First, the psychological analysis of Pan Jinlian
Pan Jinlian can't be "willing to be lonely" and abide by women's morality. There are actually three reasons:
The second is dissatisfaction in reality.
Third, I have not given up my yearning and pursuit for a better life.
Fourth, this answer summarizes what Jia Lu said, and everyone is welcome to leave a message for discussion.
We might as well put ourselves in each other's shoes. Will we be willing to be lonely and abide by women's morality?
People are usually strict with others, but tolerant of themselves. People are good at defending their actions, but they are worried about other people's mistakes. Of course, I didn't reverse the verdict for Pan Jinlian, but Pan Jinlian was a tragedy caused by that era, and Pan Jinlian himself was also a victim.
Pan Jinlian was originally a maid of a large family, and the old man touched her every day. Jinlian is unwilling to sue the old lady. At this time, Pan Jinlian's three views were normal and he had a certain spirit of resistance. In ancient times, the maids of large families were all bought with money and had no human rights at all. They are the accessories of their owners, and they want to take money from home freely to redeem them. Which girl around Jia Baoyu dared to refuse him, but threw herself at him. But Pan Jinlian dared to say no, which was courageous among ancient women.
But the price of resistance is cruel. Bad old man gave her to Wu Dalang as his wife. This is definitely a huge blow to Pan Jinlian. Instead of pursuing happiness, he was even more humiliated. In the face of Wu Dalang like that, he is not only ugly, but also not romantic and can't live.
Wu Dalang is nice, okay? In modern society, there is a woman who marries only because the other person is nice. Why did Pan Jinlian admit it?
Wu Dalang also represents a symbol, that is, the oppression and humiliation of her by that society. Pan Jinlian chose to resist this time, resisting the humiliation imposed on him by others by stealing others. But this kind of resistance is intolerable to this society, so things have developed to the point of being out of control.
In a word, Pan Jinlian's Wu Dalang was a tragedy caused by that era, and it was not all Pan Jinlian's fault.
Look at this topic, unpopular.
Since ancient times, only men are allowed to have sex with women, and women have to be widows all their lives. Finally, an ugly "chastity archway" has been set up in generations of women?
These three were decided by the four virtues, and they were decided by Pan Jinlian, but they were broken by Pan Jinlian.
Pan Jinlian first benefited from Zhang Dajia. In the Water Margin, Zhang Dajia saw Pan Jinlian's "shirt with buttons, which was made by Zhang Zuozhi, and Qiao Mo disguised himself", so he "secretly called Jinlian to his room and collected it".
This fellow didn't blame Zhang Duan for carrying a bowl of porridge, but benefited from the soup in the pot, which was also served.
Not to mention, he wants to marry Jinlian to Sancun Wu Dalang. How cruel is this? Since ancient times, "Miss follows the husband", but you have survived a "Miss follows the stump", which is also drunk.
That's all. Marry a Han Chinese, dress and eat, but how can you stand such loneliness for Jinlian, who is in adolescence?
Ms Li Yinhe, a sexologist, has repeatedly studied how to enjoy the body. Sex is the basic requirement of animal nature in life. Isn't that what "die on nipple hill and be a ghost" means? Morality that goes against human nature and human desires is immoral moral dross.
What kind of person is Dalang? Shi Naian said, but Wu Dalang "has always been honest, described as obscene, and it is difficult to do anything about the bedspread." It's difficult to hang curtains on the bed, so Dalang is just a gluttonous person.
Everyone has an animal side, first eating, and then sexual desire. As the old saying goes, food and taste are inseparable, and so is it today. Ms Zhang ailing really hit the nail on the head. "Women's feelings have always been in the vagina."
So, can Jinlian bear it?
If it were you, could you bear hardships?
It is human nature for Jinlian to fall in love with Song Wu's second uncle and be hooked up by Ximen Qing. It is really unnecessary to pretend to be a "sage of Confucius" with a moral hat.
Of course, if you kill someone, you deserve it. But at that time, it was a helpless move.
It can only be said that Jinlian was born in the wrong age. Today may be the wife of a rich family. I wonder how many envious eyes I can attract.
In order to abide by women's morality and keep the name of a virtuous woman, I am willing to be lonely. In the feudal ethical society, many good women were killed, which completely violated the laws required by women's physiology and nature.
Pan Jinlian is a woman, and she has the right to need the opposite sex by nature and physiology. In order to be unwilling to be lonely and abide by women's morality, she bravely declared war on feudal ethics with her own actions and behaviors, broke the shackles of women's morality with her own unwillingness to be lonely, and interpreted the charm of women's survival and life with her own humanity and personality.
This is also the reason why Pan Jinlian is unwilling to be lonely and abides by women's morality.
