I remember I sent my daughter back to Changchun on February 2nd. The night before, my daughter clung to her mother, unwilling to go back to school and willing to stay at home with her parents. Her mother said angrily, you go and leave me alone at home! I need to go to Dezhou East Station at seven o'clock in the morning. I washed my face in a hurry, ate a mouthful of rice in a hurry and went downstairs. My daughter added, I really don't want to go. Her mother said, don't be melodramatic, or you will miss the bus.
Get in the car and drive all the way to the station. On the way, my daughter complained again, and she refused to leave home and her parents in every way. I'm surprised. I heard that children who go to college are generally like this: they miss home when they are freshmen and call every day; When I was a sophomore, I called less and contacted my parents when I was short of money. Junior parents should take the initiative to call them, but they are impatient with their parents' concern; Senior three seems to forget my parents and think about how to find a home outside every day. But my daughter is a junior, and she can't bear to go back every time. Sometimes I bicker with her mother and get angry. She also said: many students go home late or don't go home during holidays, studying and traveling at school; Why did I go home? I thought I hung you two up! No matter how we explain it to her, we don't have to be with our parents. We are not old enough to be taken care of. Let her study with peace of mind. It's not too late to think when we are old, but she won't listen. I remember practicing driving with my daughter in winter vacation. When I went to Yuan Jinghua's apartment for the elderly, I pointed to introduce her and said that when we were old, we would come to live in the apartment for the elderly. When my daughter heard it, she was anxious and said she couldn't come. You're not childless. No matter where I live, you must follow me. Afraid that she would affect driving, I had to say vaguely, okay, okay, I'll follow you. In the car, chatting, my daughter said that many girls in her department want to study abroad. I asked her if she would like to go abroad. She said, don't go, miss Jia, hang you two. I didn't say anything, but my heart was full of sweetness. It is true that daughters are parents' little cotton-padded jackets. Although secular people are willing to have children, it is difficult to hide their yearning for "a daughter who knows how to hurt people." Especially couples whose first child is a boy are very eager to have a daughter in their second child, so as to appease their desperate hearts.
Arrive in high-speed railway station at about 8: 30 and 9: 43. There's plenty of time. Another classmate's child is a boy, a freshman. Wait until they are ready to pull in, then let them pull in. My daughter doesn't want to go in early. In front of outsiders, although she no longer said she didn't want to leave, we knew her expression. The boy hasn't got the ticket yet, so he went in to get it. After picking up the ticket, he sat on the suitcase, played with his mobile phone in the railing of the waiting room and looked around the hall. His mother looked at him and told us that my son was only wild. Last year, before he went to college, he kept shouting, why didn't school start? I hope to fly to school after receiving the notice. After I went to college, I almost didn't take the initiative to contact my family. Sometimes I chatted with him on WeChat and rarely returned. When I came back this winter vacation, I made him miss his mother. He actually leaned over my ear and whispered-mom, to tell the truth, I really don't miss you! So sad! I am also looking forward to starting school during the winter vacation, saying that I am tired of staying at home. We comforted her that the child was still young and sensible. She said, hey, Bai Yan, every child (one person, one character). When we were talking, we turned to look at the boy. He looked into the hall, not missing the day when he left home at all, but looking up at the blue sky like a bird, flapping his wings and flying. Is the difference between girls and boys so great because of gender? I can't figure it out. From a cultural point of view, most words that are satisfied with family are related to women, such as the word "An", which means that the house is deformed and there is a woman in it, and the meaning is not difficult to understand. The word "marriage" is also a proof that the support for in-laws is mainly marked by women. Most animals in nature are also maternal descendants, and males go out hunting and defending activities. In the words of boys and mothers, this phenomenon may also be better revealed-their children.
On the way home, not far from the station, my daughter sent a message in the family group, saying that she had just got on the bus and was heading for Changchun. The wife called the boy's mother in the car in front and said that the boy's mother said that her son had no information at all. She asked her wife to tell her something in time and her son not to contact her.
At home, at four o'clock in the afternoon, my daughter sent a WeChat and got on a taxi to go to school.
At six o'clock, my daughter sent WeChat, intending to wash the dirty clothes and sheets before the holiday.
At eight o'clock, my daughter sent WeChat. She had finished washing clothes and sheets, and was resting to prepare for dinner.
At ten o'clock, my daughter sent a WeChat saying that take-out was no more comfortable than eating at home.
Every day, my daughter still sends pictures of three meals, complaining about how oily and unhealthy the school meals are. Might as well cook at home.