapidated. Many times, this place will clash with thieves and bad guys. Every time I come to the back door and see the broken back door, there will always be a strong sense of insecurity, and then the expected conflict will occur, and most of them will wake up in the fight.
Last night, I dreamed of that house again. The difference is that this dream is a modern building, like a flat. In addition to new furniture, one of them has some old furniture piled up, and the wooden sofa is piled high and not very elegant. What do I want to do with these old furniture? Suddenly I saw a big back balcony behind the house. I went out to have a look. It is wide and long, with bright light and a back door leading directly to the outside. Going out, there is a big square outside, and some people walk in twos and threes. I feel it's getting dark, and there's a voice in my ear: be careful of the bad guys! I want to hurry back and watch the pedestrians around me. When I came to the back door, I saw three or four men staying outside the door, wondering if they were thieves or robbers. Knock at the door quickly, and the second brother will open the door immediately. When he enters, he will close the door immediately and find it is a tattered thin wooden door. More importantly, people outside are already kicking or pushing the door. While fighting from the inside, the two brothers shouted 1 10 to call the police, and they couldn't make a phone call at all. They just shouted: 1 10, 1 10, I want to call the police, there is a bad guy robbing, come and help! Bluffing, trying to scare away the bad guys outside. Finally, we didn't resist opening the door, but the door was knocked down. Two men rushed in, and each of our brothers fought with one person. I feel that my opponent has a knife in his hand, and I don't know where to grab a poker and want to stab him. At this moment, my dream woke up.
As an addict of Jungian psychoanalysis, and as a psychological counselor who has been using imaging technology to help people for a long time, I also have a lot of practice and contact with the analysis of house images and visitors' dreams. It is necessary to analyze yourself for career development and personal growth!
Dream analysis, not every dream has analytical value, only the dreams with deep impression, frequent themes and great conflicts that annoy the dreamer have analytical value. From my personal experience, dream analysis mainly focuses on four aspects: environment, physiology, psychology and extrasensory.
Consider environmental factors first. The hot and cold climate makes people dream of burning in the ice, snow or fire, dreams of being crushed by their own hands or other people's hands and feet or other heavy objects, dreams of supersaturated hunger, dreams caused by uncomfortable sleeping position, dreams caused by external sounds ... Most of these dreams caused by external factors have no analytical value.
Followed by physiological factors. People are advanced animals, and advanced animals are also animals. Of course, they have animal instinct. Eating food is also sex. I hope there is food everywhere when I am hungry, and there is food and drink everywhere I go; When you are thirsty, you should drink tea everywhere. When you are anxious, you should look for toilets everywhere. Sexual dreams are also a normal response to physiological needs. After thousands of years of evolution, people still have some special functions, some of which are more advanced than modern instruments, which can give early warning to diseases of various organs and even cells in the body. The reason is simple, such as catching a cold. When you feel a cold, it is actually that cold germs have accumulated enough, not that there are cold germs at this time. In the same way, when our organs are diseased, we don't know whether we don't feel abnormal or whether we detect it through physical examination. Dreams may tell us in advance that an organ has a problem and deviates from normal through some symbolic means. If you can understand it, you can intervene in advance to prevent the further occurrence and severity of the disease.
The third is psychological factors. If you judge a person by his dream behavior, there are no good people in the world, because good people will do bad things in their dreams; If we judge individuals by their dream behaviors, there are no bad people in the world, because bad people will learn from Lei Feng in their dreams. Why? From a psychological point of view, everyone has positive emotions and negative emotions inside. From the perspective of biology and sociology, people have both animal needs and moral needs. From a religious point of view, man is composed of divinity and demonism. Various schools have debated whether human nature is good or evil, whether it is both good and evil, whether it is not good or evil, and whether it is good or evil. It has been inconclusive for thousands of years.
Psychology believes that dreams are the realization of wishes. Some dreams reflect the dreamer's sober thoughts or long-term pursuit of work, study and life.
