I was really moved by their understanding and acceptance of me. In order to give my wife a good home, I have been working hard silently. During the epidemic this year, I bought my wife a house she liked in Beijing. Seeing her joy, I feel that everything is so worthwhile. My mother-in-law told me that she would help me repay some loans every month. I told my mother-in-law: You and your daughter have never abandoned me. Now that I have the ability, how can I ask you to help me do it? Personal feeling: to form a family is not to take from each other, but to understand and give to each other, so that the family can be harmonious and everything can be beautiful!
It depends on people. A calculating daughter-in-law will ask for this! This is the case in my family. I gave my son a house as a wedding room and planned to transfer it to my son. And proposed to add the name of the wife. As a result, my wife refused. The reason is that if so, the daughter-in-law is a tenant, and she will be restricted from buying a house in the future. In short, anyone who offers to add a name can't take it. These scheming women talk about safety, but they are actually calculating.
On the other hand, the man cheated and divorced, and there was nothing to lose. The woman packed up and left. After all, she wants to have her own house, buy a house with her husband and live a down-to-earth life. However, a man who has no real estate lives in his parents' house, and only the woman is passive, so there is no need to be passive. I don't agree with you. It is not objective to say that women want real estate when they talk about houses. For such a man, it is better to break up with such a person, and there is no need to be such a person.
Mainly because the house is expensive now, basically parents can only buy a suite with all their savings. And now the divorce rate is too high, and your parents don't know your girlfriend very well, so they dare not agree to add your girlfriend's name. If your parents are old and your marriage changes, the elderly can no longer help you buy a house. You should understand your parents. Your girlfriend needs a name, which is understandable. She also wants to get half of the property in case the marriage changes and give herself a guarantee. But this is wholly owned by your parents, not yours. You must do the work for her. You should be grateful that if you don't pay a penny, you will have a house to live in when you get married. Now many young people are saving money to buy a house. Self-reliance, not relying on parents, love can not give up, live your true self and work hard.
But then again, people are influenced by different social environments, which makes the old couple do something wrong. Now it seems that as they grow older, they have realized that they did something wrong at the beginning, so everyone will make mistakes when they want to see their children. Please forgive the old people. I don't think you can understand what I said. When you get old and reach your parents' age, you will feel your parents' feelings. The only person around them is you. Please think twice. I don't think it should be added. Why should the man's parents add the woman's name to the house they have worked so hard to buy all their lives? These days, who can guarantee that they can live a lifetime? If you don't add it, you feel that the man is incompetent. What are you doing with that incompetent man? Running for feelings? Then what do you mention by name? Being a man is too double standard. The last sentence, if you have the ability to buy it yourself, everyone is out of nine-year compulsory education, and the starting point is the same.
Regardless of whether your girlfriend's name is added or not, I wonder why your father's name is written in the wedding room I bought you. That's why it's so hard for you to marry your girlfriend. This is pre-marital property. Write your name. Your daughter-in-law can't leave after the divorce, but parents don't even write their son's name. Obviously, your daughter-in-law will not be allowed to share the house, and your future marriage will be difficult. Because that's what my mother-in-law did. She said this was her son's wedding room, but her name was written on it. I didn't say anything at the time, and their family's thoughts were obvious. Until now, my husband himself regrets why he didn't let his mother write his name, because he has a younger sister who comes back to me every day crying for money and tells my mother-in-law that she can't count on us when she is old.
And my mother-in-law gave my sister two houses, a car and money. My husband has nothing here, and the only wedding room we live in is also in her name. After all, my daughter and mother, the so-called wedding room where we live now, will kick us out because of the gossip of my eldest sister, not necessarily. ? Therefore, as a woman, I advise you to be a man. First, it is normal to be defensive when you first get married, and there is no reason to write the woman's name. But don't foolishly write the names of your parents or siblings at home. In the end, it may not be the person next to your bed, but the person related to you.
The divorce rate is so high and the house price is so high. No one is on guard against anyone, and no one's money is blown by the wind. Think about each other's pre-marital property before marriage, which is mainly the property that parents save money or even take out pension money to buy a house, so the marriage will certainly not last long. Some people even think this home is indispensable to him when adding their names. All kinds of fancy creations, the whole family must coax him, or get divorced. Anyway, the fortune will take half of him. The most rational marriage, parents do not rent a house after marriage, parents should be grateful to the young couple. The young couple worked hard together. In fact, this process is beautiful and more conducive to a happy marriage.
There is still a routine: you can get married first. After marriage, the woman will try her best to sell the house she bought before marriage, and then buy a bigger one to take care of the elderly, such as a semester room or something. The purpose is to turn the house bought before marriage into a house bought after marriage!
Girlfriend didn't pay, but asked for a name. This kind of woman can't marry. Is it natural for a woman to gain without giving? No matter what happens, rights and obligations are equal. There are no people who only enjoy rights but don't perform their obligations, and there are no things that only perform their obligations without enjoying rights. The more girls from poor families look a little better, the more they plan to make trouble. There are many friends around me who adopt their daughters and give them a suite. In addition, the man's family doubled the bride price and took it back to her as the starting capital for a new life! One of them found a poor son-in-law and went out to hold a wedding? Respect the man's parents? Let the man's parents welcome guests together? Find a friend with high emotional intelligence to chat with the man's parents? Even the man's parents invited a makeup artist? The boy studies very hard and gets good grades!
Two people are so attached that they have everything in life. It's really useless to part ways without feelings and have more materials! My daughter just got married and bought a house before her in-laws. For some reason, there has been no real estate license in that community, and she has to apply for a certificate recently. My daughter told me that she wanted to ask her son-in-law if her name would be written on the real estate license. I scolded her a few words and felt that she was carrying coals to Newcastle and was disgraceful. I never thought that the son-in-law would take the initiative to tell her daughter that it was just right to let them write their names at this time, and the in-laws also proposed to write their names. Although they are deeply in free love, they haven't been married for a long time, and I am glad that they can get the approval of my husband's family. If people have concerns and don't take the initiative to write girls' names, we should also understand and accept them. Just ask the children to have each other forever!
Parents buy a house in full, why should they write their son's name? When they got married, they didn't have a room for you. When they are rich, they can buy a house and move away. Husband and wife create wealth together and write their own names. You married a boy instead of his parents. Before you get married, you just care about other people's property. Now, whether there is a name or not, buying a house only depends on who pays. When you divorce, you should remove the down payment and value-added part. Both husband and wife pay the house price together.