Let me answer: There are many descriptions of Pan Jinlian in the Water Margin. Because of family changes, my father went to court, my parents died young, and I was forced into a brothel. Thanks to Wu Dalang's help, Pan Jinlian married Wu Dalang out of gratitude. In feudal times, Pan Jinlian had little contact with the outside world, and that description was considered as observing women's morality. It was not until the appearance of Song Wu that this conspiracy was put into action. In ancient times, there was a story about a beautiful woman matching a hero. Besides, I have a crush on Song Wu since I was a child, and I admire this crush even more since Song Wu became a hero. The two brothers are together, and there is a world of difference. Although Song Wu likes it in her heart, because Jinlian has become a sister-in-law, she has repeatedly avoided it out of morality. Pan Jinlian had an affair with Ximen Qing because of his change of heart, his youthful beauty, his failure to be unfaithful to Wu Erlang, his evil thoughts and Yan Poxi's instigation. In that dynasty, the author was the object of criticism, plus a bad woman who didn't keep her virginity! But from now on, couples can't get along, they can divorce and pursue the person they like. You can even criticize Pan Jinlian, and everyone's views are for reference only.
The Old Man in Shi Naian is actually very bad at writing about women. Pan Jinlian's writing in the Water Margin is very boring and contradictory. The most unreasonable thing is that he just said that Pan Jinlian, as a servant girl, not only failed to listen to the temptation of her master, but even reported to Xiaosan, so that she married Wu Da and turned her head and became a bad woman who naturally liked to hook up with men-this turn was urgent and unpredictable.
Fortunately, we have a smile. In his works, Pan Jinlian came alive and became vivid and colorful.
It is an indisputable fact in academic circles that Jin Ping Mei was written in the Song Dynasty on the surface, but in fact it was written in the Ming Dynasty. During the reign of Zhu Ming, there were the largest number of women's chastity archways in Chinese history, and more than 40,000 archways were built at that time.
In stark contrast to the chastity archway, it is the arrogance and extravagance that pervades from top to bottom, from emperors to literati, and the indulgence is popular. Even Zhang, a famous minister throughout the ages and Qi Jiguang, an anti-Japanese hero, is often proud of taking an aphrodisiac at night to control several women.
As we all know, in Jin Ping Mei, Pan Jinlian received strict skills training to please men at the home of Lao Wang (Zhao Xuan) next door. What about the training results? The first chapter of this novel is obscure and clear.
At worst, this naturally led to Zhang's death. Since Zhang used the bud medicine, he has five problems: his back began to hurt, his eyes began to cry, his ears began to be deaf, his nose began to run, and his urine began to drip. This is of course because of Zhang's strong juvenile madness, but on the other hand, if it tastes like chewing wax, how can it be strong? Zhang Zhupo, a gifted scholar, saw this routine early in the morning and wrote: Jinlian beheaded a fool where he tried his hand.
"Under the Lamp" describes the scene of subsidizing jewelry for the five halls to live in before Zhang and Zhang died. During this time, the couple rented a royal house in the west of Zishi Street. Wu Da is still selling kitchen cakes-poor Wu Da can only sell kitchen cakes, and Pan is alone at home, causing many local ruffians to wander around the door. Why do small local ruffians love to visit the Wu family when they have nothing to do?
-This woman sends Wu Da out every day, only eats melon seeds under the curtain, uncovers the reason for the little golden lotus all the way, and seduces this group of people to play Hu Bo dialect in front of the door day by day without saying anything oily. (dictionary)
-Every day, the woman sends Wu Da out, only eats melon seeds under the curtain, uncovers the story of the young Jin Baihe, and seduces the floating children to play Hu Bo dialect in front of the door every day, telling riddles and singing: How did a good piece of mutton fall into the dog's mouth! Words are as smooth as oil, and you can say everything. (Xiu Xiang Ben)
We can see that there is almost no difference between the two versions, both of which emphasize that Pan Xiao deliberately reveals his three-inch golden lotus. In the Song Dynasty, the feet of women in Jinlian were the most intimate parts, which could be easily exposed to people? Now it's almost like a woman likes to hang around in front of the French window naked when she has something to do. Can this not attract onlookers?
Another detail is that both versions wrote that Pan Jinlian sponsored Wu Da to bring his own jewelry to the standard room. Throughout Jin Ping Mei, Pan Xiao doesn't love money, and her support for Wu Da shows that she is not so addicted to the harassment of thugs.
All Pan wants is a man full of masculinity. That's why she complains that Zhang has given all her life's arrangements to such a man, and that's why she complains about Wu Da and doesn't like Wu Da. Even Xiao Xiao himself was angry, lamenting that since ancient times, there have been few beauties and many talented people, and buying gold can't touch selling gold.
First-class novels often have such a characteristic in characterization: the characters change with the writer's environment and his own personality, even beyond the writer's ideas, get rid of the writer's control and develop themselves. Tolstoy's Anna, Balzac's Grandet, Zola's Nana … countless vivid images are like this.
Pan Jinlian is also such a figure. She grew up in abject poverty. During the 16 years from 9 to 25, nothing was decided by her, even when she got married. Therefore, when she first met Wuer, she couldn't help thinking: How did my mother's younger brother give birth to my little Ding tree? He is like a man and a ghost, and he suffered a plague in his life! Since Song Wu is so strong, why not ask him to move to my house? I think this marriage is here.