Dreams are symbolic psychological compensation. People have a need for work, because work can not only bring us clothes, food, shelter and cars, but also satisfy our desire to realize ourselves; People have the need to learn, because learning can let us keep up with the pace of the times, surpass others, and gain a sense of security and self-esteem; People have the needs of life, enjoy the warmth of family, enjoy food and enjoy good medical conditions; People have leisure needs, and we all want to be alone. We also hope to have a relaxed life, travel and vacation, and visit and observe without tasks after hard work. People have the need to communicate, and we need others to share their achievements, pressures and troubles, which is the advantage of social animals. Maslow's hierarchy of needs also puts forward that people have missing needs: physiological needs, security needs, love and belonging needs, self-esteem and respect needs, growth needs: self-realization needs, surpassing needs: surpassing needs. People have so many needs, but the reality is often very skinny, there is no condition to take care of them one by one, or individuals do not pay attention to properly adjust and meet their reasonable needs, so they realize their wishes in their dreams. Good people don't mean that they don't have other biological needs, that they don't have irrational thoughts, that they are excessively bound by external irrationality or self-discipline, that they should, must, shouldn't and can't do too much, that they deeply suppress some needs that can be adjusted and satisfied to the depths of their hearts, and even that they mistakenly think that they don't have those so-called low-level needs, so they may do bad things, steal, care, attack and incest in their dreams .. Bad people don't mean that they have no conscience. It's just that he (she) indulges his irrational desires and deeply suppresses conscience, rationality, conscience and morality to his heart. Those thoughts that hope to be lofty and great can only be expressed by dreaming of doing good deeds. This is the so-called psychological balance that is popular now! In reality, there is no conditional desire to meet, but to meet through dreams, so some people say that dreams and reality are opposite and reasonable.
The fourth is the extrasensory factor. Some lower animals also have the ability to predict the future, and it is not surprising that people have some ability to predict the future! Although modern science may not recognize it, many people have experienced what will happen in their dreams in the future in advance. With the deepening of science, it is not surprising that one day it will be able to explain this truth. Let's take it as normal.
Having said that, what's the point of my house dream? Self-analysis may be lenient and biased, but the practical significance and life significance of analysis must be priceless to me personally and beneficial to you.
The first characteristic is big. Chapter 25 of Tao Te Ching says: Things are born in harmony. Lonely, independent without change, week without danger, can be the mother of the world. I don't know its name. For Tao, it is an argument, and for Da, it is an argument. Death is great, death is far away, and distance is relative. The old road is big, big, big and crowded. There are four big ones in the area, one of which is inhabited by human beings. Man's law is based on the earth, the earth is based on the sky, the sky is based on the Tao, and the Tao is natural. There is a mixture that existed before the appearance of heaven and earth. Silent, empty and intangible, it exists independently and remains unchanged, and it can be used as the mother of all things in the world. I don't know its name, but I reluctantly called it "Tao" and then reluctantly named it "Da". It is endless, endless, stretching for thousands of miles, stretching for thousands of miles, and returning to its origin. Therefore, the road is big, the sky is big, the land is big, and the people's congress is large. There are four kinds of existence, and man is one of them. People learn from the earth, from heaven, from heaven to Tao, and from Tao to their own state. )
As an image, as a symbol, the house symbolizes the human body, and the body is where the soul is! Housing also symbolizes people's psychology, atrium, atrium, that's what it means! Good house, good health and good mood; The house is bad, the body is bad, and the mood is bad. Interpretation of dreams is easier said than done. Not only do I have a heart, but so do you. This big house is not only mine, but also yours. Daoda, Daoda, National People's Congress and Four National People's Congress, so it's not surprising that I have so many big houses. Everyone has a big house like mine, which has been handed down from generation to generation, not just today. It has existed since ancient times, and it does not increase or decrease. This is our self from the beginning. As this body, if there is a saying of immortality, who knows how many such houses have been experienced? What a mystery to me! If you can't say it, leave it to the future or someone who can say it. )
The second characteristic is darkness. Freud's theory of personality structure divides human psychology into consciousness, pre-consciousness and unconsciousness, Jung's theory of personality structure is divided into consciousness, individual unconsciousness and collective unconsciousness, and Buddhism puts forward the theory of eight senses (eye sense, ear sense, nose sense, tongue sense, body sense, consciousness, final sense and Aryan sense). There is one thing in common. Unconsciousness, collective unconsciousness and Araya knowledge are the deepest things in people's hearts. They are very big and contain all psychological contents, which are invisible to ordinary people. Freud described it as iceberg theory. Consciousness is only a small part of the iceberg exposed to the sea, and more than 90% of the psychological content is like a huge iceberg hidden at the bottom of the sea! Therefore, being invisible and unclear is one of the characteristics of the subconscious.
