Some time ago, a brother said, "I get along well with a girl." I like her very much and am ready to develop with her. " But I found that when I chatted with her, she sometimes answered slowly, and sometimes even deliberately didn't. I saw her send a circle of friends and ignored me. Teacher Ye Zi, why is this, girl? Are you testing me? Still don't like me? "In fact, this problem still needs specific analysis. If you are interested, please take a look with me.
If this girl is the girl you are after, then she deliberately refuses to reply to your message, or deliberately replies slowly, then her purpose is actually very simple, or she is not interested in you. It's normal to tell you this way.
In the process of pursuing girls, it is inevitable to hit a wall. Sometimes a girl doesn't like you at all, and it's normal that she doesn't want to reply to your message. If you still don't know how to restrain yourself and continue to send messages to girls at this time, then the girl's little dark room is waiting for you.
Either girls want to be reserved and use this method to test your sincerity. See if you really like her and have enough patience and gentleness to share with her. Then this is a psychological idea that girls deliberately don't return your messages.
Maybe some brothers have something to say, so what should I do in this situation? Don't worry, you can't come. Pick up your little notebook and write them down.
1, you can send another message and do a test.
When the girl doesn't reply to your message, you can send another message every once in a while to sound it out. You can choose to send it immediately after the first message, or you can choose to send it a few hours later to see how the other person's attitude is.
Maybe some brothers have something to say, and she won't return my messages. Why should I send it to her again? The purpose of sending her a message again is actually to make sure that the other party really doesn't want to talk to you. If it takes a few days for a girl to reply to your message, you should ask her if something happened. Sometimes a girl really has something to do, and she ignores your information. You need to ask her why.
2. The second is to turn the waiting time into the time for you to improve yourself.
Many brothers are always anxious in the face of this situation, and they can't do anything well, just thinking in their minds why girls are like this. I'm telling you, if you do this, it means that you have emotional entanglements with girls, which will not play any role in your pursuit of girls.
What you have to do is not wait for her to reply to you, but use this waiting time to make yourself better. For example, you can read a book or watch some inspirational videos during this time. You can also send a few friends to show your personal value and see if girls will take the initiative to talk to you.
In fact, in general, sometimes girls disappear without replying to you. Don't be paranoid. There are many possibilities for not replying to your message. Maybe sometimes I don't pay attention, or my mobile phone is broken, and so on. Generally speaking, as long as a girl doesn't dislike you, she will reply when you send her a message. After all, replying to messages is also a kind of respect for people. If a girl hasn't returned your message for a long time, you should ask her if something happened or think about whether she did something wrong.
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