Since we broke up, we should accept the fact that we broke up and can't face each other with our previous mentality. For example, if the other party doesn't reply to you, you can't start complaining because of this and affect your mentality. This is actually a very normal phenomenon. Besides, at this time, the other person is not the one who can appear at your side immediately with a phone call when you are in a bad mood.
At this time, we should learn to change roles, try to get along as ordinary friends, and don't give each other more pressure. This may not be easy, but when we are in the process of redemption, we must learn. Otherwise, the other person will still be alert and think that you are determined and that you are pestering her. It will only do harm to your recovery.
You have to understand that in the process of redemption, sometimes you can only continue to get along well if you lower your status.