The third characteristic is emptiness. According to common sense, since the unconscious hides all the contents of the heart, the house should be so full that it is difficult to turn around! How can you feel free? Perhaps this is the difference between the inner world and the material world. Its inner world is endless, headless and tailless, and everything seems insignificant and empty! However, I don't know how many years of emotional garbage and dust accumulated there. Is this what Buddhists say: you can't take anything but your career? I don't know.
The fourth feature is ancient. History keeps moving forward, and people are not old. Human evolution always abandons those unsuitable and creates new substances. However, that unconscious world always follows its own laws. People will not change their desires and needs because of the changes in the world. Their desires have not changed, just changed. They live in thatched cottages, thatched cottages, tile houses and cement houses. Eat from raw to cooked to pay attention to taste, wear from naked to hides to cloth to chemical fiber, and walk from riding animals to going to heaven and sea. The demand has not changed, it is still the demand thousands of years ago, so people's hearts are actually very old, which is immortal!
The fifth feature is very old Old-fashioned, it seems reasonable. In fact, this age is not only due to ancient reasons, but also because no one is in charge and no one is sweeping. For a long time, houses have been polluted by smoke and dirt, and people's hearts have been polluted by countless emotional garbage, so they can't see their true colors clearly. The original glory is hidden under the dirt. There is a poem that says: sweeping the floor sweeps the heart, sweeping the floor does not sweep the heart, everyone sweeps the heart, and the world is everywhere. This is terrible! It seems that I haven't cleaned my heart carefully for a long time, and I can't see the original fresh faces!
The sixth feature is leakage. Hollow windows have no stickers, uncovered curtains and fragile back doors. From the physical point of view, it means that the body's resistance is weak, and the gastrointestinal function, especially the posterior segment of the intestine, is problematic (if the mouth is the front door, the anus is naturally the back door). This is the information that the body early warning mechanism told me through dreams! In fact, colorectal ulcer has been my tenacious struggle for ten years.
It is often said that no one is perfect and life is not perfect. It is also said that all beings except Buddha have unsolved problems. The Buddha said that there is a leak in life, and it is necessary to repair fifty-two steps such as ten letters, ten houses, ten lines and ten directions. Until the heart sees nature and there is no leakage. What a straightforward and harsh reality it is to have reincarnation without leakage!
Seventh, the current conflict. Modern architecture, slightly bright, gave me a little confidence, and my efforts were not in vain. I insist on wiping my heart (for a person with a shallow foundation like me, it is the right way to wipe it from time to time). The garbage and stains in my atrium are decreasing, and the original light is gradually revealed. Slowly, the old and broken house will become like a modern new house. The room is full of old furniture, and the old ideas I once enjoyed are shelved and can't guide my future life. I want to find another place to put it, and find that there is a lot of space in the subconscious (back balcony), which is connected with the outside world. I am not a sealed barrier to other creatures! But the reality is that when I am awake, I create images for people and guide visitors to face images of fear and conflict. What I need is to face, talk, accept, tolerate and love ... I don't shy away, don't shy away, don't conflict, and don't treat a man as he deals with you. All the theories and technologies in the dream seem to have happened in a previous life. Only instinct can respond to emergencies, either running away or fighting, and the result is still lost! What a situation it would be if we broke the seemingly empty door and there were no more people clinging to me and the enemy! ? Perhaps only by reaching that peak can we see a different realm.
Why did my second brother appear in my dream and become my strong supporter when I was afraid? Let's talk about a recent incident. A few days ago, my wife and I went to Dayun Hospital for colonoscopy. Then we took a bus from Kunming East Bus Station to Yiliang at 6: 30 pm and stopped at Chenggong Malang at 7: 00 pm. I heard that a truck pulling Chinese cabbage overturned in Banpo, Yang Zong. After nearly five hours of efforts by the traffic police, it finally started at 1 1 40. Results 12 came to the meadow slope and the car stopped again. Asking around, I learned that the Qingshuigou section was frozen and impassable. At two o'clock at night, the master announced that he would lie down completely and wait patiently until tomorrow to see if expressway would lift the ban. Finally, he thanked the Bodhisattva for giving me a daughter and son-in-law. In the middle of the night, he bypassed Tang Chi and looked for the path of Meadow Street, which saved the three of us from the ice, wind and light snow, and finally returned to a warm home at four o'clock in the night. The next day, after the second brother heard it, he blamed why he didn't tell him. He is familiar with this road and can pick us up early. Listening to the second brother's reproach, my heart is warm and moved! In fact, our brothers and sisters have a good relationship. In this case, please do not hesitate to do your best to help! I dreamed that my second brother helped me when I was in danger. First, the wish has come true, but it has not come true in reality. The second is symbolic psychological compensation, hoping that the second brother can always be with us when his brother is in danger (this idea seems a bit selfish and forced); Third, I hope my second brother can explore deeply in the spiritual field like himself; Fourth, I hope I have a persistent spirit in the face of danger like my second brother (the characters in my dream are all my own sub-personalities, appearing in the form of other people's faces and animals, only symbolizing some personality characteristics with this image, and the image of others is just a projection). Why didn't the daughter and son-in-law who rescued us come back in reality appear in the dream? They have done it in reality, of course, there is no need to come to dream rescue again. This is psychological balance!
