However, as far as the traditional culture of China is concerned, girls have always been asked to be quiet because China culture stresses "smiling without showing one's teeth" and "good family background". So many boys may like such girls according to tradition.
On the other hand, from the physiological structure of boys, it is also positive, positive is active, and negative is static, so the combination of yin and harmony should be balanced. Many masculine boys prefer quiet girls.
How else can you understand it? I think it can be understood from the aspect of personality.
Quiet girls give people a subjective image of weakness and obedience, so in the eyes of boys, such girls are easier to be conquered and controlled, and at the same time, they will induce a conscious sense of protection.
We often see "heroes save the United States" in movies or TV series. Heroes are often masculine and handsome, and beautiful women are often weak and quiet. Heroes save the United States, naturally like it. This is the best portrayal of the hero's sense of protection.
And this sense of protection will lead to like or love, because in front of quiet girls, men will feel that they have a role or make a difference!
And if a woman does all the things that boys want to do and want to do, what else can boys do to show their ability or sense of existence?
Therefore, even if you are a woman at heart, you must show weakness in front of boys.
In life, we often see many strong women with successful careers, but their families don't seem so perfect. The root cause is that it is difficult for her man to get a sense of existence! I hope it helps you.
Get rid of troubles and live out joy-Su Xin's psychological painting (ID: Suxin 1920) gives you more.