I don't know if you found out when you watched Jin Ping Mei. In fact, Pan Jinlian and Song Wu are a couple who echo each other from afar. Song Wu didn't care about property, and the reward of 50 taels of sycamore obtained by fighting tigers changed hands to Orion. Pan Jinlian doesn't value money either, and can take the initiative to take out the jewelry he has accumulated for many years (even if he is not satisfied with him). Pan Jinlian claimed to be a "man without a headscarf", and Song Wu often boasted of his indomitable spirit.
In this situation, Pan Jinlian, as Beethoven said in Germany, is determined to hold the fate by the throat and stop being at its mercy! She decided to take the initiative and win Wu Er.
The action of taking Wu Er away was unsuccessful, which dealt a great blow to Pan Jinlian. Later, she married Simon's family. Her birthright is inferior to that of the first wife, and her ability is inferior to that of the second wives, Li (bookkeeping) and Sun Xuee (cooking). The money is not as much as that of Meng Yulou and Li Pinger. The only thing she can rely on is her body.
So when Ximen Qing died at the end of the novel, Wu Yueniang drove Pan Jinlian away, and Song Wu returned to Qinghe County to buy Pan Jinlian as his wife in case of Amnesty. Her past feelings made her have unrealistic fantasies and eventually died by Song Wu's sword.
Throughout his life's misfortunes, some critics have said it very well: Jinlian is a scorpion, and whoever touches her will sting. Although it is vicious, it is also for survival!
Thank Xiao Xiaosheng for inventing such a role for the history of classical literature, which is especially rare among those who are full of talented people, beautiful women, loyal ministers and good generals.
For women, it is necessary to talk about female morality. This formulation should be feudal and harmful. Should men abide by men's morality? She only married Wu Da because she was at the mercy of others. It is true that she pursues love and is loved. It's just that she met the wrong Ximen Qing and killed Wu Da. In the final analysis, she meant nothing to women at that time. So today, shall we talk about ways to keep men?
I still blame Pan Jinlian.
When I was young, I blamed Pan Jinlian for being idle. Now more than 30 years have passed, and great changes have taken place in society, but my opinion has not changed: since Pan Jinlian married Wu Dalang, he should behave himself and live with him honestly. This is a woman's morality that decent people should at least respect. There is no reason to hook up with Ximen Qing. If you really don't want to live with Wu Dalang, leave him forever and find a satisfied husband.
In recent years, quite a few people have "done something unconventional" in the name of opposing feudal ethics, and even beautified Pan Jinlian's idleness, excusing her and reversing her case. I beg to differ. This view is harmful to family and society. Some people's men or women are not divorced, but because of their bad partners and other reasons, they have sex outside and have fun, which destroys the harmony of the family. Family is the constituent unit of society, so it also damages social stability.
I think we should be cautious, scientific and adhere to materialism when evaluating people and things in historical or literary works. If we affirm ugliness, it is equivalent to giving it a green light in the real society, which is essentially a denial of beauty and will inevitably lead to the consequences of precipitation and countercurrent.
Zhang Ailing wrote in Lust, Caution: "The way to a woman's heart is through the vagina".
According to the Water Margin, Pan Jinlian easy virtue failed to seduce Song Wu, but he was jealous. In addition, Wu Dalang, as a man, can't satisfy Pan Jinlian's spiritual and physical needs for men. And Ximen Qing, who is accustomed to romance, seduces on purpose. Several factors together, Pan Jinlian betrayed Wu Dalang and committed himself to Ximen Qing, which is natural.
Is the adultery between Pan Jinlian and Ximen Qing accidental or inevitable? According to the book, Pan Jinlian accidentally slipped a small fork rod with a fork curtain from his hand and hit Ximen Qing on the headscarf. Ximen Qing was about to have an attack. Looking back, she said, Ah, what a beautiful sister, "Anger has gone straight through the land of paws and turned into a smiling face". This scene happened to be seen by Wang Po, the master of pimping, so there was the "Wang Po's bribery amorous feelings" and the most famous "affair" in the history of China literature.
This story, seemingly accidental, is actually inevitable.
First of all, Pan Jinlian was rejected and warned by Song Wu, and her feelings and self-esteem were seriously hurt. With her personality, she won't stop there, either continue to pester Song Wu or have an affair elsewhere.
Second, who is Ximen Qing? That's a famous upstart and official in yanggu county. What do such people do when they have nothing to do? Doctor of foreign languages? Does he need it? Is debauchery, is looking for a woman, of course, is looking for a beauty like Pan Jinlian. Pan Jinlian, as a famous beauty in Zishi Street, can't hide from Simon's eyes sooner or later. After seeing Pan Jinlian, Ximen Qing went to Wang Po to find out whose wife this beautiful sister is. When I heard that it was Wu Da's wife, I couldn't help sighing. A good piece of mutton fell into the dog's mouth. In order to get this mutton out of the dog's mouth, he couldn't let go of Pan Jinlian.
Third, it is hard for Pan Jinlian and Ximen Qing to be unfaithful to a pimp like Wang Po. The combination of Wang Po's Ximen Qing and Pan Jinlian is a classic pimp, which can be adopted by all pimps at home and abroad. Her theory of "Pan Lu Deng Xiao Xian" and her step-by-step "very bright" seduction method are staggering.