Of the four so-called bad guys, only two clashed with our brother after breaking the door, giving people a feeling of bearing a grudge against me. The other two also came to join in the fun and didn't bear a grudge against me. If I want to ensure the safety of my home, besides repairing the door, I also need to resolve the hatred. No matter how good the door is, it can't stop someone from thinking about it! I want to cultivate myself, in addition to cultivating myself and understanding everything, I also want to help others and resolve past grievances (unjust relatives and creditors). In Buddhism, this is called self-knowledge and self-knowledge. For Confucianism, "university" begins like this: the way of university is to show virtue, be close to the people and stop at perfection. The truth of the university is to let everyone have their own bright virtue, and then push others, so that everyone can get rid of pollution and start again and strive for perfection. ) To help others is to help yourself! Forgiving others is the original self! Putting down others is putting down yourself! Especially how hard it is to let go of your feelings for the enemy and yourself! Although Einstein also said: love is the source of all energy in the universe! Love is the greatest healing power!
The benevolent is invincible! As long as there is self, people, friends, enemies and ability in your heart, it will never be the realm of benevolence! "I have a big patient, so I have a body. And I have no body, what's wrong with me? " (Chapter 13 of the Tao Te Ching) You see, because you and I are too attached to this body, there are endless troubles and worries; If you don't cling to this body and reach the realm of no self, what pain is there? "Everyone knows that beauty is beauty, and evil has been done; As we all know, goodness is good, but it is not good. Therefore, there is no phase, which is difficult and easy, long and short phase, high and low phase, sound phase, front and back phase. It is based on the sage's inaction and teaching. Everything is rigid without desire, born without desire, done without reliance, and achieved without living. If the husband is not born, he will not go. " (Chapter 2 of Tao Te Ching) It means that people in the world have a sense of beauty and an ugly heart of separation. By the standards of goodness, there are bad separations. Therefore, there is and is not dependent, difficult and easy to depend on, long and short are compared, high and low are inclusive, sound and harmony are integrated, and they follow each other. It is precisely because of the obsession with parting that the worldly desires of emotion, sadness, fear and shock becomes the master of our lives, while the master of self is covered and forgotten. Therefore, saints deal with the world with the principle of inaction and educate with a silent attitude. Let everything develop on its own, not for creation first. Saints help everything grow without misappropriating, do something for everything without self-reliance, and succeed without taking credit. It is precisely because the sage is so arrogant that his achievements will never be lost. This is to let go of merit, forget charity and settle down!
Dream bubble is empty, and persistence is gone. Just because you know that it is a dream bubble in theory doesn't mean that you will really regard it as a dream bubble; It is a dream bubble when it is calm, but it does not mean that it is a dream bubble when it feels urgent; Just because you know it's a dream bubble when you're awake doesn't mean you think it's a dream bubble when you sleep. This is a tenacious habit, which is why you have to practice hard all your life. It is difficult to turn cause and effect into inspiration without making a king kong wish! I'm afraid I haven't dreamed for ten thousand years, and I don't want to wake up, so it's hard to wake up; Although there is no freezing hibernation, abuse has become a habit!
Everyone knows that the things in the dream are not real, but only the symbols of sadness, fear and shock, but the joys and sorrows, treasures, handsome guys and beautiful women, food and wine in the dream are not illusory to the dreamer, but all are so real! Life is like a dream. What if one day we find that everything in reality is also a symbol of our emotions? Who knows? What's the use of talking about topics that ordinary people can't understand? Not telling may be the greatest benefit! Let sages think about cutting-edge things and give them to scientists for demonstration!